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bish0ps

Can you explain this gap in your blog history

peachy-beauty

small self care guide

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get out of bed

make your bed

tidy up your room

open the windows and let some fresh air in

brush your teeth

wash your face and apply a facemask

brush your hair and put it up (or however you feel most comfortable)

drink a glass of water and fill a bottle up for the rest of the day (then refill If emptied)

eat some fruit or veggies

cut your nails

do some breathing exercises

make a list of things you want/need to do

actually do them

you are worthy of love and I hope you have a wonderful day

danger

yekkes

Eldest sisters r the most oppressed

celestialinent

hey yall dumb fucks reblogging this and yapping about how, ur life is actually super hard as a younger sibling…

the ‘eldest sisters are oppressed’ thing is based on the fact that the oldest girls in many families are, a lot of the time, drafted into watching her younger siblings to the point that shes more of a young third parent than a kid anymore. shes expected to be incredibly responsible while her younger siblings get to make mistakes. she get to do more housework than her father because apparently men shouldn’t have to watch laundry.

op is obviously referring to the ways in which older sisters ( nope not brothers) are forced into maternal roles by both society and their parents for a number of reasons, not limited to society’s insistence that they must learn to become mothers early. theres also the fact that many families both need and cant afford childcare. this idea that an oldest sister is free childcare is bullshit.

kceyagi-deactivated20190519

There’s a book called “The Eldest Daughter Effect” that goes into detail about this. And it applies to the oldest daughter so even if the oldest child is a boy and the second child is a daughter, she is the one who ends up getting all that extra pressure and responsibilities for younger siblings.