Ryu/Chiyong Roh is an abuser

this blog is dedicated to warning people online and especially the Greater Puget Sound area of Washington state, USA of Ryu/Chiyong Roh. He has an extensive history of severe verbal, mental, sexual and physical abuse and tends to target emotionally and financially vulnerable individuals. He also uses the alias of "Kyle"/"Kyle Grier" online.

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A WARNING TO SEATTLE/PUGET SOUND AREA: RYU/CHIYONG ROH IS A SERIAL RAPIST, ABUSER AND PEDOPHILE!

He’s East Asian, short black hair, around 6’4” and usually wears glasses, (edited: age currently 32 as of December 2025)

He has a history of physical, financial, mental, emotional and sexual abuse and tends to target vulnerable young people, including minors, other POC including queer black and brown people, and people with previous trauma from abuse. He has a pattern of frequenting a lot of social justice oriented and leftist spaces to search for new victims.

He has been arrested 4 times on Domestic Violence charges, but he's currently free. He's a very dangerous, manipulative, and violent person, please spread the word

!For more information: visit @ryuisanabuser on Instagram

and surviving ryu - chiyong roh on Facebook

(TW: rape/SA, physical abuse, verbal abuse, pedophilia/online grooming, gaslighting. emotional manipulation)

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Ryu has been frequenting the dma.space in the Capitol Hill neighborhood in Seattle, WA. He has been going since January of this year.

He probably was invited by Alan Meekins, aka null, who is a co-founder and board member of dma.space. Alan has his own DV allegations from his ex partner and parent of his children.

The dma.space is a block or so away from Cal Anderson Park, for locals' reference.

He goes by "Brassy" or "Tabletop Korean" in this space. Be warned and avoid him if you also go to dma.space! He's a serial @buser, p3d0, grapist, stalker, bigot and h@rasser.

Look at @ryuisanabuser for more info or this blog.

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Ryu has since been banned from dma.space for making threats to other members. This is why Ryu/Chiyong shouldn't be welcomed in public spaces anymore. He's an unsafe person.

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Ryu has been frequenting the dma.space in the Capitol Hill neighborhood in Seattle, WA. He has been going since January of this year.

He probably was invited by Alan Meekins, aka null, who is a co-founder and board member of dma.space. Alan has his own DV allegations from his ex partner and parent of his children.

The dma.space is a block or so away from Cal Anderson Park, for locals' reference.

He goes by "Brassy" or "Tabletop Korean" in this space. Be warned and avoid him if you also go to dma.space! He's a serial @buser, p3d0, grapist, stalker, bigot and h@rasser.

Look at @ryuisanabuser for more info or this blog.

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I don't have pictures but I heard that Ryu is now bald.

He seems to go by "Brassy" and "Tabletop Korean" in Seattle spaces.

Be on the lookout for a bald tall Asian man with a slim build and glasses. If you see him, tell him that hes not welcomed. Hes a rapist, pedo and abuser.

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update as of 5/17/2026: New arrest

I just want to update people about what's happening legally with Chiyong/Ryu Roh. He was arrested in 2/6/2026 after assaulting his mother in front of his stepdaughter.

He was charged with Assault in the 4th Degree DV and Exposing a Child to Domestic Violence on 4/2/26.

He now has a bench warrant in Lynnwood because of him missing his Arraignment hearing and it's affecting his other DV case where he was arrested for assaulting one of his partners in front of their baby.

He's still free and I dont know how these cases will play out, but I'll keep people updated here, on X, and Instagram.

For more information, check this instagram and Facebook.

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updated warning of chiyong/ryu roh as of 4/26/2026

Be warned of Chiyong/Ryu Roh! He lives in the Seattle area and he's a serial abuser, rapist, stalker, and pedophile. He also goes by Kyle/Brassy/Nadeshiko, especially online.

He runs an hate page on instagram to get back at his ex for warning people about his abuse. He uses his infant daughter to garner support and sympathy.

Ryu has a long legal history of Domestic Violence and Harassment, he's been arrested several times for such charges. He has a DV conviction from 2022 too.

He has been systematically abusing people since he was a teenager and comes from a very wealthy background. He likes to infiltrate online spaces and leftist/activist spaces to find new victims.

Stories from survivors could be read on this page and on ryuisanabuser on Instagram, Facebook, and X.

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An Important Update: New Arrest

So last month, on November 13th, Ryu/Chiyong Roh got arrested by the police for Assault - Domestic Violence and Exposing a Child to Domestic Violence. Above is a screenshot of his booking details from Snohomish County jail roster.

He was released from jail on bond the next day and has an ongoing court case related to the charges. He's still out there abusing his romantic partners and exposing children to an unsafe and abusive environment.

