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Hi! This is about Shiloh/Spork. In addition to all of their abusive and manipulative nonsense, they are also culturally appropriative. They state in VCs all the time that he is a follower of Lilith, who is a Jewish and closed cultural entity and Spork is in no way, shape, or form Jewish and their depiction of Yeshua/Jesus also erases Jesus’ Jewish roots and is considered to be incredibly tone deaf.
Apologies for the delayed response. Thank you for providing this information. I am sorry for the level of discrimination Spork has displayed.
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These people may be abusers but some of the things being done to them in retaliation is straight up harassment. Some have their real names leaked even. Do you condone that?
I absolutely do not condone doxxing in any way, shape, or form. Although the legal definition of doxxing can be ambiguous, Florida State University defines it as follows:
'Doxing is the act of revealing personal information about someone online without their consent. It can include information such as the victim’s real name, home address, workplace, phone number, financial information, and other personal details. The term “doxing” is short for “dropping dox,” with “dox” meaning documents. Doxing is typically a malicious act used against people with whom the hacker disagrees or dislikes. The motivations behind doxing can vary from personal revenge to political ends.'
Real names are considered private information and should not be leaked. I understand that some may view these abusers as dangerous and feel that the information should be shared. However, disclosing such information is illegal and can result in serious legal consequences. Sensitive information, such as real names, should only be provided to the appropriate law enforcement agencies if the situation warrants their involvement.
Since they have come forward to apologize for their actions and had resolved the issues with the other individuals involved at the time of initially being added, Stols will remain off the list unless more recent testimonials are submitted. I still encourage everyone to make their own decisions and judgments about others, both on and off the list.
// Damn we were going to keep it quiet and respectful until this point. because like always. Spork, aka Shiloh can't take accountability and Never does anything wrong despite the fact that this is the what? 6th group of people enmass to cut contact with them?
Spork we were being quiet about it for YOUR sake. Cause you're a bad person and we wanted to be done with you. But fine. We'll do it your way. We blocked you because you're a toxic person who threatens to harm yourself when we don't comply to you. Not because of a fake wedding rp event.
Content and stories under the cut. Long post trigger warning
And because he named dropped us, potentially to potentially insight violence on us. We'll return the favor. We were willing to just soft block and call it a day but then you do this? We knew you were a karen but come on spork. This is low even for you.
For those of you that don't know, Spork aka:
patchiesdoodles, decipheringmadness, cxpescxwlsandcrxmes, ifyouwouldloveme, thegreeksknewthescore, fxllen-cne, thxpatriarch, unforgivendivine, AND the-blackened-dove.
Likes to block evade, exhibit controlling tendencies towards their rp partners, leverage marginalization's to groups that he doesn't belong to to white knight and get his way, tone police, sexually harass people mainly on voice call, guilt trip, bully those that speak out against him, use his partners to harass people who block him, vague posts, gives ultimatums, and threaten self harm when he doesn't get his way.
Lets get this out of the way, My experience with spork
I met spork in the muntain june 2023. And it was one of the most grating experience of my life. At every chance they got they spoke over people, talked openly about their sexual trauma when no one has consented to hearing it. And tone policed me, a cambodian/afro indigenous person from baltimore, for using language that was "Offensive to black people." Only to then lay off after yelling at me for a few minutes. When he found out I was black. (Screen shot of me talking to the mod of the muntain afterwards)
I was off put, and upset. That someone who is this complexion
is tone policing me, AN AFRO INDIGENOUS PERSON WHEN I MAKE NO ATTEMPTS TO HIDE IT. IM BLACK.
But seeing as we're a vastly neuro divergent community. I forgave and forgot because it wasn't worth the fight. it didn't stop them from constantly bringing up sexual or traumatic topics. But at the very least. They were upset at me for using AAVE and saying the N word. A SLUR I CAN USE.
But then later down the line. I talked to the muntain mod about introducing my partners to the rp community and to help the transition go smoothly.
I EVEN WENT INTO VOICE CALL AND BEGGED THEM, SPORK SPECIFICALLY. TO BE ON THEIR BEST BEHAVIOUR.
My girlfriend joined on the 30th and my boyfriend joined on the first.
During the first call on the 30th. Spork dominated the conversation and flirted with my girlfriend infront of me upon finding out we were polyamourus. But for the most part was respectful.
On the voice call on the second. They were racist and immflamatory to my boyfriend. Tao. A native mexican man. Spork claims to be indigenous themself but I have no proof of this. But as we all know, Abrahamic religions have decimated the indigenous populations and caused Alot of harm.
