One of the most common questions people have when watching or reading tarot readings is:
"How do I know if this reading is meant for me?" Since collective tarot readings are designed for multiple people, not every message will resonate with everyone and thatâs completely normal. Tarot readings are meant to guide, not force meaning where it doesnât exist.
Here are some ways to understand whether a tarot reading is truly meant for you.
1)You Feel A Natural Resonance
The biggest sign that a tarot reading is meant for you is resonance. This doesnât necessarily mean every single detail applies to your life, but the overall message feels familiar or emotionally aligned.
You may find yourself thinking:
"This feels like my situation."
"Iâve been going through something similar."
"This describes how Iâve been feeling."
This resonance usually feels natural, not forced. You donât need to convince yourself that it fits...it simply does.
2)You Donât Need To Force The Message
If you find yourself trying hard to make a reading apply to your situation, it may not be meant for you. For example, if the reading talks about someone returning and you're trying to assign that message to someone from years ago even though thereâs no real connection anymore thatâs usually a sign youâre forcing the reading. Tarot messages meant for you usually flow naturally without mental effort.
3)Not Every Detail Needs To Match
Sometimes people believe that if one or two details donât match their situation, the reading isnât for them. But collective readings often contain multiple energies, so itâs normal if only parts resonate. Focus on the overall message rather than specific details.
For example:
The timing may not match exactly
The personality description may be slightly different
The situation may be similar but not identical
>>>If the core message resonates, the reading may still be meant for you.
4)You Feel Calm, Not Anxious
A reading meant for you usually brings clarity or calmness,even if the message is challenging.If a reading makes you feel anxious, fearful, or overly dependent on outcomes, it may not be meant for you at that moment.Tarot is meant to guide and empower you, not create fear or emotional attachment.
5)The Message Aligns With Your Intuition
Sometimes you may already feel something internally, and the tarot reading simply confirms it. This is another sign that the reading is meant for you.Your intuition plays an important role in tarot. If something doesnât feel right, itâs okay to trust that feeling and move on.
6)You Donât Feel Obsessive About It
When a reading is meant for you, it usually feels helpful¬ something you need to replay repeatedly to find reassurance. If you feel the need to watch or read multiple readings constantly to confirm the same message, it may be more about seeking reassurance than receiving guidance. Tarot works best when it supports your clarity, not when it becomes something you depend on.
###When A Tarot Reading May Not Be Meant For You###
Here are some signs a reading may not be for you:
You donât resonate with the situation at all
You feel confused rather than guided
Youâre trying hard to fit it into your life
The message creates fear or emotional stress
Youâre relying on the reading to make decisions for you
Itâs completely okay if a reading isnât meant for you. Not every message is meant for every person, and thatâs part of how collective readings work.
â¨A Final Note
Tarot readings are meant to guide, not control your life. You always have free will, and your intuition matters just as much as any reading.
If a message resonates, take what feels helpful.
If it doesnât, itâs okay to leave it behind.
The right messages will always find you at the right time.
PS- PERSONAL PAID TAROT READINGS ARE OPEN FOR THE REST OF THE APRIL. THE SLOTS ARE JUST GONE, SO IF YOU WANT YOU CAN GET YOUR READING NOW. YOU WILL BE HELPING ME BIG TIME WITH YOUR KIDNESS. TIPS ARE NOT NECESSARY BUT MUCH APPRECIATED đââď¸đ
hii so first off i love your page and readings, you do such an amazing job!! anyways i just wanted to give some feedback regarding your last pick a card reading cause girl... i chose pile 3 and ending up watching "the people we meet on vacation", and not only did i LOVE it, it was so accurate in so many ways (especially poppy). thank you so much again for amazing readings!
Hi love!! Thank you so much for this feedback, Iâm glad this reading resonated with you đ side note- isnât that movie so good?
This pile is definitely for my girlies in a committed relationship! You may be forcing your partner to meet unrealistic standards. You shouldnât look to change your partner to match you, they should already match you queen. Donât force someone who isnât for you to be with you. It never ends well.
If youâre in a relationship already, you may not treat your partner with respect and equality. Basically itâs your way or the highway and itâs not working. You may not be treating your partner very well or with kindness. Remember to uplift them, hold space for their ideas and any suggestions they may have to resolve the conflicts within your relationships (within reason yâall). You may be dealing with stress in other areas of your life and then taking it out on your partner.
Thereâs a lot to celebrate to celebrate in this relationship, donât sabotage something thatâs truly good. Remember why you chose each other. Public appearances may remind you both of how easy it is to get along together. The way for you to heal is to stop being so hard on yourself and believe that the love you dream of receiving is already real.
channeled song: high by the beach - lana del rey
Pile 2 đšđ:
This pile is for my lover girls! You feel like you arenât supported by your loved ones. There may be come conflict surrounding your family, friends, a partner or even all three. You may not feel like you can celebrate your relationship status (if youâre in a relationship), or maybe you fear taking your relationship public due to past pain. You may be feeling stuck or unlucky in your love life.
You may be holding onto the pain from a current or former relationship. Were you cheated on in the past, love? Maybe there was a betrayal of some kind, or youâve experienced some infidelity in your love life. If this is the case, work on letting it go girl. Thereâs better out there for you.
This pain still affects you to this day because you turn everything into a moment where youâre competing for affection. You donât have to do this love, youâre enough as you are. Whoever hurt you before truly fumbled.
