blog forr shit I don't want on my main

it/its, disabled queer whatever

[second-bitch]

my metamour just referred to me as "mutual" like our tongues havent been in the same mouth. go off ig

[ijustwannafallunderyrsawteeth]

maybe y'all didn't notice but fat people who don't hate ourselves sure did notice that people were obsessed with shitting on fat people in the late 90s and early 2000s (conservative political time) and now are again (fascist political time), coincidentally while the market for weight loss has become a 90 billion dollar industry due to glp1s.

you are not immune to propaganda. it makes some people a whole hell of a lot of money for you to hate fat people and fear becoming (or staying, I think like 70% or something of the US is fat) one of us.

[ijustwannafallunderyrsawteeth]

a lot of the fearmongering over fatness comes from studies directly funded by the weight loss industry...i think people don't really realize or think about the fact that research can absolutely be influenced and skewed by its funding. there is also research that shows that an amount of the negative health outcomes for fat people come from anti-fat bias. if you go to the doctor with concerns and the doctor simply tells you to lose weight, your problem is neglected and you may not even bother going to the doctor with the next problem.

every fat person you know for the most part probably has a story like this, of medical neglect. many of the stories i've heard personally are when the complaint or the doctor wasn't related at all, like being told to lose weight at the ear nose and throat doctor or at the dentist. it's straight up just bias. it's such a thing that in the show Shrill it's portrayed, when Aidy Bryant goes to the gynecologist and her doctor suggests she get gastric bypass.

the studies on health and fatness are simply not that black and white and there is basically no research that shows that more than an incredibly tiny minority of people can lose weight and keep it off for more than like 2 years. bodies have set points that they gravitate towards, it's not a personal failure. this also is how the weight loss industry succeeds so well - repeat customers.

some of the harm associated with fatness is also due to weight cycling, which is very hard on your body and is even worse if you get off a GLP1, which according to a recent study causes weight to be regained at a rate that is 4x faster than without taking a GLP1.

you don't have to hate yourself. you don't have to hate other people for their body type either. it makes me so sad to see the thinspo tag going around again in 2026 a lot like it was back in the day.

some resources to learn more here:

https://www.reuters.com/article/business/healthcare-pharmaceuticals/feeling-fat-may-be-worse-for-you-than-being-fat-idUSTON079061/

The Healthiest Weight Could Actually Be 'Overweight', Huge Study Finds

A study spanning almost four decades and involving more than 100,000 adults in Denmark found that those with an 'overweight' body mass index

there's so much crazy shit once you go down the rabbit hole. for example, BMI was not invented by anyone with a medical background. it was never meant to measure individual health.

[ijustwannafallunderyrsawteeth]

U.S. Weight Loss Industry Grows to $90 Billion, Fueled by Obesity Drugs Demand

The U.S. weight loss industry reached an unprecedented high in 2023, estimated at $90 billion, largely driven by surging sales of the widely

Body fat supports your health in surprisingly complex ways

Evidence is mounting that our body fat supports everything from our bone health to our mood, and now, research suggests it also regulates bl

[ijustwannafallunderyrsawteeth]

just gonna reblog this forever because i love fat people and we deserve fuckin basic human dignity and respect regardless of our weight

[second-bitch]

I´m gonna send in a hard launch and not tell any of my phandom friends. imagine if it gets played and they have no idea.

[second-bitch]

me 🤝 my partners boyfriend

poverty

[second-bitch]

oh no. i really love xem.

[second-bitch]

for context:

they're my partner and one of my closest friends. now i know this sounds like the ideal situation, but my brain isn't so good at that whole stable love thing, so what it usually does is obsess over someone, idolize them, do whatever i can for and with them, give them EVERYTHING i can. and then it, idk how to describe it, burns out? i just start feeling violently neutral towards the whole relationship and stuff.

and obviously i REALLY don't want that to happen with such a close friend. so I'm kinda terrified rn.

[second-bitch]

also I'm worried I'll overwhelm them or make them uncomfortable or something. i can be a lot sometimes.

like, it'd be extremely reasonable to get sick of me with how i act

[second-bitch]

i also don't want him to feel like I don't like faer as a friend anymore, cause I really do

[second-bitch]

oh no. i really love xem.

[second-bitch]

for context:

they're my partner and one of my closest friends. now i know this sounds like the ideal situation, but my brain isn't so good at that whole stable love thing, so what it usually does is obsess over someone, idolize them, do whatever i can for and with them, give them EVERYTHING i can. and then it, idk how to describe it, burns out? i just start feeling violently neutral towards the whole relationship and stuff.

and obviously i REALLY don't want that to happen with such a close friend. so I'm kinda terrified rn.

[second-bitch]

also I'm worried I'll overwhelm them or make them uncomfortable or something. i can be a lot sometimes.

like, it'd be extremely reasonable to get sick of me with how i act

[second-bitch]

oh no. i really love xem.

[second-bitch]

for context:

they're my partner and one of my closest friends. now i know this sounds like the ideal situation, but my brain isn't so good at that whole stable love thing, so what it usually does is obsess over someone, idolize them, do whatever i can for and with them, give them EVERYTHING i can. and then it, idk how to describe it, burns out? i just start feeling violently neutral towards the whole relationship and stuff.

and obviously i REALLY don't want that to happen with such a close friend. so I'm kinda terrified rn.

[second-bitch]

oh no. i really love xem.

[second-bitch]

i made a hear me out groupchat and everyone is being way too normal ToT

[knifeofvenus]

Matisse Circle by Leonard Nimoy, The Full Body Project

[second-bitch]

polyamory is great, but i do miss having money

[second-bitch]

you ever see something so beautiful it makes you want to kill yourself?

[second-bitch]

my cat (who was laying on my back) just left the SECOND i sent a horny asks to a nsfw blog xD

[second-bitch]

the drawtectives midnight alley opening at midnight animation is so fucking good i´m gonna kill myself

[second-bitch]

the internet keeps trying to make me care about bbno$. i simply dont care at all.

[second-bitch]

[second-bitch]

lmao i have more of a friendgroup on tumblr (on my main) than i ever had irl