Tired and Gay

 

[shy-bobo-potato]

Okay. Y'all win I can’t do this anymore Sorry for stating my opinion. Because all I said was the relationship is absuive IMO. I didn’t attack anyone for likening it. And how it got in the Aleheather tag I don’t fucking know. I don’t fucking care either. But this is giving me too much fucking anxiety. And honestly it’s not fucking worth it. I’m just going to stay of this website for a while.

[frogtism]

i’m genuinely sorry if i upset you or gave you anxiety- i specifically went out of my way to ensure that i was being civilized and not harsh or anything. again, i’m very sorry if i upset you!

[shy-bobo-potato]

Oh no it's not you , you were actually so pleasant it was refreshing. I'm talking about the people in my inbox who were attacking me as a person and the people who were making posts behind my back and being passive aggressive towards me. I'm sorry if i made you think this post was towards you. You seem like a very kind person and I appreciate that

[shy-bobo-potato]

Okay. Y'all win I can't do this anymore Sorry for stating my opinion. Because all I said was the relationship is absuive IMO. I didn't attack anyone for likening it. And how it got in the Aleheather tag I don't fucking know. I don't fucking care either. But this is giving me too much fucking anxiety. And honestly it's not fucking worth it. I'm just going to stay of this website for a while.

[shy-bobo-potato]

Okay so let my explain my side.

Yes I said that Aleheather was BORDERLINE abusive I knew it was going to cause problems But hey I mean people can’t have opinions right ? Now this is coming from someone who grew up in an abusive house hold. So this is going of of MY experiences And if you disagree that’s great. I personally don’t care. But this is just how I see I mean the first thing heather did to Alejandro was slap him in the face during all stars. She kicked him in his uh..privates. After he confessed his feelings. I mean I understand wanting money. But really? I mean she kinda caused him to go in the robot suit but whatever. In all stars she threw a fit all because he couldn’t text her because he was in the robot suit. They are so controlling. He only helps her out if he gets something out of it. I mean this ties to my head cannon that he’s a psychopath. But it still stands. But I just hate the way they act towards each other it’s honestly disgusting. Money can easily split them up. They are both manipulative, they bring out the worst in each other. And its just not a healthy relationship. I’m sorry if I can’t give you all my examples. Because I’d have to go back and rewatch their interactions. So I might do a follow up post. But anyway if my post did end up in the Aleheather tag I’m sorry I don’t know how that happened. But I didn’t mean for it to happen I never meant to upset people with my post. It’s honestly just my opinion on the ship. And if you have a problem with what I say you should direct it towards me so we can have a discussion about it and why you disagree with me.

[frogtism]

it’s completely fine that you dislike a ship! however, you can dislike a ship without calling it borderline abuse when it isn’t. 

i’ve also grown up in an abusive household- several actually. i’ve also been in an abusive relationship. however, aleheather isn’t abusive. i could understand your point about heather hitting him but that wasn’t the first thing she did at all when they first met. here’s the alejandro and heather scenes from tdas if you want proof. yes, she did kick him in his privates in the tdwt finale but he literally stuck his tongue down her throat. it was sort of justified! what would you do if a guy you weren’t dating made out with you on the spot on international television?

plus, they resolved the robot suit issue and alejandro got her back for the robot suit by getting her eliminated. they settled their disagreement and only then were they in a relationship so there were no ill feelings toward each other on the matter.

you mention that he only helps her when he gets something out of it. and, yes, in some cases that is true. however, that isn’t even necessarily true all of the time! what did he have to gain from saving her in “Aww, Drumheller!”? plus isn’t playing for themselves what everyone in the game did, though? literally everyone played for themselves. it’s a competition!

they don’t bring out the worst in each other because before they were even in a relationship, they behaved the same way. in fact, after they WERE together they sort of calmed down, didn’t they? remember the line “we don’t even want the money”? (i’m paraphrasing of course but the point still remains)

let’s compare alejandro to duncney after s1, a ship that actually is abusive. courtney constantly wanted to change duncan and she was physically abusive towards him for no reason. alejandro loves the way heather is and vice versa- neither one wants to change the other! also, after the finale which, again, was justified, when did either ever physically harm the other?

i’d like to discuss the examples you have because i don’t think i can recall a single instance of abuse in their relationship.