Let go of your anxieties and fears. The truth may be coming into light about your past relationship but itâs okay. Ignore it, not everyone is gonna hurt you â¤ď¸. Start taking action in your love life, and it will get better. Do some shadow work, think about everything you want in your next relationship and manifest it! You got this!
channeled song: cherry - lana del rey
Pile 3 đđŞ:
This is for my baddies who make impulsive decisions!
Okay love with you, you tend to force unfair expectations of love on your partners - similar to pile one. You may have a hard time committing to relationships and all the responsibilities that come with it.
You like to make your choices and your independence but to you, having a partner hinders those freedoms. You may like to travel or spontaneously make plans a lot. Honestly the solution to this is to think about what you want the next stage of your love life to look like and how you can grow.
Wait itâs giving Poppy from âThe People We Meet On Vacation,â on Netflix! Yâall should watch the movie if you can, it was really good. But yes, you remind me of Poppyâs character in the best way. She goes through a similar issue throughout the movie.
Hi my loves! So you see yourself as someone who bends to the cultural expectations of your family, even if you feel that they donât personally suit you. As a result, youâre not fully embracing your power. My love, you have so much untapped potential and creativity when it comes to your style and your appearance. I want to remind you that although your body is a temple, it is yours to decorate and change as you like. That is entirely up to you, no one else. Something thatâs getting in your way is that you feel that someone else has to validate these choices to give you permission to dress the way you want to. And when they disagree with you, you might become defensive. You drain a lot of energy doing this. Make the changes you want, the right people will either respect your decision or ask about it with compassion instead of criticism. For your style, iâm seeing that you may be drawn to growing your hair long and wearing long and flowy clothes. I recommend experimenting with an earthy or hippie style.
Pile 2 đˇ:
Hi my loves! Your pile is quite different from pile 1. You immediately come through as someone confident and bold, and you might be wondering why you even clicked on this reading. If thatâs the case, the block between you and your true beauty is that youâre not embracing all the happiness and love surrounding you. You might be isolating yourself which can cause sadness. This reflects in your eyes and overall energy. You should start going out more, release the hermit mode. When youâre happier, itâll show in your eyes! Get your spark back love. For your style, I have two different things in mind so take what resonates. One, is the romantic goth aesthetic if thatâs something that youâd love to try, go for it! The second is the tumblr 2010s scene/goth/era. For this, Iâm seeing lots of colored hair like mermaid hair, Halseyâs blue hair era or even the Narcissa Malfoy trend from 2020 with the platinum blond streaks of hair. You have really beautiful hair pile 2, it must be something that really stands out to people who have met you. Iâm seeing a head of really thick, healthy long hair. If so, you may be worried about damaging your hair by coloring it. If thatâs the case, I recommend seeing a professional who can maintain the health of your hair despite the color.
Pile 3 đŞ˝:
Hi my loves! For you, you may currently feel like youâre in a rut where you donât feel inspired at all and youâre not feeling as creative with your appearance. You feel stuck in your current style. You should start swapping things out of your wardrobe that you no longer like by donating or selling it. You desire a whole new makeover or wardrobe change but somethingâs stopping you. Do you feel like the people around you wonât support this in some way? If thatâs the case, theyâll eventually come around but you should make your choices with confidence. You donât have to explain your reasoning to anyone. You desire a wardrobe change that takes a lot of time and patience to develop. Maybe youâve been eyeing some archival pieces or youâre into sewing your own clothes. I feel that a coquette aesthetic with French and ballet themes would suit you best!
I feel like youâve have a flawed self perception. You feel like youâve been abandoned. In fact, you may see yourself as someone who was betrayed and all alone. I feel like it was multiple people, either a former friend group or family. Maybe you had to leave people from your past behind for your own health and you may feel guilty about it. Try not to feel guilty, Iâm sure you let go of people who didnât deserve you. Pile 1âs I want you to know, you shouldnât pity yourself at all. Step out of this energy and instead embrace your true energy. You are a master manifestor my loves. Your reality is exactly what you make it, you quite literally bring peopleâs dreams to life! To get back into this energy, try starting some creative projects like sewing or knitting. Maybe you used to draw for fun? Once you dip back into your creative energy itâll help you step away from the sadness. Right now youâre blocking your own blessings by ignoring your creative urges. Embrace your free spirited nature! This is weird but I feel like your love language is physical touch. For this, Iâd recommend making love to yourself. You can bridge the gap between where you are currently and the version of you that unconditionally loves you by strategically planning out your future. Engage in practices that honor your self respect which includes enforcing boundaries and developing some self discipline.
Pile 2: đ
Hi loves!
So itâs different from pile 1, you see yourself as a person, whoâs juggling a few too many responsibilities. Maybe youâre working multiple jobs or have small children. It feels like if you move one thing the wrong way then itâll all come crashing down. You value your family and in your highest form od self love, you are content and happy. You love and support yourself fully, and as a result the rest of your life falls into line. Once people see how well you treat yourself, they have no choice but to treat you with the same respect you demand of yourself. This could all be yours, but you need to ask your loved ones for support. Youâre lowkey reminding me of the mom from Sing with 25 piglets. I think her nameâs Rosita? Allow yourself to receive help, thereâs absolutely no reason you have to do it all by yourself. Thatâs a lot of pressure to place on yourself! Start delegating tasks to break up the work so itâs less of a burden. You can bridge this gap by developing a team where you can work together on your tasks. Also my loves, if your love language is receiving gifts go on and splurge on yourself! You deserve a gift from YOU, you probably have a list of things youâve been waiting to get for yourself too. You deserve to spoil yourself, honey đŻ.