He might be going as Kyle on dating apps too right now. Below is a picture of him in his Bumble profile.

He's also now 32, still 6'4" (195 cm), East Asian man, and wears glasses. That's all the updates I have of him.

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[Screenshots of direct messages with the following text:

“I can’t believe I was friends with him. I was in a relationship with my now ex in like 2018 and living with him. I’m sorry this stuff happened to you. It must have been after I left.

It’s kind of funny, he used to try and yell at me ALL the time. I was a drug addict then so I never really responded to it. But I can see it now. I’m glad I, too, left. Goodluck!

At the time I helped him move, with a van, and he screamed at the van people because they accidentally double charged his card. I mean SCREAMED. The old lady was crying and the manager just gave it to us for free, like shit man.

He wanted me to push drugs with the car he helped me get. But then he became really controlling and I bowed out and moved somewhere else. Literally because of that shit. And to be honest, fuck that guy. I tried to help him. I’m far from an angel myself, but that was nuts.

This was when he lived in Kent. 2017? 2018? He moved to Seattle shortly after because of his job.”

Text and story ends here.]

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[Screenshot of message with the following text:

"Hey I am Ryu's old friend. He is living in lynnwood still being abusive to his new girlfriend had been fired from a job for being creepy. I wish to stay anonymous as he has called CPS on my family for no reason. He is currently abusing his new girlfriend and her daughter. Leaves a five year old home alone his girlfriend has no idea how bad things are going to be. He has told lies to have her arrested. Has told lies to stay out of jail. Stay the fuck away from him. He is dangerous."

End of message]

This is the most recent story/update published from the Instagram account and Facebook page, it was published back in April 2023.

If you have any more updates on Ryu Roh, also known as Chiyong Roh or "Kyle"/"Kyle Grier", please feel free to contact this blog or the Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter accounts.

You can also reach or send your story/update/questions to [email protected].

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Are there any blogs dedicated to exposing/warning people about abusive and dangerous people on tumblr? Or blogs who share a lot of community/abuser warning posts that I could potentially connect with?

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So I've been trying to add image description and alt/accessibility text to the survivor stories I've posted on here and plan to post on here.

I hope it's readable and makes these survivor stories and community warnings more accessible to visually impaired people and anyone else who needs these additions.

I just want to ask if I'm doing them right and text readers would be able to read the image description/accessibility texts that I've made.

Feel free to message me if you have pointers or anything like that.

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Hi. Quick but important.

Please report this tiktok user. He got a girl pregnant and almost killed her. She was bruised and bitten by him. The police haven't done anything yet. Don't let this guy make a living online. Report please.

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Updated full body photo of Ryu Roh, legally known as Chi Yong Roh, as of 2023. He has lost weight since the online call outs of his abuse have started. Also goes by the online alias "Kyle" or "Kyle Grier".

People in the Greater Seattle area, be warned of this individual! He has one Domestic Violence conviction, several arrests and DV/Harassment cases and an extensive history of abusing other people. He has also raped several people, including former romantic partners and minors, but he has never faced an arrest or legal problems from his sexual abuse of others.

Please share this post to protect people, you don't have to live around Seattle or Washington state to share, you don't even have to live in the United States. Any reblog helps! So does just talking about this with your friends and mutuals and telling them to avoid him. He's probably still active on social media, but on a more anonymous level.

Most of survivor stories from the Instagram and Facebook account have been shared on here too, however if you'd like to be in contact with the person who runs them, you can message them on Instagram or Facebook or email them at [email protected].

You can always DM or inbox this blog too if you have updates, concerns, questions or a story to share!

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⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️

TW: Rape, Physical Abuse, Suicide Ideation, Transphobia

[Screenshots of a thread made by twitter user @noclasstraitors on 6/18/20 with the following text:

“TW: r*pe, assault, p*dophi***

I didn’t want to have to make this post because this is EXTREMELY triggering. Ryu Roh/Chiyong Roh is a r*p*st, ab*ser, and p*doph*le. We began dating last june of last year after he disregarded my boundaries and BEGGED me to be in a relationship with him,

I had said I needed time, and didn’t want to rush into a romantic relationship and he said ‘Just give me one chance.’ He insisted on visiting me in California soon after even though I said we should wait. While he was visiting, I was in a really bad situation, Ryu took advantage of this and suggested that I move in with him.

I moved to Washington where I only knew a couple of people besides him. I found out he wasn’t allowed to have people live with him. He had a lot of control, because I couldn’t leave the apartment unless he was with me because I didn't have keys to the apartment.

Ryu was jealous, controlling and abusive. I was very suicidal because of my relationship with him and someone helped me get health insurance so I could go to therapy and Ryu was very angry. He showed up to my therapists office once and he’s now banned from that office. 

