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Ramblings of a REI with a Heart of Gold, a Love of Aesthetics and Design and Random Stuff I Happen to Like

[samie-ejdesigns-blog]

Aye girl, whatcho name is? Can I holla at you mama?

Lol shut up and get out of my inbox you dork 😂 Ily 😗 We should grab lunch soon.

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When was your last date? Was it with a boy or a girl?

I went on a coffee date probably two months ago. And funny you should mention that because I have a date this Saturday and I'm really stoked about it...yay 😊

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Have you ever had public sex? Where is the wildest place you've done it before?

Never done it in public, not a wild place kind of girl. I'm an innocent lamb 😇😆

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Have you ever been in love?

I have been in love before and got my heart broken both times. I was in a 6 year relationship with a girl and we broke up almost 5 years ago. I was dating my first boyfriend right out of high school for about 3 years. I'm very monogamous when you've captured my heart.

[samie-ejdesigns-blog]

Currently on day 3 of no sleep 😒

[the6raisedme]

[lovepeacexxoo]

[kivaliszn]

Always be nice to people. But don’t take no disrespect or no fuck shit from anyone either.

[hypnotic-flow]

i love being extra black around white people.

[kivaliszn]

Quiet people are aware that they are quiet. You don’t need to remind them.

[theanimalmemes]

I don’t care how attractive you are, if you say ugly things and are mean to people, you are ugly

[animalsnaps]

drink water eat good have nasty sex mind ya business

[animalsnaps]

Me: *wants to be spoiled* Also me: *wont accept anything bc I feel extremely bad if anyone spends any amount of money on me*

[samie-ejdesigns-blog]

I’m Not Flirting With You...

I live in the South. We talk to random people, smile at strangers and hold doors open for you. That is not an open invitation to take that as flirting. If you ask me my name and I say Sam with an expression like I'm at the DMV then I'm not interested. Honestly, half the time it has nothing to do with you, I was probably just not in the mood. I have shit on my mind and that shit isn't you. Try again on Monday...Mondays are good flirting days for me.

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reblog if you're gay, not gay, slightly gay, or if you just want to launch donald trump into a dying star

[samie-ejdesigns-blog]

These little dudes are called rambutans. I found them at my local Whole Foods (read expensive ass grocery store). I was looking for plantains, my fav thing ever, and these little guys caught my eye. I'm a closet nerd so I literally spent 20mins looking up the history of these cool looking little fruits. Apparently they taste similar to ginep, my more familiar Caribbean fruit that I grew up eating. Good times!

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What is something I can do to show my gf I care? She's always asking me if there's a problem with our relationship and I don't speak woman so what does she mean?

It's not woman speak sweetie. She's trying to open the lines of communication with you. If she's asking you what's wrong then she feels like there's a problem. And if she feels like there's a problem then there is absolutely a problem. If you're really clueless ask her what's on her mind and what's making her feel that way. Just talk to her. Maybe she feels like she's not getting enough attention. Turn off the electronics and whatever else, make her a nice dinner and just talk to her about her. Reconnect again, you don't have to spend a lot of money...just your time, love and affection. And make sure you're having sex, not just sex but good sex. Something is off and if she's giving you hints then take them before you end up single.