Pile 3: đ
Oh honey! Yâall already have a high self esteem in the way you view and treat yourselves. You see yourself as very nurturing and possibly a little sensitive. The version of you that truly loves you in entirety baby?? Youâre belle of the ball, truly. After this transformation you become even more charming and romantic. There are a few things blocking you from embracing this energy which include the people around you and your environment. Maybe you like to go outside in the clubbing scene or youâre constantly hanging out with friends or family. And thatâs fine and all when itâs balanced, but right now youâve been outside so much that itâs disrupting your energy. Youâre out of tune with yourself love. Your ancestors are calling for you to spend some time inside, do your shadow work and self reflection. The quiet will help you become more spiritually in tune. You need to spend more time with yourself, get to know you a little more. This will help you reach the most divine and loving version of yourself.
Pile 4: đ§¸
Hi my loves!
Right now, you see yourself as a highly desirable and sexy person. You feel young and free of any long term responsibilities or commitments. The version of you that loves you the deepest, makes time for their commitments to people instead of running away from them. This version of you seems to be more mature and makes decisions from a place of clarity. Whatâs blocking you from reaching this level of yourself is that you donât trust your intuition. And if you donât trust that, then you likely have a hard time making decisions or even trusting that youâre making the right ones. Right now youâre also not making the changes that you need to get better. For you my loves, you can bridge this gap between you and the version that loves themself by focusing on healing and supporting yourself. By doing this, youâll attract more healing and loving energy to you. By taking good care of yourself, the people around you will be inspired to treat you that well too. You got this my darlings <3.
Hi my pile 1âs! This is someone who has everything they want already. Iâm picking up on a masculine energy that simply wants to give you the world. They may come from a privileged background but donât let that deter you, this is a very generous and loving person. Their love language for you may be giving you gifts or small trinkets. Your person has really innocent intentions and just wants to spoil you. You can trust that this person is a friend, they would like to be a part of your support group. I feel like this person is doing this because they can tell that you havenât experienced this before, you mightâve even had a poor experience before this that makes it hard for you to trust this personâs intentions. Theyâre here to support you for real. They want to make things right. Trust that this is real, see the truth and embrace this friendship. Could be romantic or platonic or maybe even a friends to lovers situation đ.
Pile 2:
Hi my loves! This person just leveled up financially, whether itâs a raise, new job, or promotion of some kind - thatâs the energy heâs in. While their life has leveled up there, they just started healing from a major heartbreak. They may even feel that youâve helped them heal and recover from their past relationship. While this is sweet, I want you to watch out in case theyâre looking for a rebound. It seems like they had a wake up call, and are doing much better now. With you, they want to start building your life together as grown adults. Like they see forever with you and wants to build your future. Again, while this is sweet, it seems like this person hasnât done the inside work for genuine healing and recovery. They donât fully deserve you yet. They need to work on themselves and fully understand what went wrong in their previous relationship, and you need to continue focusing on yourself. When heâs ready, heâll meet you on your level. Be patient, thereâs a few things he needs to learn before heâs worthy of you. Allow him the chance to get his money up and to improve himself.
Pile 3:
Hi loves! Welcome to your reading. For you, you have someone whoâs very focused on their future and they are committed to you. They include you in their future plans and see a future with you. They are very loving and supportive of you. They feel that being with you is apart of their lifeâs purpose. Awwww! They feel this way because they see yâall as a team, they feel like theyâre part of a team with you. With you, they intend to work really hard to build success for you to benefit off. This person is a very hard worker but for my pile 3âs this may cause you to feel overwhelmed sometimes. You should communicate to your partner that sometimes this makes you feel stressed, it doesnât seem like your partner is even aware of it. Talk to them, help them realize when youâre tired and need a break. They should probably take breaks with you! You should go on a baecation! You canât be productive if youâre burnt out.
Pile 4:
Hi loves! This person is someone who has traveled a bit, seen the world and comes from a privileged background. Despite this, with you they feel like theyâve transformed into a new person. Even though they have a privileged life, they feel that you serve as a turning point in their life to help improve it. With you, their intentions are to work on a new project or new idea. You may be coworkers or classmates who have a group project together. This person could even be a boss or supervisor. My pile 4âs, you seem extremely unhappy with this. Perhaps you have feelings for this person? If so, youâll benefit from pulling your energy from them and creating a little distance. Donât let them use you for your gifts. They value you for what you do for them, not simply for who you are. Stop wasting your time, they donât deserve you.
pick a pile reading - what was your past lifetime?
Pile 1:
Cards: the fool, knight of cups, the high priestess, the lovers | guardian angel oracle card
In your past lifetime you were a very innocent and gullible soul. You were in a relationship with someone older than you, and they took advantage of that. You trusted them, and they hurt you deeply. This was a toxic relationship, but you likely stayed believing in your partner in an attempt to see the good in them. You still harbor some of the pain from this relationship. Your partner from this past lifetime was probably unfaithful to you and the source of a lot of heartache. From this experience you learned to trust yourself and your intuition. You probably have a strong intuition in this life or youâe currently developing it, my advice is to trust yourself and pay attention to the things that naturally call to you. Despite all of this, you still believe in love, and desire it. You have a strong heart Pile 1. Please take comfort in knowing that your guardian angels are with you right now, you are never alone. They were with you in your past lifetime, and theyâre with you now. Pray to them if you need it, one day the love youâve been dreaming of will come to you.
