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mars / mimi / m | 24 | no pronouns preferred, they/it if necessary | I literally never use this anymore but I wanted to update my info since my pronouns were wrong LOLexplore my links to learn more ♡♡

[moonfairyshay-deactivated202408]

[unsubconscious]

From “Cats in the Sun”, Greek Islands, published 1994 by Hans Silvester

[luxjii]

Fear me, if you dare!

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[sherfoxed]

vent is shutting down and it genuinely feels like a pet of me is shutting down with it

that app has been such a major part of my life for so long

[tornunderwear]

BEHOLD

[sunbakery]

[cringepdf-deactivated20240504]

the personification of death being portrayed as deeply kind in fiction is something that reduces me to tears every single time

[ponchopeligroso]

every single person you know has something in their life and past that is probably worth collapsing to the ground in an uncontrollably sobbing heap over, so be nice to each other and tell good jokes

[apolloendymion]

tbh it doesn't rly hurt teenagers to incorrectly id as ace like... what's the worst than could happen? they don't have sex till they're older?? lol

[apolloendymion]

"ohh but it'll take them longer to realize they're actually gay" i know my experiences aren't universal but like. if i wasn't ready to face my lesbianism then i was Not Ready, you could've eliminated every other label in existence and i still wouldn't have accepted it. if anything, the ability to try out different labels helped me learn about myself, explore the community, and accept that maybe not being straight wasn't so bad.

[apolloendymion]

also lots of people identify as bi before realizing they are gay, lots of people identify as gay before realizing they're bi, lots of people identify as gay before realizing they're trans, etc etc etc!!! exploring and getting it wrong is a necessary part of the process!!! why is it so different for aroace identities?????

[apolloendymion]

#even if ace was an identity that only existed in teenagers #it would still be meaningful! #the cultural conception of the teenage experience is extremely sexualized and even if the ace label were just a way to opt out #thats still important! #if even one person is able to avoid being pressured into having sex too early by iding as ace then its all worth it

yes yes exactly! thank you for this addition.

i also want to add something, since i realize it wasn't clear in the original post: asexuality and aromanticism are perfectly normal parts of the human experience. they are not recent inventions, online-only, or teen-only. and yes, aspec people have as much right as anyone else to participate in lgbtq+ spaces. what I'm saying with this post is, "even if the things you say about aces were true, that still wouldn't give you reason to be shitty towards them." but i want to stress that those things are not true.

(also, i no longer call myself a lesbian for multiple personal reasons. please do not use this term for me, or refer to me with feminine language. thanks)

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[mais-e-deactivated20231027]

/Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray / MARINA, "Oh No!" / Kayleb Rae Candrilli / Ocean Vuong, from On Earth We’re Brief / unknown.

[aehr-canter]

What difference

[asexual-supporting-character]

“Mothman Says NO To Fascism” Banner

Reblog if you save

[alistair-button]

My tablet’s still busted, but I wanted to do somethin cute for Halloween

Click to see what these silly ghosts are up to~

[ray-winters-sings-deactivated20]

in the year 2018, I can not believe

[cosmicliv]

in the year 2019, i can not believe

[sinshinemun]

it’s summer and i’m still gonna reblog

[heartdrift]

happy spooky season!!!

[icefire149]

I CAN’T STOP LAUGHING AT MY EMAIL RIGHT NOW

WHOOOOOOO LET THEM DO THIS

[prsephonies-deactivated20200815]

when i was a teenager it felt very revolutionary to be cruel to myself. like some kind of slow passive protest against how much everything hurt. i starved myself of sleep and food and tenderness because it felt right. it felt sharp and angry and radical and i wanted to be those things. adulthood is the realisation that the world is already working to cut into you well before you learn how to do it yourself. caring for yourself and others is the real protest

[friedegg]

[friedegg]

[whats-your-name-man]

[cowboyhats]

Michelle K, I Know I Deserve More