Shangrila

[samheughanswife]

📣 Marcia

I don’t give a fuck if “some people have been messaging me privately to ask if you’ve gone crazy, if you’ve stopped being a shipper…”

Are these the same shippers that slag me off, as you mentioned , and then always come running back to ask me to share with them? And they promise to keep it confidential? Those shippers? Or just the baby trainers?

Can you all handle the truth? With photos?

I have never resiled from stating my opinion, good, bad and just plain ugly. Ever. I’m not a sheep in the echo chamber.

Chat on. My feelings aren’t hurt.

No need to feel sorry for me Doll 😊😉 l’m a big girl with big opinions living a big life.

Also not quite sure what ‘ your mansion… you’re a rich woman’ has to do with the point of our debate 🤔

Maybe I should organise a virtual drinks party and just spill the tea, from my mansion of course, just like back in the day meninas. Drop me a note in DM and I can gauge your interest 😊.

As I mentioned in a post a couple of days ago it’s the Sydney Film Festival and I’m just home after a great day. The best film was Rose, starring Sandra Hüller, directed by Markus Schleinzer and co-written by Alexander Brom. Outstanding.

I did ask to postpone the war, but hey I can drop in and engage.

[marciabalfe]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 So, who's going to get in line to participate in the drinks festival at Julia's mansion, the rich girl of the fandom?

Woman, control yourself! The embarrassment you're causing here is so great that you're becoming a laughingstock in Tumblr's direct messages.

Take a break from this fandom, go on a trip, invest some of your millions to clear your head. You've already lost relevance here. Don't lose your sanity too.

[shangrila09813]

@marciabalfe I actually don't think anyone is sliding into her DMs asking for info, because everyone knows she doesn't have anything concrete to prove that SC are a couple. People who actually have that kind of proof don't go around openly saying so or hinting at it 😅🤣🤣🤣

Btw I know a blog here that goes to Cannes every year and has never posted about it 😉.

[samheughanswife]

So when I posted my appreciation for Haley, Sassenach historian having press credentials for the OL music Con in Edinburgh last weekend a couple of ladies were not happy ( although a few days later).

The aggressively vicious comments they left were absolutely their prerogative. As was mine to reply.

So Im just going to leave this here

Then she came back

But here’s the thing. She knew way back how I managed my blog

I engaged and replied

Add in the fact Marcia has liked and commented on posts from recent history I’m not sure what her point about burnt bridges is 🧐🤷🏻‍♀️

All this because I defended a young woman who started as a fan and has managed to build a business around the OL fandom. Add in it’s clear she has now achieved the gold standard, working with and being promoted by Sam 🤷🏻‍♀️ well yeah.

Haters gonna hate.

[marciabalfe]

@samheughanswife, helax. You can defend, appreciate, admire, praise, and even invite Haley to visit your mansion, since, as you like to say, you're a rich woman!

What you can't do is expect me to agree with you when you say Haley is an attractive woman, because, in my opinion, she's miles away from that!

Another thing you can't expect is to send me messages in the comments and expect me not to respond.

You seem like a nice person, but apparently you're getting lost in the fandom, creating animosity with everyone here!

Know that you're not better than anyone here, you're not more important than anyone, your blog isn't superior to anyone's, and your opinions are subject to disagreement like anyone else's!

Some people have been messaging me privately to ask if you've gone crazy, if you've stopped being a shipper, or what's going on with you. I confess I almost felt sorry for you, but I didn't go that far...

But, if it helps, don't give so much importance to my opinion on this or any other subject here, because I don't care at all about yours. This is just a hobby for me.

[shangrila09813]

@marciabalfe The only thing that worries me about this young woman, Hayley, is whether her mental health has been—and continues to be—monitored by a competent healthcare professional. I say this because she herself has spoken openly about her mental health struggles and how Caitríona and Outlander saved her. Idols, TV series, books, and artists in general can be sources of motivation, but they shouldn't be used as tools to cure depression or any emotional disorder. I see it as a major red flag when someone says an artist saved their life; artists are people with both flaws and virtues, so they shouldn't have that kind of impact on anyone's life—because that impact can be either positive or negative.

Lately here on Tumblr, the ego battles have become unbearable to watch, and I don't understand the constant need to have everyone agree with what she says. Fortunately, there are many other blogs in this fandom that post truly relevant information, are much friendlier, and don't try to end every argument by flaunting their material possessions. It’s as if everyone is expected to bow down to someone and never question anything simply because that person is wealthy.

[samheughanswife]

I want to really clear.

All irrefutable information about SC, photos of them outside of work and London residences etc have come from me. Just me. Not a network of online sources. Just being in the right place and time. Add in I’m just fucking lucky.

I have been betrayed countless times. I accept it. It’s the nature of the beast. But don’t expect me to accept grudging compliments.

Blogs and status on this dash have been built off the back of my blog. From private groups. Etc

Im a one woman show who shares when I feel like it. Not when I’m chastised in DM’s. There are consequences always.

[shangrila09813]

I'm sorry and with all due respect, but... neither you nor anyone else has any real, concrete information or proof that Sam and Caitríona are together. What you have are assumptions based on what you saw once, and even then you didn't get anything that day that actually proved they're a couple. The photos from the Coffee Run that made you famous may have made people happy that day, but they don't prove anything. It wasn't a candid shot of the two of them together in PDA; it was just someone entering someone else's apartment. And I know that many people here must have someone they trust to leave their keys with without necessarily having an affair with that person. You announced a divorce that doesn't exist because you confused legal terms and an online document. If you or anyone else actually had things that proved the theory that Sam and Caitríona are a couple, it would have already been posted. Even if you didn't want to take risks, you could post anonymously, but you don't simply because you don't have it. After all the humiliation and gaslighting that Sam and Caitríona committed against this part of the fandom, I highly doubt that anyone has anything truly revealing about them together, because if anyone did, it would have already been disclosed.