channeled song: ultraviolence by lana del rey
Pile 2:
Cards: 8 of wands, the empress, temperance, 7 of cups, 5 of swords | spiritual teacher oracle card
Pile 2, youâre someone whoâs known to give really good advice. Your loved ones really appreciate the wisdom you have to share with them. In your past life, you traveled a lot through your career. You mightâve been a flight attendant, train porter or conductor. You mightâve been in the military as well. You didnât like to stay in one place for too long, you liked to keep it pushing. Itâs possible that you were running from something or maybe you had a stressful or dark home life. You couldâve grown up in a small town where you were forced to be still and follow what you were told. No matter what, you had a strong desire to start over and never return to your hometown again. Iâm picking up on a feminine vibe for this past life (doesnât mean you identify that way in this life). Your past self strongly believed in her ability to achieve her hopes and dreams. A major part of your lesson from this lifetime was learning how to take action whilst remaining levelheaded. You aced that lesson while also learning how to take things in moderation. Itâs easy to leave home and become undisciplined from the lack of rules but thatâs not what you did. You used your wisdom to help yourself and then others. You have an innate skill to pause during conflict, and assess the best way to react. You were highly emotionally intelligent. Itâs possible that creating art in your past lifetime is something that kept you grounded. It may benefit you to tap into these skills in this lifetime and see how it works. Itâs possible that later on in this past life, you became a social worker, therapist or raised awareness for domestic violence and early childhood development.
channeled song: i lived by onerepublic
Pile 3:
Cards: queen of swords, 9 of cups, 3 of cups |earth mother oracle card
Pile 3, in one of your past lifetimes you struggled with your health. You mightâve had a chronic illness that you could struggle with in this lifetime too. Before you had health issues, you mightâve been distant, cold, or unkind to your loved ones. You mightâve cut yourself off from family or maybe you just fell out of contact. This illness taught you to value life and your loved ones more. You learned that tomorrow isnât promised to anyone, and you learned to be more compassionate. Being in a vulnerable place where you needed help allowed you to let your loved ones close. As a result, your good health returned to you, and you learned to cherish your friendships and your circle of support. You left this lifetime knowing how to receive love and be comforted by those closest to you without getting in your own way. This is an important lesson that will serve you well in this life, remember to let the right people in.
channeled song: back to you by twin forks
Pile 4:
Cards: the sun, 5 of cups, the moon, death, the tower | sky father oracle card
So for my pile 4s, you were a person who naturally stood out in your past lifetime. You felt like you never fully fit in, however, people were drawn to you like a magnet anyway. You werenât really a people person, you were highly interested in astronomy and science. You mightâve believed in the existence of aliens, but you werenât a religious person. Science made more sense to you than anything else. Having formulas and hard cold facts about the world comforted you and helped you to understand this world. In this life you may still struggle with understanding people and the unwritten rules of society. A majority of your life was spent feeling abandoned and unloved, or you felt grief for something unknown to you. At some point in your life you learned that you were adopted, and once that information was revealed to you, you researched as much as you could. Iâm not sure what you found but this sparked a period of deep transformation for you. Everything in your life changed, it may have felt like the world was falling apart. From this life you gained a deep level of trust for the Universe/God and strong faith. You might identify as a religious person/have a strong sense of faith in this lifetime.
pick a pile reading - messages that you need to hear right now
Pile 1:
Cards: the world, 9 of pentacles, knight of wands, king of cups | shapeshifter oracle card
A situation that you have been praying about has finally reached its end. New financial opportunities are on their way to you dear one. Keep an eye out for incoming money or career opportunities. You are being encouraged to travel and step beyond your comfort zone. Donât stay in the same place where you struggled, now is the time for you to leave and really challenge yourself to thrive outside of your comfort zone. Itâs possible that you may be considering a new career or moving to a new city. You might be into art or traveling. You are also being encouraged to hone your skills and spend time with yourself focusing on your strengths.
extra confirmation: butterflies đŚ, dolphins, the coast, 777
Pile 2:
Cards: death, ace of pentacles, 7 of wands | mountain oracle card
Youâre going through a major transformation right now! It may be hard to accept but once you let go of the past, you can get started on your glow up love! You spent a lot of time doing the hard work behind the scenes, doing shadow work and now your hard work is paying off. You may be getting a new job or raise, your life is being promoted in huge way. You may feel a bit defensive right now, but trust that the Universe/God, whomever you believe has your back. Make sure to keep up your boundaries and guard your treasures. The Universe is guiding you to stand your ground regarding this situation, continue with your beliefs and what youâre focusing on. Other people around you may disagree but ignore them, the Universe is supporting you 100% with this. What youâre doing is right for you, and you alone.
extra confirmation: 444, leo, scorpio
Pile 3:
Cards: 9 of swords, 7 of cups, death | earth mother oracles
My heart aches for you pile 3. Youâre currently feeling alone, maybe even depressed. Youâre in a lot of pain. You may feel so overwhelmed by life that you donât know how to move forward. If youâre feeling this way this message is for you. Youâre being encouraged to start anew, allow yourself to start over. This part of your life has ended, and no longer serves you. Youâll soon find that life is changing to your benefit. Youâre entering an entirely new chapter of your life! During this transition please know that you are loved. As you go through this process itâs important that you make plans and assess what your next steps are. Itâs time to be focused so you are prepared for the changes coming your way. Trust yourself and your ability to succeed.
extra confirmation: 555, holly berries, feathers
Pile 4:
Cards: 6 of pentacles, king of swords, death, 5 of wands, the hermit | winter oracle
Pile 4, it looks like you need to slow down and take some time for yourself. Youâre a very generous person, and youâre often the person that people turn to for help. A lot of people may depend on you in your personal life. You should reevaluate your relationships and consider if these people are deserving of you and your generosity. At this time, youâre entering a period of rebirth. Your life is transforming for the better. This period may be a little rough, Iâm seeing some challenges coming your way. The best way to navigate these challenges is by spending time alone. This may be hard, especially if youâre normally surrounded by people. Stand your ground, and focus on you. Keep an eye out for more information that may be revealed to you.
