growing up as a cis girl the patriarchy told me âyouâre a girl because of the way you were born, there is nothing you can do about this, you have no say in your genderâ and i hated being a girl because it wasnât my choice it was a prison and the trans community told me âyouâre a girl because you say so, your view of yourself is the most important thing, if you change your mind that would be okâ and it made me proud to be a girl and feel empowered in my gender and i wasnât trapped anymore and then terfs come along and tell me âyouâre a girl because of the way you were born, there is nothing you can do about this, you have no say in your gender (but like in a woke way)â and they somehow expect me to be on their side?