sometimes i wanna disappear

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[sapphicfairy]

i graduate in december and i just......have no fucking clue what to do. i know i’m going to stay in my apartment until the lease is up next july so i have some time to figure it out but there are so many hard decisions to make between now and then. i know i don’t want to stay here and i probably want to move out of state but i honestly don’t know where. i am so afraid of living without my best friend and having to start over again somewhere. i’m excited about it and i think it’ll be freeing in a lot of ways but it’s gonna entail leaving a lot of things behind and i don’t know if i’m ready for that.

[sapphicfairy]

my friend said she was coming over an hour and a half ago and she still isn't here

[gifsboom]

[bunnyfood]

(via sweet-gherkins:gifsboom:Video)

[spacebats]

THIS IS BULLSHIT

[acidpanter]

When something is so cute you get mad at it.

[mrpinchy]

THIS KITTEN SLEEPS IN A PIE

[robothugscomic]

New comic!

TUMBLRITES: This comic is huge and likely doesn’t render well on tumblr. Check out a more complete version on my site here. 

Please note: This comic contains discussion of sexual assault, rape, and rape culture

This guy, this fucking guy, still sticks in my brain. It’s been years since I’ve been online dating. It was an interaction of messages that culminated in this exchange over about 2 weeks.

He’s so forgettable in every other way, but I am just still so aggravated by this weird smug privileged obliviousness around constant social demands on women and femmefolk to be both constantly available to men and at the same time perfectly take all necessary steps to prevent their own rapes. 

It is STUPID and AWFUL that we are expected to constantly be smart, aware, strong, reactive, proactive, and sober enough to prevent our own assaults. It is STUPID and AWFUL that if we do anything, ANYTHING, like have a glass of wine, or walk home, or smile at someone, or not smile at someone, that we are somehow in that way shouldering responsibility for someone deliberately, maliciously harming us. 

And it is ridiculous to ask someone to shrug all of that social pressure and blaming and responsibility off because it’s vaguely insulting to you that someone has to think about the possibility that you’re not a great person. 

Dude, thanks. You saved me a lot of wasted time with that message. I mean it. 

[ironcladfolly]

This puts in really good, clear terms better that I’ve been able to fully grasp, let alone vocalize, the really unfortunate double standard many of my lady friends are held to. 

That car analogy, man. That’s spot-on.

[soulproprietorship]

This is long but perfectly on point.

Every person meeting someone new should be cognizant of the potential risks involved in meeting someone they’ve met online for the first time, and should be actively trying to make the meeting safe for both themselves and their date.

[asfadedasmyjeans]

Read the entire thing

[butterflyknyfe]

White Feminists: BEYONCE IS RACIST FOR NOT INCLUDING WHITE WOMEN IN LEMONADE

Me: Ahem, sweetie (:

[sapphicfairy]

I just gotta make it through the day without puking

[businesscasual95-deactivated201]

[myfairynuffstuff]

[manimoonz]

I’m embarrassed for everyone who even remotely thinks being called an average white girl named becky is an actual slur. You’ve really been lucky if that’s the worst thing you’ve been called in reference to your race.

[sapphicfairy]

someone kiss me pls

[closingtomb]

I’m confined to my bed and have been completely unable to sit up since late 2013 due to a neurological condition explained in these medical reports. I’ve been trying to apply for government support with great difficulty. In the meantime, I need some help with funding my rent, home care and paramedic transport, which together exceed $1000/week. This post outlines those expenses in detail. I would appreciate any donations and they can be made at this link (no PayPal account needed) or at this second link (PayPal account required but there is no fee for PayPal balance transfers).  Thank you all for your support!! ETA: PayPal.me doesn’t work in some countries so if that happens, a PayPal transfer can be made to [email protected]

[birthmark-poetry]

I'm going to say this once

To my fellow white women: Beyoncé’s LEMONADE is not for us. We can enjoy it. We can blast it loud in the shower. We can appreciate it aestheticly and visually and musically. But it is not for us to appropriate for our own gain. I don’t want to see white women writing op-eds about it. I don’t want to hear your acoustic covers of the tracks. I’m not interested in your critiques, as a white woman, of it. I don’t want you CAPITALIZING on a piece of art that is fundamentally not. for. us. LEMONADE is a beautiful tribute to black womanhood, femininity, the black struggle, and black power. It is NOT for all women, and most importantly, it is NOT for white women to co-opt and colonize and attempt to profit from.

I don’t care if your feelings are hurt because it “doesn’t include enough” white folx. I don’t care. I don’t want to hear about it.

Appreciate the beauty. Sing its praises. Enjoy the depth and the poetry. But don’t try to make what isn’t for you, your’s. In any way, shape, or form.

[just--earth]

[digitalchrissy]

[determinate]

[sapphicfairy]

so i watched the first 2 episodes of game of thrones a while ago and i want to watch the whole series so i started on the third episode but i can’t remember who anyone is lol. like i know their names but not their stories. guess i have to start over