January 13 â Full Moon in Cancer (Wolf Moon)
January 29 â New Moon in Aquarius
February 2 â Imbolc
February 12 â Full Moon in Leo (Snow Moon)
February 27 â New Moon in Pisces
March 14 â Full Moon in Virgo (Worm Moon)
March 15-April 7 â Mercury Retrograde
March 20 â Ostara
March 29 â New Moon in Aries
April 12 â Full Moon in Libra (Pink Moon)
April 27 â New Moon in Taurus
May 1 â Beltane
May 12 â Full Moon in Scorpio (Flower Moon)
May 26 â New Moon in Gemini
June 11 â Full Moon in Sagittarius (Strawberry Moon)
June 20 â Litha
June 25 â New Moon in Cancer
July 10 â Full Moon in Capricorn (Buck Moon)
July 18-August 11 â Mercury Retrograde
July 24 â New Moon in Leo
August 1 â Lammas
August 9 â Full Moon in Aquarius (Corn Moon)
August 23 â New Moon in Leo
September 7 â Full Moon in Pisces (Harvest Moon)
September 21 â New Moon in Virgo
September 22 â Mabon
October 6 â Full Moon in Aries (Hunter's Moon)
October 21 â New Moon in Libra
October 31 â Samhain
November 5 â Full Moon in Taurus (Beaver Moon)
November 9-November 29 â Mercury in Retrograde
November 20 â New Moon in Scorpio
December 4 â Full Moon in Gemini (Cold Moon)
December 19 â New Moon in Sagittarius
December 21 â Yule
Sitting around a bonfire or campfire, especially with loved ones
Being kind to children; playing with them if offered
Supporting organizations focused on marginalized groups; spreading the word, donating, volunteering, etc.
Supporting organizations focused on children and children's safety
Volunteering at a homeless shelter or an animal shelter
Teaching yourself that it's ok to ask for help, even if you don't receive it at first
Seeking out a community you can join; this will help with creating a support system as well; LGBTQ+ support groups, gamer groups, fandom groups, etc.
Having horse, snake, raven, or wolf imagery around; having skull imagery is also cool, but may not be acceptable in all households
Engaging with your childhood media or toys
Having literally any stuffed animals
Keeping a list of jokes and quotes that make you laugh
Supporting animal conservation efforts
Learning to accept yourself for who you are; embracing unique aspects of your identity, especially those that are looked down upon by others
Showing support for marginalized groups, such as being an LGBTQ+ ally or purchasing from POC small business owners
Identifying your strengths and weaknesses; finding healthy ways to acknowledge them both
Learning new ways of coping with emotional turmoil, including mental illness related situations
Listening to scary stories
Having a candle that reminds you of him (no altar needed)
Collecting lost or interesting objects (so long as it's not reclaimed first lol)
Being a little mischievous/silly with loved ones
Finding little ways to express yourself if you can't do so openly (e.g. wearing a bracelet with the colors of your gender identity, wearing shoelaces with pride flag colors that aren't easily recognizable, etc.)
Being kind to yourself when you're having a difficult time
Learning to forgive yourself for past mistakes you've made
Sleeping with comfy blankets
Drinking hot chocolate
Eating candies and sweets or spicy foods
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May add more later! So far, this is my list of discreet ways to worship Loki. Hope this helps, and take care, y'all! â¤ď¸
Singing/listening to your favorite songs; this applies to any music, though
Listening to music while studying
Playing any instrument
Dedicating a journal to writing poetry or stories
Reading poetry books; reading ancient poetry/stories (especially ancient Greek poetry/stories)
Dancing to any music of your choice
Setting reminders to take medication on time; taking your medication in general
Taking care of your body physically, such as brushing one's teeth or taking a shower
Taking a walk on a sunny day; basking in the warmth of the light
Keeping a pic of him in your wallet
Wearing jewelry that reminds you of him
Keeping imagery of light/the sun, lyres, instruments, music, swans, cranes, or ravens around
Getting a wolf, swan, or dolphin stuffed animal
Anything to do with positive and healthy self-wellness
Learning archery
Learning to do divination outside of the obvious (the obvious being tarot, runes, and pendulums, for example; not obvious would be cartomancy, pyromancy, carromancy, shufflomancy, etc.)
Doing homework (yes, really)
Being kind to yourself when you're having a difficult time
Placing positive affirmations on somewhere you'd see them everyday, especially ones about things you're proud of
Checking in with yourself emotionally throughout the day; how are you feeling? What are some good things that have happened so far? What are some not so good things?
Learning about philosophy and taking note of your thoughts on the topic
Learning more about yourself (e.g. make a list of things you enjoy, try new hobbies, experiment with new outfits, etc.)
Expressing yourself through art of any kind
Having a candle that reminds you of him (no altar needed)
Keeping a personal journal/diary - somewhere where you can keep track of your thoughts and feelings
Practice compassion and patience, especially with yourself
Continue learning throughout your life; interesting topics, philosophy, music, psychology, physical health, etc.
