You Are Not Valid

[holmesandwatsonaremarried]

People bending over backward to find reasons to not want to date trans people and still not seem like asshole…seriously. The most frequent argument: I don’t like/ I’m not attracted to X type of genitals. Well I have good news for you! Trans people can have bottom surgery and a lot of them do! So you can indeed date trans people! Just not all of them, but nobody ever said you needed to want to date all of us!

Listen tuts saying I don’t want to date X type of people at all because of a characteristic only some people in the group have is firstly not very smart, and second close minded and just generally bad!

Sorry to break it to you, but if you say “I don’t want to date black men because their dicks are too big” First of all they don’t all have big dicks and second of all it’s excluding an entire group of people in that group for no reason. It’s the same thing with trans people and nobody is saying you have to fuck us at all. It’s fine if you’re not attracted to some trans people just like I’m gay and not attracted to all men. All we’re saying is that when you say : I would never date a trans person! We hear: you are not desirable and you don’t deserve to be loved the same as cis people just because you are trans. You don’t deserve to find love because of a characteristic you may or may not have and that you can’t control (AGAIN WE’RE NOT ALL THE SAME! SHOCKING I know!). You are less than.

And hearing this over and over again can mess a lot with our self esteem, but you know who cares about us right?? It’s more important that cis people be able to say how much they wouldn’t want to date us apparently…

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

Other people don’t exist to validate trans people. Anyone is allowed to say they don’t want to date/fuck trans people. Just like anyone is allowed to say they won’t fuck/date women/men/tall people/short people. If your fragile little egos can’t take it well boo fucking hoo. Grow the fuck up. Anyone trying to guilt anyone else into having sex with them does not deserve love. Rapists are less than. If you have self esteem issues than that is your problem not everyone else’s.

[genderhair-deactivated20250412]

you can have your preferences but you’re a bad person if you don’t like dick. bc not wanting to fuck someone is the biggest hate crime 

[femmedetta]

i mean, her tweets seem perfectly reasonable, and not at all like what youre portraying them as… so?

[auntiewanda]

How are they reasonable? It’s never any woman’s responsibility to provide someone with sex. And saying “lesbians don’t want dick”, which is a fact, isn’t somehow saying “no one else wants to fuck you”. 

Since when does “valid” = “fuckable” anyway?

[booksofwhynot]

I’ve never seen Arielle or anyone else say that they find trans women “disgusting”. Not being sexually attracted to someone doesn’t automatically mean you find them disgusting.

And the idea that lesbians wouldn’t be harassed by trans activists if we’d just stop talking about the fact that we don’t want to fuck them - lmao wouldn’t THAT be nice. Pretty sure the only reason any of us even started thinking about it, much less talking about it publicly, is because of all the cotton ceiling bullshit. I was wholly supportive of trans women and wouldn’t hear a word against them in any way until I started seeing all over the place that my sexual orientation - you know the thing that is NOT a choice or “preference” - somehow made me a transphobe.

[auntiewanda]

Right? It used to be a given. Then again it used to be most transsexual males were gay. Today we have a bunch of straight men putting on lipstick and saying “this makes me a woman now, lesbians have to fuck me” and a society that already hates women and especially lesbians saying “Yes of course you poor darling those mean bitches are so awful to you!” 

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

I don’t know a single person who constantly reminds trans women that they aren’t fuckable. Who has time for that? Do they think everyone else in the world lives with their mom and begs for money online like they do?

[railroadsoftware]

eminem has 2 different songs that he rehashes over and over. one song is supposed to be funny and he uses an annoying nasal voice and talks about “topical” issues like which currently famous female he hates and then his other song which is supposed to be serious and he uses an annoying overly aggressive tone and talks about “personal” issues like which female in his life he currently hate. both songs suck.

[wethrowaway111111world-deactiva]

buckle up wimms

[marywollstonecraft]

….what are they even experiencing? like which body part hurts?

[wethrowaway111111world-deactiva]

It’s hilarious bc women have uterine cramping and that’s what they think they have…. even tho they don’t have a uterus 😂😂

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

“to do the thing” what thing?? What muscle? Do they really think menstruation is just cramping and bleeding from random muscles? Before you know it they will start calling their testicles ovaries and every time they ejaculate they will call it getting their period.

[stealpipe-moved-deactivated2019]

mm yeah just cause youre either bi or a lesbian doesnt mean we are all just gonna be friendly to you. if youre a terf ofc we’re all gonna be rude af to yall! you pretty much want trans woman dead lol! if youre gonna disrespect someone because theyre trans you obviously dont belong here. like do yall know what lgbt stands for? in this case, the “t” part?? like kill yourself

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

So you are mean to anyone that doesn’t cater to men? Because the term terf is so watered down at this point. Anyone who hurts male fees fees is automatically labeled a terf.

