hello all! I'm gonna be changing some things around here and being a little stricter about what gets sent in. l've come to realize how some things said on here have not only been insensitive towards the people being talked about but have messed with me and my own mental health. this is just something I do for fun and if it gets to be too much I might go silent for a bit. here's a few ground rules that’ll be implemented moving forward:
commenting on somebody else's body, weight, appearance, or anything along those lines in a negative way will not be tolerated. keep in mind that the things you say do have an affect on other people. whether it's a wag, player, blog owner, or another anon we are all people and words can have more of an effect than you might think
do not sexualize the players. don't ask how they are in bed, their size, etc because it'll just be deleted
don't assume a players sexuality. (or anyone’s for that matter.) whether they're straight or not is none of our business unless they want it to be
not everything will be posted. if I don’t answer an ask it’s either because it’s a repeated question or breaks any of these guidelines
please check the tags before sending something in. I’ll be happy to answer questions after you’ve searched the tags and haven’t found what you were looking for but chances are it’s already been discussed
don’t come on here talking shit about other blogs. it just causes unwanted problems and most of us aren’t here to see two blog owners going at it
no back and forth arguments either. it’s exhausting and a waste of time. accept that we all won’t have the same opinions and there’s nothing wrong with that
this is a gossip blog. it’s all speculation and nothings ever gonna be 100%. proof is rarely provided. sip or spit. believe what you want because that’s the whole point
keep in mind I do have a life outside of this. if I’m less active on certain days I’m likely busy so I’m sorry if I don’t answer an ask right away but spamming my inbox won’t make me answer it any faster. if it’s that important you can always dm me and I’ll answer as soon as I can
if I think of anything else I’ll add it. keep it light hearted and fun! we’re all here for the same thing. I’ll be back to answering asks soon!