Learn about any medical conditions you or a loved one has
Learn about your healthcare options and medical rights (HIPPA in the US)
Support education forward, humanitarian, healthcare, or homeless shelter organizations
Volunteer at a homeless shelter
Donate clothes, toys, hygiene kits, and other items; hygiene kits are always needed
Be kind to children; play with them if offered
Make a list of things that make you feel human throughout the year - moments where you feel present, content, and alive
Sharpen your mind; play memory or mentally stimulating games
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May add more later! For now, this is my list of discreet ways to worship Apollo. I hope it helps someone, and take care, y'all! đ§Ą
Make your body wash/shampoo/conditioner rose scented
Have a rose or sweet scented candle that you light (doesn't have to be on an altar)
Create a skin/body care routine
Have perfume/cologne that you dedicate to her
Wear jewelry that reminds you of her
Carry a pocket charm that reminds you of her (dove works well in a Christian household and is a sacred animal of hers)
Keep a small picture of her in your wallet
Have a dove or swan stuffed animal
Have imagery of beaches, seafoam, seashells (especially clams), wings, hearts, swans, pearls, or doves around
Wear a locket with a picture of someone you love or of her
Give compliments to strangers
Drink water regularly and dedicate a glass of it to her
Collect seashells (if possible)
Collect things you simply find pretty
Plan your outfits/wear clothes that make you feel good
Keep a journal of poetry dedicated to Aphrodite and love-related topics; can also be a general positivity journal or diary (maybe a diary in a way of writing letters to her but saying a code name instead of "Aphrodite")
Keep heart-shaped imagery around
Embrace yourself; give yourself love
Forgive yourself of past mistakes
Give yourself compliments; start small if needed; I recommend doing this in a mirror
Pin up pictures of loved ones on a mirror or wall
If possible, burn some incense in honor of her; strawberry always has a great smell to it
Watch a love-focused movie (romantic or platonic)
Listen to or read stories about acts of kindness and love
Paint your nails or wear make-up (if you enjoy those things and are able to)
Listen to music that makes you feel good; dance to it like nobody's watching!
Have a party where you and your friends create drawings, items, or crafts that you can decorate your rooms with c:
Start a flower garden, especially with roses; tend to a plant
Practice compassion, especially towards yourself
Fall asleep/meditate to the sound of ocean waves or singing birds
Listen to/sing love songs!
Spend time with loved ones
Have a friend's night; go out on the town together, watch movies, go camping, etc.
Spend time with your pets
Take a shower/bath, especially with rose petals and candles (SAFELY!!!!)
Visit a nearby ocean or body of water; stand in the water (if safe) and ground yourself there
Write about your crushes
Make a list of qualities you'd like in a partner; make a list of qualities you don't want (like green flags and flags)
Take a walk alongside a beach/body of water
Take care of your personal hygiene
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I may add more to this later, but here is my list of subtle ways to worship Aphrodite so far! Worship can absolutely be discreet, and if it needs to be for safety or the like, know that the gods will almost certainly understand. Take care, y'all! đŠˇ
Colors ⢠pink & red, rose gold , blue, green, white, gold, baby blue, pastel colors, Seafoam green, Aqua
Appearance in astral or general ⢠many ancient artworks of her, depicted her with traditionally male features, like beards, along with traditionally female features, she can change looks many times, but no matter her looks she is the most beautiful alive.
Jewelry ⢠pearls, rose gold, promise rings, diamonds
epithets of Aphroditeâ˘
Psytiros - whispering Aphrodite, epithet also is attributed to Eros, Euploia - a marine epithet to Aphrodite of easy sailing, fair voyage, Leaina -the Lioness, an epithet given to the Goddess by Athenian orator Democha, Praxis - Aphrodite of action, a statue to whom stood in the city of Megara, Peitho - as an epithet to Aphrodite, it describes Her a persuasive, Epiodoros - Aphrodite of bountiful gifts as She was titled by Greek poet Stesichoru, Argounis - shining Aphrodite, worshiped in Boeotia and likely associated with Dawn, Philomedes - Aphrodite of a lovely smile or smiling Aphrodite, Helikoblepharos - quick-glancing, or Aphrodite with an ever-moving eye, Polychrisou - rich in gold, rich in many golden gifts, Chrisopeplos - gold-clad, Aphrodite dressed in gold, Chrisostephanos -  Aphrodite wearing a golden wreath, Chrisanios - Aphrodite holding golden rein as Her chariot was often said to be fully made of gold, NikĂŞphoros- She is the Warlike, Areia- She is the averter of unlawful desires and actions, Apostrophia- She is one who blessed marriage and unions, MigĂ´ntis- She is the one who turns to love, Ourania- Heavenly, Divine Love, PandĂŞmos- Common To All, Epistrophia - She who Turns to Love, Nympthia HĂŞrĂŞ - Of Hera of Marriage, Symmakhia- Ally in Love, Pontia - Of the Sea, Kypria - Of Cyprus, Pothon Mater -  Mother of Desire, Chrysea- Golden, Aphrodite Urania (also spelt Ourania), Aphrodite Pandemos, Venus Genatrix, Peitho, - meaning persuasion, Philommeidá¸s - "smile-loving", Cypris and Cythereia -  for her association of Cyprus and Cythera, Eleemon, In Athens, she was known as Aphrodite in kopois ("Aphrodite of the Gardensâ, At Cape Clias, a town along the Attic coast, she was venerated as Genetyllis "Mother", Aphrodite Euploia - of the fair voyage, AnaduomenĂŞ - The Goddess Who Arose From The Sea, AmbologĂŞra - The Ons Who Delays Old Age, Antheia - The Blooming One / Friend Of Flowers , Apotrophia - The Expeller ( Of Shameful and Sinful Desire), Areia - The Warlike, Kupria/Kuprigeneia - The One Born in The Island Of Cyprus, Despoina - The Rulling Goddess/ The Mistress , Genetullis - The Protectress Of Births , NikĂŞphoros - Bringer Of Victory
How to get closer ⢠sign her hymms or dance in her honor
Number⢠5
Courting⢠Ares, she is no longer married.