On voice call. Spork brings up their LITERAL JESUS CHRIST muse. And talks about their religious trauma. Tao, also talks about his in the form of a joke. "Oh Jesus sure liked to wash feet huh?" A TRUE FACT. NOT THAT BAD. WE ALL HAVE MADE FUN OF IT.
Here comes white knight Spork, yelling at my partner to not make fun of jewish traditions. Its insensitive and blastephemous. Only to then dominate the conversation to talk about their trans jesus muse who openly talks about being abused by god
(Recap of the voice call i had with the mod)
So spork, a white passing person AT BEST, told my darker complexion NATIVE MEXICAN BOYFRIEND. That he shouldn't make jokes about judaism? When spork is a white satanist? And all abrahamic religions not just Catholicism has caused damage to our populations? You didn't even let him say more then that one joke, you didn't even give him 10 seconds to say is name before dominating the conversation again
Sweetie. 1.) Anyone can criticize and make fun of the bible, the torah, or the Quran. 2.) SAYING JESUS WASHED FEET. WHICH IS TRUE. IS NOT AS INFLAMMATORY. As making a gay trans jesus blog AS A ROLEPLAY CHARACTER. To talk about how god abused him.
And these are just my personal experiences with spork.
WANNA KNOW WHAT HAPPENED WHEN THEIR FRIEND POLITELY ASKED TO STOP SHIPPING BUT STILL BE FRIENDS?
HMMM. THATS WEIRD. THATS A PRETTY POLITE WAY TO GO ABOUT HAVING A CONVERSATION. BECAUSE CONSENT TAKES TWO PARTIES. WHAT WAS YOUR RESPONSE TO ONE PARTY NOT CONSENTING SO YOU DONT GET YOUR WAY?
OH YEAH.
YOU VAGUE POST ON THE DASH, GUILT TRIP PEOPLE FOR STILL ASSOCIATED WITH VOID (gin-n-chthonic) and get upset when you saw them on your dash because you keep block evading them to see if they were talking about you. YOURE MENTAL HEALTH WAS MESSED UP BECAUSE YOUR FRIEND HAD A POLITE CONVERSATION WITH YOU? ABOUT NOT REAL CHARACTERS? AND YOUR RESPONSE WAS A PUBLIC CALL OUT POST. And then you go around to people like slurk.
Who've you've been codependently abusing for a long time. And try to guilt trip them into blocking void.
Because thats a sound response. AS WELL AS BITCH AND MOAN ABOUT IT IN CALL FOR DAYS. THIS ISN'T EVEN INCLUDING THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE A HABIT OF GETTING YOUR FRIENDS AND PARTNERS TO ATTACK AND OSTRICIZE PEOPLE FOR YOU. Remember when jessica was sick with covid. But you wanted an answer so bad. That you sent your boyfriend after her? CAUSE WE DO.
And how you admitted in voice call that you would type from Boogies account to send people things, speak for him. OR ADMITTED THAT ROLEPLAYING IS A SPIRITUAL THING FOR YOU. How these characters are extension of yourself and if they feel pain or rejected you do? So every time someones muse doesn't want to interact with them. YOU A REAL HUMAN BEING FEEL THE PAIN?
cause we do.
SO LETS RECAP. TLDR;
you give ultimatums
guilt trip
block evade
were openly racist to a mexican indigenous man
hit on my girlfriend infront of me
can't read a room socially
send mobs after people
talk about traumatic shit without peoples consent
overly sexual even when we say we're uncomfortable
fly off the handle and go on public tirades when we try to talk to you, then get surprised when no one wants to talk to you and just quietly exits your life
use your loved ones accounts to talk to people who go nc with you
only white knight and virtue signal when its convenient to you
want to control everyones character and insert your muse into everything but when they don't comply you guilt trip, bitch, give ultimatums, or post publicly about not being loved
you weaponize your marginalization as a trans man but are clearly white passing and command alot of social power from your social media presence
sexually harass people around you
and you tone police the people of color around you when we speak up
WE DIDN'T BLOCK YOU OVER A FAKE RP EVENT. WITH FAKE PEOPLE THAT YOU INSIST ARE REAL. WE REFUSE TO BE AROUND YOU BECAUSE YOU REFUSE TO GET HELP FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH. WE BEGGED YOU TO. AND YOU GUILT TRIP PEOPLE WITH THREATS OF OSTRICHCIZATION AND SELF HARM.
If you're wondering why my muse has taken a nosedive it is fully this person's fault. Shiloh has been tormenting my friends, Alexander's mun Slurk in particular, since I 'broke up' the ship with H and Roxxy in mid-December.
After that response I blocked them and Boogey (featured in the above callout as Shiloh's mouthpiece) on Discord and tumblr, but being Shi has many blogs, I know I missed a couple and I speculate that he used this oversight to block evade.