He would interrogate me anytime someone added me on social media. I found out later it’s because he ab*se* many people and he didn’t want his victims to find me and speak to me. When we argued and I would try to leave he would physically stop me from leaving.

Or when I would say I’m done he would tell me I had to leave(when he knew I had nowhere else to go immediately) then would tell me I didn’t want to break up with him, make me say I loved him then force me to have sex with him. He physically assaulted me several times. 

He r*ped me and made me say it wasn’t r*pe. He forced me to do things I didn’t want to do in front of other people and coerced me into other things…..He bragging about r*ping other people to me. At the end of last year he assaulted me and he called the cops on me but this time I was able to escape.

I ran out of the apartment with only a backpack. He told the police I was trespassing and squatting in his apartment meaning I would need police to be present to retrieve my belongings including my cat. It was also December in Washington and I waited several hours in the rain just to try and get my cat and all of my belongings.

There are many people who knew we lived together and he was lying. He lied to the only other people he thought I knew in Seattle because he wanted me to be homeless. He lied and said I’ve done things he’s actually done to me. My friend introduced me to someone who thankfully let me stay with her.

When I received a restraining order, I found out that he had assaulted another person he dated and also broken into another ex-partner’s house. I found out after we broke up, he r*p*d a minor before I met him and I also found out he used to hang out at high schools to “meet” people.

I was informed a month ago (after we broke up ) he was dating a minor who is in high school. Ryu has harassed several people, and not only romantic partners. He continues to attempt to get vulnerable people to move in with him.

For some reason he tends to target people who identify as non-binary, and women. He also tends to target other POC. He lies about the people he has abused, so his future victims won’t talk to them and find out the truth.

He lies, harasses, and threatens people into silence. As we know the system is fucked up and that’s why my rapist who has a history of ab*se is free (to keep abusing)

Other victims have reached out to me, and I know despite others warning people about him he’s continuing to try to take advantage of young vulnerable people. He continues to talk about me online and had his best friend get a job where I work. 

TW: transphobia, I wanted to add Ryu is extremely transphobic and has no idea i’m non binary, I’ve heard him dead name several people because he didn’t like them, but he preys on non binary people.”

End of text and thread.]

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A WARNING TO SEATTLE/PUGET SOUND AREA: RYU/CHIYONG ROH IS A SERIAL RAPIST, ABUSER AND PEDOPHILE!

He’s East Asian, short black hair, around 6’4” and usually wears glasses, (edited: age currently 31 as of October 2024)

He has a history of physical, financial, mental, emotional and sexual abuse and tends to target vulnerable young people, including minors, other POC including queer black and brown people, and people with previous trauma from abuse. He has a pattern of frequenting a lot of social justice oriented and leftist spaces to search for new victims.

He has been arrested 4 times on Domestic Violence charges, but he's currently free. He's a very dangerous, manipulative, and violent person, please spread the word

!For more information: visit @ryuisanabuser on Instagram

and surviving ryu - chiyong roh on Facebook

(TW: rape/SA, physical abuse, verbal abuse, pedophilia/online grooming, gaslighting. emotional manipulation)

[ryuchiyongrohisanabuser]

Ryu Roh, also known as Chi Yong Roh, is now 31 and has lost weight since this original post was made. He has one domestic violence conviction, but he only got probation from October 2022 to October 2024.

He has been arrested several times on DV and Harassment charges throughout the years, and he has been in many more incidents involving the police and other government agencies.

He's still free and free to abuse as he wants. This post and blog exists to warn the public as a whole, but especially the people of the Greater Seattle area and Western Washington of him, so that people won't be abused by him and can avoid him.

The other posts on this blog haven't gotten nearly as much attention as this first one, so anyone who reblogged or liked this post originally, if you see this, please reblog this update and the other posts on this blog. I'd really appreciate it if the other posts are shared too to spread awareness of this person.

This isn't just a call out post, he's a legitimate danger who has ruined a lot of peoples lives and given even more trauma from the abuse he inflicted.

He has displaced several of his exes and current partner from their home states to live with him. I don't know if he'll ever see actual jail time or justice, but what we can in the meantime is protect ourselves and help by warning others about him! So please reblog, tell your friends and share!

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JDoe is an Apple app meant for sexual assault/rape/sexually abuse survivors to anonymously report incidents and be connected to resources, it's a platform built to stop repeat offenders. There's end-to-end encryption to ensure privacy and security.

If you need to use this for anything, regardless if it's related to Ryu Roh, feel free to use it or share this app with a person who needs help reporting their incident(s).

I want this blog to also be a resource for any abuser survivor. I'll be trying to post more information and links to resources for people in between updates.