the pack system @shepherdxsheep - Tumblr Blog

INTRO POST:

Hi!!! We are the pack system. Short intros for the ones allowed to run this tumblr

🖤Butch: he/him she/her, butch (obvi) lesbian. dogboy, top

🩷June: she/her femme lesbian, puppygirl switch (bottom leaning)

💜Coyote: he/him, bi???

♡ Relationship Anarchist and partnered ♡ I personally reclaim queer, faggot, and dyke ♡

☆ DMs welcome but please don't flirt unless we build that kind of rapport, it makes me uncomfy ☆

♤ This is an explicit blog. Under 18s will be blocked, 21+ preferred ♤

DNI terfs, radfems, detrans/misgender kink, dykebreaking kink, etc. If you make me uncomfortable you will be blocked.

I'll edit this as needed!! Welcome to my blog :3

gorgynei

ive really started to despise the idea that porn/erotica is like, a lesser form of art just because it summons horniness rather than a more sophisticated emotion, like sadness or joy.

is making someone hard that different from making them cry? can you do both at once? much to think about.

omgshiftercat

I think this ties in with the idea that the action and horror genres are inherently lesser forms of art. Never mind that a well-written sex scene or fight scene can brilliantly illustrate character and dramatically change the plot. Sex, action, and gore are all "lowest common denominator" stuff, clearly only present to sell your work to the rubes. Well, okay, you can have some of these elements, in small doses, as a treat, but more than that arbitrarily determined amount and you're not making real art, are you?

It's like "Oh yes, art is supposed to make us feel things, but nothing raw and visceral; that would be ~improper~."

inthesensethat

hexthelex-deactivated20250420

This is true btw

letmeliedown

the podcast If Books Could Kill has a really great episode on the original book and its legacy! just a bunch of misogynist evangelical bullshit really

gaysie

does anyone know if it’s okay to want things or let yourself have them

arcolan

11 year old border collie: gets a special shot for his chronic back pain this morning

2pm: "where's the dog he can't possibly have jumped over the fence"

3pm: "hi i live in [another village]! I got your dog here, if you can come fetch him?"

"well at least that new medication is working 💀"

emcapi

monstermonger

He's worried about stepping on flowers. He loves nature.

depsidase

dandelionsresilience

Just gonna drop these here as a starting point :)

How to identify, and then deal with, your emotions

Emotional regulation skills

Conflict resolution skills

Creating and enforcing boundaries

Dialectical Behavioural Therapy skills

Emotional intelligence ideals to aim for

Axes of self-care/wellbeing

Self-care self-evaluation (find out where you’re starting)

How to make a self-care checklist

How to start a self-care habit

Reparenting resources

Crash Course Psychology

KhanAcademy: Understanding the Self and Society (some units more relevant than others)

Emotional education activities for children and teens

Social-Emotional Learning activities for kids (information can be adapted for adults)

amygdalae

we're having sex and you pull out at the end to discover your cock is entirely gone, dissolved (ive digested it like a pitcher plant). bye!

amygdalae

You'd unfollow me for my pitcher plant pussy post? After the beautiful night we shared???

toonlink1210

WASNT A BEAUTIFUL NIGHT. PESIS IS GONE.

mobydyke

being an adult is just dragging urself kicking and screaming to things that you will enjoy and that will be good for you

mobydyke

clenching my teeth and muttering under my breath "you'll be happy you did it you'll be happy you did it you'll be happy you did it" as I physically force myself out the door to go Do Things

mobydyke

being very firm with myself every time I think about bailing and saying "no. you committed to this. it will improve your quality of life. you will enjoy it. now put on your big boy pants and go."

valtsv

my that one friend that's too woke opinion is that in a similar vein to how you almost never see fat people or women without makeup on tv you never really see anyone experiencing incontinence issues unless it's a humiliating comedic moment at their expense and that's kind of scary

valtsv

like sorry to be the bearer of bad news but people piss themselves. when they're afraid. when they've experienced mental and/or physical trauma and their body needs a way to express that stress. when they've been sexually assaulted. when they get older and their muscles start to wear out from a lifetime of service. a not insignificant majority of people Will experience incontinence in their lifetimes and while there are steps you can take to manage it for your own comfort and others', there's simply no moral dimension to it whatsoever. & like i'm not saying every show and movie needs checkhov's bed wetting scene but we have seriously got to get more okay with acknowledging that somehow.