Femboy in the Making

Fledgling German femboy that is neither fem yet, nor a boy anymore...

[savys-world]

So here it begins...

Well actually it began a long time ago, but here continues my journey now.

I'm now 53 and although I have dabbled in cross dressing and femboy-ism for many years, I never had a name for it, until a few years ago ... and also until maybe a year ago I was much too scared of too many things to delve deeper... I supressed so many things for such a long time, which was not healthy at all.

And now, maybe a week ago (beginning of June 2023) I took the decision to follow up on it, a huge weight dropped off my chest and for once in my life this is an aspect that finally goes smoothly for now. Its all just a start though. But I'm very curious what the future holds in store 🤔

Love and hugs, Savy

[savys-world]

... having a deep urge to write, but two problems...

Whenever the inspiration hits me and and I know in an instant what I wan to write about, the next moment it eludes me again...

it is hard to write "I" and "me" and such stuff, because in reality "I" am NOT an "I" but an it... a doll to be exact. One wonderful day in April 2019 a wonderful person took me in and changed what she found into a doll...

So doll is going to stop pretending to be someone and will just admit that it is something. Well... as per its Maker's (read: Dollmaker, the person that owns and continually works on doll) opinion it is a wonderful doll, but far far away from brainless, or emotionless, or a f***-toy... unless, of cours, its Maker needs exactly such a thing. But no one but Maker has any control of doll in any way 😁

That is not to say that doll is not a femboy in the making - 🤭 - doll has done so many things to be a good femboy for Maker. It is no longer dressing in any male clothes. Some unisex things, but generally doll buys from the feminine stores and departments. doll also tried to more feminize its body with hrt, but unfortunately the only effect it had after a month was tht it put on lots of additional weight...

So... Next step: give its body a leaner appearance... not because a doll or a femboy "needs" to look a certain way... doll is beyond such petty thoughts... doll will do its best to loose weight because of the stress the added weight puts on its body and thus is afraid to deteriorate and break quicker if it doesn't loose weight. And also because its Maker deserves a fitter more flexible doll 😌

[catmask]

i dont consider myself a 'fashion guru' by any means but one thing i will say is guys you dont need to know the specific brand an item you like is - you need to know what the item is called. very rarely does a brand matter, but knowing that pair of pants is called 'cargo' vs 'boot cut' or the names of dress styles is going to help you find clothes you like WAAAYYYY faster than brand shopping

[catmask]

this also goes for aesthetic or -core titles. 'y2k tank top' is going to get you resellers and fast fashion brands advertising to people looking to meet a current trend. 'thin strap crop tank top' is going to get you a diverse group of results and not upcharge you to hell and back

additionally, shop second hand when you can, second hand and thrift sites typically organize clothes by the cut and color. theyll be more affordable than a depop seller curating you a style to sell you

[daftpatience]

useful terminology for different kinds of clothing shapes :)

[outfitqueer]

My Tips for Finding Your Perfect Fit: The Best Underwear for Trans

@outfitqueer 🏳️‍⚧️

Hey everyone!

When it comes to underwear, it's all about finding what makes you feel comfortable and confident. Whether you're exploring top binders, bras, or shapewear, the most important thing is how you feel inside what you're wearing. I will try to provide some great options and tips for choosing the best underwear that suits your personal style and needs. Remember, it’s not just about the clothes—it's about embracing yourself and feeling amazing every day💖

No matter what you wear, prioritize your comfort and self-expression:

💖Top Binders for Trans Bodies

My tip: When choosing a top binder, go for comfort and support that matches your style. Remember, it's not just about how it looks, but how it makes you feel inside.

💖Comfortable Everyday Bras

My tip: Find a bra that feels like a second skin. Comfort is key, so choose one that makes you feel confident and true to yourself every day.

Measure yourself regularly to find the perfect bra size. Wearing the right size isn’t just about fit; it’s about feeling supported and confident.

💖Shapewear That Works

My tip: Opt for shapewear that enhances your natural shape without compromising comfort. It's all about feeling good and embracing your unique silhouette.

💖Layering Tips with Binders:

My tip: Layer your binder seamlessly under your clothes for a smooth look. The right binder should make you feel secure and fit your personal style effortlessly.

💖Breathable Materials for Active Days

My tip: Choose breathable underwear for active days to stay comfortable and cool. It’s important to feel at ease in whatever you’re doing.

💖Luxury Lingerie for Special Occasions

My tip: Treat yourself to luxury lingerie that makes you feel fabulous. It’s not just about the occasion; it’s about celebrating your confidence and style.

💖Affordable Underwear Finds

My tip: Find stylish, affordable underwear that suits your budget and makes you feel amazing. It’s all about how you feel in what you wear."