[petertheromaniwolf]

Being a lesbian that respects trans women is liking Janelle Monae but still recognizing that having things directed at pussy specifically in a song abt women and loving women is transphobic.

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

Waaaaah! Everything needs to be about me otherwise its -phobic. Women’s sex organs are gross we should only hear about dicks instead.

Actual women are allowed to like and talk about their vulvas/vaginas. No amount of screaming from men in dresses is gonna change that.

[hotsauceoneggs]

u kno I’m sure this has been done before but trans butch lesbians are braver than any us marine

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

[artemiswasamerf]

OP: If your feminism doesn’t include everyone, then who is it for?!

Me: It’s for women, Karen. That’s it. No one else. Just, women.

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

Reality

Handmaiden: “OMG. You look so hot. You are totally rocking that dress girlfriend!”

Six Foot Tall Male With The Shoulders and Chest Of A Linebacker: “You really think so?! I feel so femmy today” *giggle*

An Hour Later....

Six Foot Tall Male With The Shoulders and Chest Of A Linebacker: “The cashier at Forever 21 called me sir!” *cries*

Handmaiden:

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

If transwomen are women what makes them trans?

If transmen are men what makes them trans?

What rights to trans people think others are trying to deny them?

What does feeling like a woman feel like?

What does feeling like a man feel like?

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

Labels straight people use to make themselves feel special aka oppressed:

- Ace

- Aro

- Trans

- Non Binary

- Agender

- Demisexual

- Genderqueer

- Queer (which is actually a slur against homosexuals)

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

Can any MAP on this site explain to me why:

1. You are on this site to begin with when its filled with children? Oh wait I guess that question answers itself.

2. Why you would voluntarily take a job that puts you in contact with children? Oh shit another one that answers itself.

You all claim to be oh so valid and would never do anything to harm children and yet you hang around children online and irl. Why its almost as if you want to make children comfortable being around you or let them know that not all pedophiles are bad. You are not one of those icky pedophiles. You would only touch them if you were in a serious relationship first. Its all fucking grooming whether you want to admit it or not.

[therealmapdean]

Do you watch CP?

No.

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

Las Vegas man sentenced to 24 years in prison in child porn case

A 45-year-old Las Vegas man was sentenced to 293 months, or more than 24 years, in prison in a child pornography case involving more than 30,000 images and videos.

In a statement, the U.S. Attorney's office said Alva was identified by Las Vegas Metropolitan police, of which detectives found a "browse list" advertising 92 child pornography files available for sharing over a peer-to-peer network. Detectives eventually discovered 28,403 images and 2,851 videos of child pornography on Alva's computer.

Of the images and videos, officials said 167 depicted bondage, 20 depicted bestiality and 1,136 depicted infants.

Look! One of those amazingly beautiful No-Maps that this site likes to celebrate. He wasn’t actually touching any children. He was just dealing with his impure thoughts on his own. No harm done!

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

Phoenix PD: Woman drugged, raped while getting a tattoo

Phoenix police have arrested a tattoo artist for sexual assault charges after a woman said she was drugged and raped while getting a tattoo.

Why didn’t she just tell him that she IDs as a man? Then the thought to assault her would never have crossed his mind.

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

Police urge people to be vigilant after teenage woman raped in Stowmarket

Police are urging people in Stowmarket to be vigilant while out at night after a 19-year-old woman was raped in the town over the weekend. The woman told officers she was attacked at around 2am on Sunday 1 April near the Recreation Ground. A 26-year-old man was subsequently arrested on suspicion of rape on Sunday evening and has since been released under investigation. The woman is being supported by specialist trained officers. Members of the public have been advised to take extra precautions such as planning their journey home and avoid going off alone. Detectives are appealing for anyone who was in the vicinity of the Recreation Ground between 1.30am and 2.30am on the morning of the incident to get in touch with them.

The police would make things so much easier if they would just tell women to stop identifying as women. Then the rapist would no longer want to rape them because rapists only rape women identifying people. If he doesn’t want to rape a transwoman then hes a terf.

[selfcleaningvag-blog]

If transwomen are so amazing and beautiful, why don’t they just date each other? You always hear them complaining about real lesbian women not wanting to date them. If they actually believe there is no difference between actual women and transwomen then they shouldn’t have a preference. And if actual women won’t date them then other transwomen should want to with no question. 

Of course any actual women who won’t date them is transphobic and deserves to die. Would that not mean they are wishing death to their fellow transwomen who won’t date them? Cuz again no difference between the two.