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💋💋💋 Lovely Little Things 🎀nsfw 18+ adults only🎀 40/bi/pan-polyam, happily married

[hazel2468]

You know, I’ll say it again.

I’m in the process of working out the legal things that need to be done before I actually marry my wife.

When talking to my lawyer, I need to closet myself and refer to my wife’s girlfriend, my metamour, as “a friend”. My boyfriend is also “my friend”. Because I don’t know if my lawyer would agree to continue working with me. If he knew that my wife and I were polyam.

Polyamory is queer. Polyam people are queer, Polyam people share our struggles, our fight for recognition and safety. Our fight to be able to love who we love and be with who we want to be with.

[shynestar]

[boymounter]

they're called high femmes because you've got to say hi hi hello hi for the love of god hello to them.

[spitblossoms]

[knives-and-kink]

Are you liking all my posts because you want to hear me moan or what?

[qualitysportscuteangel36]

[charseraph]

[ishowdespair-deactivated2026012]

[stupit]

yall rly came out SWINGING...

[notwellbitch]

[ps1]

rose

[headspace-hotel]

random thought:

I think "sex is just another activity you can do with a person" arose as a response to the conservative christian "sex is the most Sacred Important Thing Ever and you HAVE to do it Correctly and only Within Marriage or it's The Most Damaging Sinful Thing That Tarnishes You Eternally." Which definitely needed to be criticized.

however when I see it expressed as like "sex isn't a special activity or inherently different than other things" I think. Well it is though?

I mean that being allowed into the intimate boundaries of another person's body inherently has more responsibilities (making sure the other person feels safe, caring about their comfort and pleasure, communicating clearly) than like...going on a walk in the park with that person

Which really just more starkly highlights how twisted purity culture is? "Sex is an activity with special significance" should mean, "If you are being really intimate with someone and you don't care about their pleasure and wellbeing and listen to their wants and needs, you could really, REALLY hurt them," not "If you have sex with anyone except the single person you've gotten married to and are committed to for the rest of your life, gross fungus literally grows on your soul."

oh fuck my sexual fantasy has a plot hole in it *starts over*

[doubleca5t]

[princelapine-deactivated2025031]

who the fuck made this post

[bigchump1994]

[usadapekora]

[unbotheredmuse]

[dustsculptures]

??? we love fat tummies here idiot

[ashstfu]

i was put on this earth to romanticize things, wear cute clothes, knowing a bunch of weird stuff, being flirty, saying unpleasant things, eating fruit, having great tits and the best taste in music

[happyheidi]

stop glamorizing being a go-getter and start glamorize a bed nook !

[fileth-fourth]

WaniさんはTwitterを使っています: 🐰

[ruhlare]

gorgeous gorgeous girls are focusing on themselves, trying to build better habits and preserve their boundaries