Past lovers and flings ⢠Anchises (a mortal in the past she dated), Adonis ( handsome young man killed by a boar (Ares in disguise), Dionysus, Zues (maybe), Hermes, Phaethon, Posideon, Butes, Apollon
Devine children ⢠Phobos, Deimos, Harmonia, Eros, Anteros, pothos, hermaphrodios, (From the mortal Anchuses), Aeneas a mythical hero of Troy and Rome, and Lyrus/Lyrnus (From Butes), eryxs, Meligounis and several more unnamed daughters, Hymenajks, lacchus, priapus, the Charites, (graces: Aglaea, Euphrosyne, Thalia) (From Dionysus) Phobos, Deimos, Harmonia, The Erotes (Eros) , Anteros, Himeros ,  Pothos,  from Ares, Hermaphroditos, Priapus, from Hermes, Rhodos from Posideon, Beroe, Golgos, Priapus (rarely) (from Adonis), Astynous from Phaethon, Priapus (from Zeus)
Attendees ⢠The erotes, Harmonia, Hebe, peithos, the kharites , Naiades
Regions⢠Cyprus; Kytherea, Corinth, Eryx in Sicly
Holiest shrineâ˘Â  Paphos, island of Cyprus, (her birth place & seat of her mysteria)Â
Other shrines ⢠Temples throughout Greece and Asia Minor and ur moms house. Some places, most notably Sparta, Thebes, and Cyprus honored her as a goddess of war.
Parents ⢠Ouranos Sometimes itâs said that she is the daughter of Zeus and Dione. And born from the severed genitals of the primordial god Ouranos.
Siblings ⢠Aeacus, Angelos, Apollo, Ares, Artemis, Athena, Dionysus, Eileithyia, Enyo, Eris, Ersa, Hebe, Helen of Troy, Hephaestus, Heracles, Hermes, Minos, Pandia, Persephone, Perseus, Rhadamanthus, the Graces, the Horae, the Litae, the Muses and the Moirai.
personality⢠she isnât intimidating at first, she likes not having already used products on her alter if possible, a clean, nice smelling alter.
dislikes⢠She does not like Medusa, she wants nothing to do with her for some reason, just what Iâve heard from people who worshiped Aphrodite and Medusa in close timelines
Diety of ⢠Sex, libido, self-image, self-love, relationships, friendships, parent love and pet love, crushes, lust, procreation, seduction, pleasure, happiness, sadness, passion, stalking, ports, port homes
Home⢠Olympus and was living in the sea before Olympus
Roots⢠Greek, born near Paphos, on the island of Cyprus
Offerings ⢠pastries, cakes, , olive branches,  dark chocolate, wine, apples, perfume, makeup, Pomegranate: said to be first planted by Aphrodite herself, Strawberries, Raspberries, Blackberries, Figs, Watermelon, Sea shells, handheld mirrors/ beautifully ornate mirrors, makeup products, perfumes (sweet/sensual/seductive ones), skin/body care products, fruits, apples, lettuce, pomegranates, chocolates, sugar and cream, honey, wine (rosÊ or sweet-scented), sweetened rose tea, rose quartz, pearls, jewelry, roses, flower bouquets, statues of her sacred animals (ex- swans) ,  myrtle or myrrh incense, pink/gold/white candles, seawater, the artwork of her, devotional poems, self-care routines, ritual baths, have a rose garden that you can take care of in her name if possible, be supportive of women and the LGBTQ+ community. ⢠olive oil, fruit, honey, chocolate, dark chocolate (she loves it) , Apples/golden apples, Mermaids, Jewelry, Cherries, Dolphins imagery, Perfumes, Cologne, Makeup, Combs, Affirmations/Affirmation Cards, Beach Sand, Sea imagery, Water, Love poems, Oyster shells, Pink Salt, Driftwood, Sea glass, Amenome/Roses/Carnations, Other flowers, Valentine's Day gifts, Teddy bears, Rose water, Eros/Cupid imagery, Cakes, (Dress up) Dolls, Chapstick/lipstick, Fishnets, Honey cakes, Undergarments, Hearts, Handheld fans, Pictures of loved ones, Condoms/lube(18+), Lingerie(18+), Undergarments(18+), Sex toys(18+), NSFW magazines/books/movie(18+) (AND I MEAN IT WHEN I SAY 18+, OR ASK HER!!), roses, Myrtles, Apples, Pomegranates, Honey, Chocolates, Cookies or cakes made to look like one of Her symbols (ex- hearts), Strawberries, Oranges, Pears, Bath Salts, Bath oils, Bubble bath soap, Scented lotions or fancy soaps
Devotional⢠light your favorite candle, put on your favorite lotion or perfume, put on your favorite piece of jewelry, put on your favorite article of clothing, enjoy a sweet treat, Sex magic, Glamour spells, Dressing up, acts of self care and acts of self- love, Caring for mental & physical health, Take a bubble bath,Spend time at the sea, Collect sea shells, Read Sappho poetry, Donate to LBGTQ+, Support sex workers, Have safe sex and learn about it, Stand up for yourself and what you believe in, Donate to woman programs and shelters, Do stuff to make ur self feel empowered and beautiful, Honor her kids and ares, watch a romcom, watch a regular romantic movie or show or read your favorite romantic story, Make plans with loved ones and friends or your lover in her honor, Treat yourself to something you enjoy, if you have a pet and they like to snuggle, snuggle or lay with them. Talk to them and tell them how much you love them (If able take them for a walk or a ride), listen to ocean/sea soundscapes, read up