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Poison or Acid?
New comic strip featuring the scientist sisters, Amy and Tamy, with a question I once saw on the internet lol
Which color do you associate with poison and acid? Green or purple?
Acid is yellow, duhhh!
That is after you mixed a little bit of it with Bromthymol blue.
Love at...second sight? 💞
Some of the "findom/me" accounts on here make me laugh so much. This one waited all of four sentences before trying to "own" me.
"Hi. How are you?" "Where do you live?" "How old are you?" "Do you wanna be owned by mistress?"
I love my sex worker friends, but like... these kind of accounts are embarrassing. I legit told her to put a little more effort in next time. Because like, I don't think that kinda script actually works on anyone? Right? Please tell me y'all are better than that....
Because I'd bet my last two braincells that she's a scam. And, if she's not, she's an incredibly lazy domme and not worth your money.
The thing with the findom scam game really is like... this can't work, right? I mean it can't but... damn... if it wouldn't work they would change their game, wouldn't they? I mean... wait... Am I working my ass off and this works..? Should I try if it works? I mean it's free money right? ..... and that is how hundreds of new findom scam messages are created. A giant pyramid scheme without any money in it. At least I hope so because... that can't work, right? Please.. tell me it isn't working!
"homosexuality is unnatural! there's only two genders! it's a sin-"
I'm sorry, have you seen NATURE???
ALSO THE ARTIST IS HUMON, FIND THEM AT HUMONCOMICS.COM!! was so sure I had included that but apparently I forgot, so sorry!
Please remember to cater to your basic human needs before engaging in kink!
That means:
Drink water. This is for safety sure, but orgasms are way better when you’ve got the raw materials for it. Same with just wetness/precum, better hydrated than dry.
Have a snack. Your body may go through a lot and you blood sugar being low is dangerous. You don’t need a full meal, but consider a little fruit if you’re keeping it light, and try to have something nearby for afterwards to rebalance your blood sugar.
Check in with your mental state. D/s can be a wonderful way to soften the sharp edges in your mind, but if you’re already feeling off, consider more gentle activity. Adding the risk of drop (subdrop or Domdrop) can make your wonky day into a shitty week. Not worth it, care for your longterm wellbeing above momentary fun.
Plan for rest. You need to give yourself time to recover after engaging! I don’t care if you cum or not, if you’re going to do a scene or session or whatever, plan out time for aftercare and, if you’re a person who needs it, maybe a nap/time to drift. Do not play right up until you have to be somewhere, your endorphin drop will fuck you up.
This probably isn’t an all inclusive list but a good little checklist so you can do fun stuff with a little more care for your health, happiness, and safety.
You may have things to add to this list as you get to know yourself more. For some, their meditation may be a factor. Others may need to plan for a specific ritual to prepare themselves so they feel good. Affirmations might be important to get ready for a scene and still feel good about it. Additional checklist items can be tailored to you/your dynamics/your partners, but the above apply to everyone.
So remember: hydrate, eat, mental check in, rest.
Be a Respectful Sub
Being the dominant isn't always easy. A scene takes planning, time, energy, care, and a lot of effort.
Scenes are fun, exciting, and hot. It's understandable that a sub would want a long pegging scene, or some fantasy every day. But it's important to respect the dominant.
There's so many posts of "I just want a SO who will do 'X' to me every day!". That shows a misunderstanding of the dynamic, and a desire for a kind despenser, not a relationship.
Don't try to initiate a scene spontaneously. Sure, wear lingerie and tease your domme for fun if you want, but make it clear that you don't expect them to do anything if they don't want to. If you go this route, kink becomes a stressful expectation for them, another chore, not a fun activity.
Don't always make everything physical about you. It's tempting to think things in the form of 'Dommes do X to subs' but a healthier thing is to think 'What do dommes and subs do for eachother?' There's back and forth and give and take in the bedroom....no matter what that caption on tumblr told you.
Be there for your dominant, comfort them when they need it. domdrop is a real thing just like subdrop. Don't get mad at them if it's been a while between scenes. Even if ageplay is your thing, you should be aware of the other person's needs and wants, and you should communicate like a mature adult.
This clever rope-cuff allows her to grasp the rope when she struggles so it doesn’t injure her wrists.
this is actually quite wonderful and I don’t really wish to delve far into the art of this but someone took the time to come up with this and it’s nice