I moved on and continued to put my energy into my rps with friends on Tumblr and Slurk's Discord server (which Shi and Boogey both left after I broke ship with Shi, Shi claiming that merely blocking wouldn't work because they'd be too tempted to block evade and 'wouldnt be civil' with me).
This drove Shi up the wall because I did not seem to be as devastated by them cutting me off as they supposedly were. And I wasn't, because as I stated in the above screenshots, RP ain't that serious to me. It's a hobby I do for fun.
Not included in the callout are the hateful and terrible things Shi has said about me to other people including:
- lying to people about how serious the (fake) relationship between our characters was and how much WORK has gone into it. Spoiler: very little.
- calling me a "taint" on Slurk's Discord server
- misgendering both me and my openly trans character by calling my regular interactions with my friends and writing as Hieron "pick me girl behavior". A derogatory term used primarily for women.
- claiming I have somehow violated their boundaries by mentioning an RP event they were part of to Slurk, who was also part of it, in a single ask to Slurk. I have not interacted with Shi or Boogey since December. Not have I even as much as vagued about them as much as Shi did about me.
(A lot of this was in voice chats so sadly I don't have screenshots, and I'm certain there's more since the actual harassment and jealousy has been going on even longer than before I cut contact with Shiloh)
But yes. I'm glad people are becoming aware of this person's toxic and manipulative behavior.
But I also truly hope this serves as a wake up call for Shiloh so they can reassess and perhaps get the help they need.
Adding my stuff - Since I'm lightly involved. I hate to reblog or put up callouts but if he's going to blatantly put our names up that could lead to harassment, that's it buddy.
Please consider all the above, Below is a screenshot showing that they Actively used Tiktok to Block evade me when I Silently Blocked Them for The Above Reasons
And please consider before I got the message below they Had Not spoken to be OOC Since 11/14/2023 - And the Last time we spoke I was kindly checking on them after some drama in their server.
After that we hadn't spoken and I have been more than civil.
Below are just the screenshots. All pertinent information is above.
I will not ask anyone to stop interacting or block or anything of that sort. I was more than willing to silently block and move on but he decided to make this a problem I had to wake up to.
I know I said months ago I was done with this but since he's starting shit again I'm gonna drop these here. This is what happens when you cut ties with Shiloh, you get your lore taken and your character seemingly killed. I don't know if he ever went through with these plans, don't care. But the nerve to call people childish when you sit up here and do this shit. Apologies if they aren't in order but reading any of them will give you an idea at what to expect if you RP with this man and then cut ties. I don't give a fuck about him or his lore enough to be this petty. I mean hell, at least change the names around.
I set boundaries with Shiloh, esp when all this was going down. Asked him nicely to leave me alone when I was sick with covid and rather than letting me get better and heal so I could have a clear head he sends his boyfriend after me, a post you can see way above this one. or previous RBs since this post has gotten long. So for him to go around claiming we never set boundaries, is a crock of shit. He didn't give a fuck enough to abide by them.
Hello. I just wanted to say thank you for removing me from the blog, as well as thank you to those who have defended and supported me. I wholeheartedly understand documenting evidence, as you only want to keep others safe from harmful and dangerous people on Tumblr. It truly means a lot to me that you read the enquiries from those who contacted you regarding me. Aside from a small incident with a friend (as you witnessed posted on the crystallinebulwark blog), I can truthfully say that I have been actively improving myself and my behaviour. Regarding that incident, my friend and I made amends and I explained the entire situation to crystallinebulwark. Anyway, thank you so much for removing me from the blog and acknowledging my apologies and explanations. I have a more in-depth apology and explanation regarding my past behaviour in my guidelines. If for some reason you receive enquiries regarding me and any horrible behaviour, please date-check the evidence and contact me if you have any questions. I have not been involved in any drama whatsoever since apologising to and making amends with others. Thank you so much again and I hope you have a wonderful night.
You're very welcome. I am pleased to hear that you and crystallinebulwark have resolved your issues, and I hope things continue to improve for you in the future.
Stols has vented and block evaded but they don't deserve to be in the same place as pedophiles and money scammers. Many many people are guilty of what Stols has done, it sucks....but its not abuse. Its just annoying.
Curio, formerly known as Sucrose and Nil in the past, is somebody who consistently guilt-trips and gets up in people's faces when they block him. He's very recently gone out of his way to demonize people who block him under the guise of "I want to know what I've done wrong!". I was content with leaving the situation be after my run-in long ago with him where he got up all in my face for blocking him since I didn't like how he kept asking for smut interactions under the assumption that he might change, but later I found out he's been doing this to people non-stop for years, this is repeated behavior that needs to be addressed.