on all the many kinds of love, engage in an act of self-care, listen to love songs, listen to a devotional playlist for her, make a Pinterest board or playlist, or journal all of your favorite things and things that you love, learn about the different kinds of love, do things that boost your self esteem, be gentle with yourself, take it easy, etc, watch a ballet, read love poems, Dress up and selfies, Keep menstrual products on you (even if you don't bleed), Advocate for pro-choice, Give/accept compliments, Advocate for SA victims, Go on a date, Take yourself on a date, Do something nice for your partner, get a Manicure/pedicure, Flirt, Affirmations in the mirror, Drink wine, Advocate for proper sex ed (Including queer sex ed), Experiment with your style, Mirror scrying, Listen to sleep affirmations, Love letter to self/her/partner, Take a bath/shower,Go to the ocean/water, Finally give into that one kink (You know the one, 18+), do Masturbation in her honor (only 18+, I heard sheâs not comfortable with minors doing it, but thatâs between yâall, just ask her beforehand.), Practice safe sex (18+), Educate yourself on the porn industry, Support sex workers (TIP THEM, 18+), Have sex (18+), Get educated on consent/safe sex, Take nude/lewds (18+)
Holiday ⢠on March 18, goddess of fertility dayÂ
Season⢠springÂ
Status⢠Olympian, major goddess
Music ⢠Harry styles, Classical music, old love songs (50s & 60s)
Day⢠FridayÂ
Planet⢠Venus
Tarot⢠High priestess, the lovers, the empress, the star
Rituals ⢠honored and invoked for love and fertility and beauty
Fact⢠She was most worshiped during times of politics, Many people offered her Opiates, or did Opiates in her honor. opium-burners were often found at her shrines in ancient times, please do not do opium.
Prayerâ˘
1⢠sing, sing, oh i sing to aphrodite who is most beautiful! she who stirs the passionof men & god alike! o, to she â i sing! golden goddess with soft lashes, golden goddess withsoft arms, i spin and sing and delight in the bright rose that is you. may i dance with your grace, lifted up as the foam from the sea as you were â may my smile be blessed with delight. golden-haired goddess, bless my tongue to be sweet as honey, bless my fingers to be delicate and swift, bless my steps so they may bound forth in soft beauty. glory to she â praise to she! goddess of ever golden smiles, of fierce beauty, of spilling laughter and delight. o! may i love as you love â may i delight as you delight! goddess, fill me with your beauty â may i shine & rise above the wrathful waters of those around me and delight, delight, delight in the glory that you have given to me!Â
2â˘Golden Aphrodite
Lady of beauty and grace, Please give me the power to appreciate my body, Grant me confidence in my masculinity, Help me to feel your love within myself, and to express it outwardly as well, Lady Aphrodite, please hear my prayer, I sing your praises and offer you this incense
3â˘Aphrodite, guide me towards love. Help me discover it, receive it, embrace it, give it, celebrate it, honor it, teach it, and live it. Let love be the mark I leave, as your devotee, as a human being.Â
4⢠AntheiaÂ
Hear to me my call for spring to have sprung,Oh, sweet one scented of honey and nectar. Hear my call Aphrodite Antheia,As I harken a need for the sweet bloom. I crave the beauty of the opening flower, The sweet taste of its nectar upon my lips. Ah Aphrodite Antheia, Bring to me the joy of the fresh blooms. Let the petals cascade upon my body, Allow me the joy of the sunshine. Oh sweet one, Oh Aphrodite Antheia. Bestow upon me and mine, The gifts of the flowers fair.
5â˘daughter of seafoam, goddess of beauty, aphrodite please hear my cries. please listen as i describe all the parts of me that are shattered & torn, please understand as i tell my stories of pain. aphrodite accept me please. aphrodite pick me up & help me mend myself for i am yours, thank you so much & so mote it be
6⢠Aphrodite rivals the beauty of the sun setting over an ocean's horizon as you stand on the shore, the water tickling your feet as it pulled in and pushed back out repeatedly by the waves.
Other⢠images of things sheâs associated with, jewelry, perfume, bath salts , scented lotion, seawater, seashells, sand, makeup, feathers, self care essentials.Â
Links/websites/sources
 @khaire-traveler
 ephemeral-cryptid.tumblr.com
Offerings
Doves/Swans/Sparrows
Roses
Chocolate
Myrrh
Apples/golden apples
Seashells
Mermaids
Pearls
Jewelry
Gold/Silver/Diamond
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  @mars-and-the-theoi graffitiphilosopher.tumblr.com teawiththegods.tumblr.com
 @seleniangnosis
@melitheoidevotion
 @seafoamsister
 evilios.tumblr.com hearthcreation.tumblr.com orsialos.tumblr.comÂ
@hisfluer
ROMAN NAME: Venus
đ¤Goddess of Love, Beauty, Desire, & Fertilityđ¤
đ¨COLOURS: Red, Pink, Seafoam green, Aqua
đELEMENT: Water
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