💖Transitioning Styles: From Early to Late

My tip: Your underwear needs might evolve, so choose styles that align with your transition journey. Wear what makes you feel authentic at every stage. Comfort and confidence come from wearing what fits your changing needs.

Remember💖, at the end of the day, it’s not just about the clothes you wear but how you feel in them. Your comfort, confidence, and inner self are what truly matter.

@outfitqueer 🏳️‍⚧️

[savys-world]

Just had to reblog this, because not only is it true for trans people, but also for all queer people.

[outfitqueer]

If you believe in trans equality, reblog and follow me for more

Please show your support— Share this with your friends

@outfitqueer 🏳️‍⚧️

[savys-world]

Glad to give you my support

[cassie-is-trans]

Tag urself im maid

[savys-world]

I was deep down the Depressed route, but now am turning myself into Chill Gamer Tomboy 😎

[lex-in-superposition]

Dysphoria and Euphoria in Nimona

Honestly I think that Nimona such a raw and simple explanation of dysphoria and euphoria in the movie. It really moved me (both times now haha) when I watched it.

Firstly she talks about the discomfort and how to get rid of it:

But she doesn’t just stop there, she actually talks about the freedom of being herself!

Transness is so often limited to this horrible condition which afflicts you. This idea that you are a sufferer of dysphoria and nothing more. Transition, whatever that means to each person, is only done to treat this condition, alleviate the symptoms, mitigate the pain. The best you can hope for is a life without “itchy insides”.

But the way she talks about the freedom of the “sneeze” is more than just relief of the discomfort. It is a positive experience in it’s own right! Transition is not just some treatment, it is a joy. Pure joy. Euphoric.

To transition or to just be able to BE trans, is to be happier and freer than ever before. To be trans is a gift perhaps.

Then we get into the “option” of repression:

This one hit especially close to home for me. Maybe I could have survived without transition, that thought often caused me doubts in the early days. If I was even worthy of the “treatment” if my “illness” wasn’t severe enough.

Maybe, maybe.

But god it’s made me so very alive.

Our joy isn’t a crime. Our lives are not unworthy of happiness. It is not wrong to want real, beautiful, vibrant, chaotic, messy, unpredictable, stupendous, unashamed, overwhelming LIFE!

There is no obligation to hold ourselves back for the comfort of others. To not only inflict pain on ourselves, but deprive ourselves of joy because perhaps we could survive without the “cure”.

We are not defined by our suffering. It is not our pain that shapes us, It merely attempts to break us. We are defined by who we are in spite of it all, by the joy we us to build ourselves up, brick by beautiful brick.

[leonardospoetry]

Be grateful for  every single stage of life. Especially the ones  that break you open.

[savys-world]

Todsy's look:

Felt really cute and strong in this look today ^^

Went for a fleamarket and some icecream

[savys-world]

New haircut, new look and cool cap 😎

Although, I'm still looking for a cuter cap to go with this 😅

After a good bit of self searching, and questioning my decision of HRT, I'm continuing with it fully resonating with everything it entails.

Integrating good habits, like a morning walk and hair care are still a work in progress though.

Stay happy and determined, peeps 😊

Savy

[neaura-nightsong]

[savys-world]

So very very true

[theshunbun]

♡ Bun reminder ♡

[savys-world]

Soooo very true!

[savys-world]

Ggls... interesting morning eagerly doing a task... feeling so hsppy and cute... can't help but posting a pic

...wearing a tucking gaff under fem jeans and a bra under an oversized cute sweater ^^

Trying to gather courage to talk to my regular doc about hrt ... on hrt since nearly 3 months, but should be good to have a local doc at it.

[savys-world]

A relaxed Friday morning...

[savys-world]

I like my legs ^^

And I love these jeans and shoes 🥰

[savys-world]

Have you ever thought about the difference between a fantasy fetish and a real fetish? Or is that even a subject to anyone else? I once discussed sexual fantasies in a bdsm forum and the one I talked to said that all fantasies should be realized, because they are secret needs and not realzing them is damaging to the soul...

...but after running through many many scenarios in my head and a good number of actual experiments with myself, I still maintain there is a difference and not all fantasies should be made a reality. At least not without the right partner that you can trust completely, or without a certain amount of control of the situation if there is no partner...

Not sure if I actually want to go into any details about this, but maybe just this example... while in several shared fantasies I enjoyed pee very much on various forms, and was very very aroused by it, when experimenting with it alone at home, the result was far less exhilarating... not quite a turn off, but it needs to get used to...

So... just be careful what you wish for... it might be granted...

Love,

Savy

[theshunbun]

It's not easy, Catato❤️ But we are trying

[savys-world]

So very true.... should have been told this much earlier...