Newsflash, Curio, as people have constantly stressed to you over the years nobody owes you an explanation. Especially when you have this sort of damn attitude when confronted.
This old blog goes over his past behavior in-depth. Summarizing, outside of guilt-tripping and getting in people's faces over blocking him because of his incessant begging for people to engage with his female oc's that he creates little to nothing but sexual content for, he's defended abusers, harassed somebody writing a duplicate muse of his, and overall has a lot of bark but no bite when consequences finally rear their head.
His current known urls: tridentofoceanus, hub-of-daydreams, fantasyconcrete, violetragnarok, vibescepterofoceanus, fantasycumcrete, shewasthefourth, time-cannot-be-stopped, spectacular-solarflare, sour-peach, paradoxicalcurio
How do you expect people to respect your feelings when you cannot respect theirs by dwelling on them and getting confrontational over a block on a website, Curio. You messed up, and this post is letting you know in detail.
Nobody. Owes. You. An. Explanation. It's. The. Internet.
Grow the fuck up and learn to let go of things. If you wanna pull the "but I have anxiety" card or some shit like that, well. A lot of us in the RPC have anxiety and don't need you screaming in our faces with other blogs that we forgot to block demanding an explanation as to why we blocked you. You claim you want to learn from your mistakes but when someone is outright confronting you, or in the past according to people you've done this to, outright explained to you why they blocked you, you still whimper and moan on your blogs. Fuck off.
Hi RPC. About a year ago, I recalled seeing some PSA's about a roleplayer that was making female writers in the RPC very uncomfortable and s*xually harassing them. He is unfortunately back and actively searching for new people to write with.
His current alias is Deco, but he's been known to go by MJ, Omar, Duncan, and many other names. His past known URLS are apache-gold, overrridewrites, wineandwisdom, and thesevenking (there may be more.) His most current URL is fullofmuses (I would advise you block him and report him.) Long story short:
This user will approach you to plot, supposedly looking for romantic plots. He will only reach out to you if you are a female mun. Once he gains your trust, he will ask for your Discord. He will push your boundaries and try to force you into plots that you may not be comfortable with. He comes off in a way that's very approachable and friendly but will quickly turn sour, even violent, if you do not agree to plot with him on his terms.
He has a history of flirting with/making unwanted advances towards RPers even if they have not given any impression that they're interested in it, discusses plots and tries to push his ideas on you even if you are not comfortable with them, and ultimately tries to set up you up (mostly women in their 20s) to plot with his "father" or "other friend."
He has a few major plot points he is interested, but they almost always revolve around 1. a couple with infertility issues and the female seeking out getting pregnant by someone else 2. a relationship where the female character cheats on the male character 3. inc*stual plots, often times with a female character cheating on her significant other with a father figure. It is always the female OC cheating on his male OC, a third party being needed to help with conceiving, and will usually have infertility, breeding, and inc*st as common themes within.
Please do not fall victim to this person. He is extremely manipulative and does not care about your writing. He uses roleplaying as a way to find and harass women, and if he finds out any information about you OOC, he will not hesitate to continue harassing you outside of the RPC/Tumblr. He found Tumblr after following a roleplayer that he'd been harassing and chasing her off the original platform they were on.
Red flags, patterns and signs that it is him that you are interacting with:
He only writes male OCs.
He is very interested in Marvel/DC and Game of Thrones/HoTD.
His plot/genre interests include a variety, "slice of life" and "dramedy" being some of the main ones.
His rules are always the same/mention being interested in writing "unorthodox" plots.
He messages or DM's you seemingly out of nowhere to ask if you're looking to plot.
He claims he works at an airport to some capacity (either handling luggage, doing security, sometimes even as a pilot.)
He says he's in his late 20's, usually 28 or 29.
He says to be based in either Colorado and/or California.
He constantly talks about himself, his physical appearance, and/or his personal hygiene.
After he settles a plot (if he doesn't get blocked or ghosted first), he asks roleplayers if they are willing to plot romance and/or smut with either his father or his friend.
His likes and following list are always public.
He makes himself out to be the victim if he is blocked by other writers to try and gain your sympathy.
He talks in a way that makes it sound like he is supportive of your plot ideas but always tries to spin it to fit what he wants, even if you've stated you are not comfortable with it.
This person's known Discord accounts:
𝐅𝐈𝐍𝐀𝐋 𝐁𝐎𝐒𝐒 #9647
intrepid thoughts. #2115 (his "dad")
underscorebluff.#5950
lektro.#9073 (his "friend")
ruggedblade (most recent as of June 2024)
I have confirmed the above facts and all the information with multiple people who have talked to him, have experience writing/plotting with him and/or have been harassed by him OOC.
Please keep yourself safe from this person, as he's been harassing women in this space for years.
