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bloodbending

someone please help me find that quote about how someone was overwhelmed with the weight of the world and their problems when they were physically alone, but that weight felt like nothing in the presence of a friend and good conversation

testosteronefag

is it this one?

thoughtkick

“The greatest gift you can give another is the purity of your attention.”

— Richard Moss

tzagaglalal

reminding myself to say these things consciously and more often👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽

- “that’s a good point and i appreciate your input but i disagree”

- “i don’t know enough about xyz to form an educated opinion but i can share what i do know”

- “i have actually spent a lot of time studying/interacting with xyz and my opinion is informed by this close study”

- “sorry, i lied because i was afraid you would think badly of me. here is the truth”

- “i enjoy your company and would like to spend more time with you”

- “this task is beyond my ability at the moment”

- “can you explain precisely what you mean by xyz, i don’t understand”

- “i need to go home and rest/i need a break before we continue”

- “this conversation/activity isn’t pleasant or productive, let’s talk about/do xyz instead”

-“i’m having a really good time, thank you for joining/inviting me”

lifeinpoetry

“—[desperately] don’t you see? I took mercy on myself. Nobody else would. So I saved myself from grief, I did what was needed. I took mercy on me. I took mercy on me.”

— Amrita C., from “Dhumavati,” Incarnate

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“Everyone must choose one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret.”

— Jim Rohn

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“When you can’t control what’s happening. Challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what’s happening. That’s where your power is!”

— Unknown

warm-autumn-evenings

changing every “i should have known better” to “i know better now”. i will not judge past versions of me through the lens of who i am now.

thoradvice

i think it’s important to look at your life as if it’s a work of fiction. authors romanticise the smallest details, and you should, too. act as though taking a bubble bath is the highlight of your week, or getting a takeout coffee is the best thing to happen to you. you’ll start to get excited about small things, and life will become so much easier. it won’t cure your mental illness, but it’ll be so much easier to get out of bed if you’re excited to look for flowers on your walk to work. romanticise your life !! there is so much beauty in the mundanity of the world to see every day, and life is so much easier when you let yourself become enamoured with it.