say it like you mean it

28. French bulldog lover. Shrimp. Fully aware my heart is too big for my body.

[kushandwizdom]

I wish you would stop apologizing for having a heart that feels everything so deeply. It’s a gift, wear it proudly.

(via kushandwizdom)

[sayitlikeumeanit]

[sayitlikeumeanit]

more self love

less feeling like I’m doing something wrong just because in 27 years I haven't found a man who has stuck around because he has seen my worth.

that’s on them.

not on me.

I didn't do anything wrong.

they didn't either.

I just haven't found him yet.

Sometimes it gets really tiring. Sometimes its a Sunday at 5:24 pm and I’m alone (besides Stelly) and it hurts. But no matter what. That doesn't mean I’ve done anything wrong.

more self love.

[minfonica]

[kushandwizdom]

The problem with always being nice to people or always being seen as the positive one, is people think they can take advantage of you or even worse, they assume you’re weak. Nice people are the worst people to fuck over or fuck with.. trust me.

[infinitewatersworld]

[micdotcom]

[jaayluv-deactivated20171222]

Note to self

Stop trying to go back to the old you… You’ve been through some shit Grow

[fruitsaladchewits-deactivated20]

[the-homie-sexual]

I swear this generation has the most fucked up definition of loyalty and honesty.

[brainiak-on-coco]

[eearth-deactivated20180601]

When you feel yourself slipping into negative self-talk, actively counter it with conscious self-compassion. When your mind brings you thorns, remember to gift yourself some roses.

[kushandwizdom]

Regardless of how my last love ended, I would never bring that energy into something new, nor would I make a good person pay for the errors of the last persons mistakes and nor would I give up on love. Love is amazing.

[kushandwizdom]

You can fall back into comfort and run back to people in the past but just know that nothing will grow there. You’ll be comfortable and you may feel safe but it’s not real, it’s an illusion. Or you can break the mould, put an end to your problems by focusing on improving yourself which will then open you up to more opportunities in life and a better lifestyle all together. It’s that simple. I know what you’re going to choose because you’re more into comfort than change, I just hope you can live with the realities of your decisions. Peace. I tried.

[sleepbby]

life cleansing tips:

- delete conversations between people you no longer talk to. its healthy to let go of the past and not letting yourself dwell on things.

- say kind things about people you like. say good things about yourself. don’t speak or think about people you don’t like.

- look in mirrors. you shouldn’t be afraid of facing yourself.

- clean sheets make clean sleep make clean minds

- allow yourself time to feel and grow. don’t be too hard on yourself for crying, you need to vent in order to move on to better times. even rainy days work towards sunny days.

- if things don’t work out, stop forcing them. there’s no reason for you to keep working and failing if there’s other places/people for you to excel and be happy.

- kiss your body, caress your body. make yourself feel loved.

- running away doesn’t always solve everything. sometimes, the reason that made you run will still be with you. focus on freeing yourself before starting anew.

- a glass of water and a good nights rest can go a long way

[oflyrical]

[hermesmystic]

Ways to Get Messages From Deities

Gut feeling

Shivers down your back

See a flash of an image in your mind

Hear a positive voice with a brief message

Smell something

An earth angel directly delivers the information to you

You find yourself giving advice to another person, and realize that is the advice you needed to hear

Déjà vu

A series of unmistakable repeating symbols or signs