I want to get this point across as clearly and politely as Iām thinking it, wich might be though, as english is not my first (nor second) language: Iām not in any way shale or form condoning, excusing, or trying to diminish the situation, what Sherry did was absolutely disgusting and Iām glad that the victims can maybe have some sort of clousure on the aftermath of the news getting out.
The point I found mysef wondering is: How could Sherry mot think this was gonna happen? How could she not even get in front of the situation on amy of the many weeks that have passed aince she was first cast and later filmed the whole season?
My boyfriend and I were playing a bit of Devilās advocate and were trying to think of ways Sherry should have acted, aside from the obvious ānot like a fucking catfish P.O.S.ā, we came to the conclusion that he should have first, contacted privately (maybe via a buffer person like an attorney) every single one of the guys he took advantage of, apologise to them and most importantly, offered some sort of reparations for what she had done in the past to them. Also, an open letter on her SM admitting her behaviour, showing remorse and, explaining why she did it, as twisted as it might be, something to make us try to at least offer her a second chance, and also try to avoid the huge pile of shit that has landed on the whole season and her castmates, none of whom deserve to be associated with this kind of news.
All of this should have been done even before the cast was announced, even before filming the season. She should have come clean of this as soon as she allegedly āgrew upā as she said in her statement (Or whatever bs she wrote, canāt recall now)
I know that we LGBTQ+ people are forgiving, and we all understand ostracism, so we can relate with how she might be feeling this days, but itās hard to forgive when itās that evident she doesnāt give two shits about the way her actions affected her victims and how them also reflect on our community.
Iām kind of digressing, so Iām gonna stop now. But yeah, thatās how I feel on the topic, she was one of my faves after the MTQs released, so I feel almost like betrayed after all this shit. I cannot imagine what her castmates may have gone through these days, imagine mettimg a new coworker a whole year ago, binding with him and when the timeās is coming for your close-up everythingis tainted by the past behaviour of somebody else.
Also I ask, is it too late for her? Is it still time to right a wrong? And should she be allowed back if she did?
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