[shy-bobo-potato]

Im sorry to hear that you grew up in several absuive households and were in an absuive relationship. But I’m not calling it abusive because I don’t like it. I legit believe it’s boarderline abusive. I’m sorry I can’t recall exact moments. But yes it’s disgusting that he shoved his tongue down her throat. That’s technically absuive because he did it without consent. But I also don’t think it’s fair to humiliate someone on TV. Which they both did. When he dug her up from the rock and correct me if I’m wrong but didn’t he just want help getting barrels of oil? Like i said I’m sorry I have problems wit memory. But the problem I have with their relationship is how awful they are to each other. But you did bring up an interesting point. You said that they didn’t change each other. They were already like that. Because I also believe their personalities are too alike and that’s not healthy to be with someone 100% like you. There’s no balance. I mean for example, they are both power hungry people. They both want to be on top, they both want to win , and they drag each other down in the process.

[frogtism]

it’s okay that you have memory problems- i do too sometimes!

i wouldn’t call kissing her without consent abuse necessarly- moreso impulsive. also, i don’t think he realized it WOULD have humilliated her nor do i think she was exactly humilliated. i think heather was simply shocked and caught up in the moment as alejandro was. i know you have memory problems, but could you try to think of an instance of humilliation? i don’t really think either humilliated the other. i really just think they were snarky towards each other because that’s how they are! they’d behave like that with anyone- not just each other. it’s their personalities and i think that those are legitimate character flaws.

in “awww, drumheller” alejandro decided to free heather because she convinced him it wouldn’t have been fair to leave her there. she considered herself the only worthy adversary to him and he agreed, thus, he rescued her.

i don’t really understand your point about them being too similar to eachother and it not being healthy. i’ve dated many people very similar to me and we had a very nice relationship. (though, it didn’t work out due to matter in my personal life i’m still friends with him!)

your final point is understandable, however, what about post-competition? what about when they don’t have to compete? wouldn’t you say that there’s nothing to win? i think their relationship post-competition is when it really blossomed! have you seen the scene in all-stars where heather rides in on the snow mobile? i’ve never seen her looking so sweet or genuinely happy!

[shy-bobo-potato]

When I say that they humiliated each other I mean him kissing her without consent, and her kicking him in his um.. privates. In front of everyone I'm sorry if I wasn't clear on that. I don't mean it's bad that they are alike I mean thier personalities clash. As in they both want to be on top, they both have to be number one and they are constantly fighting for that place. I understand it was a competition But other contestants have made it work. And regarding the snow mobile scene, correct me if I'm wrong but didn't she hit him in the face?

[fitzeight]

Total Drama Island? More like Total Trauma Island

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[shy-bobo-potato]

Okay so let my explain my side.

Yes I said that Aleheather was BORDERLINE abusive I knew it was going to cause problems But hey I mean people can’t have opinions right ? Now this is coming from someone who grew up in an abusive house hold. So this is going of of MY experiences And if you disagree that’s great. I personally don’t care. But this is just how I see I mean the first thing heather did to Alejandro was slap him in the face during all stars. She kicked him in his uh..privates. After he confessed his feelings. I mean I understand wanting money. But really? I mean she kinda caused him to go in the robot suit but whatever. In all stars she threw a fit all because he couldn’t text her because he was in the robot suit. They are so controlling. He only helps her out if he gets something out of it. I mean this ties to my head cannon that he’s a psychopath. But it still stands. But I just hate the way they act towards each other it’s honestly disgusting. Money can easily split them up. They are both manipulative, they bring out the worst in each other. And its just not a healthy relationship. I’m sorry if I can’t give you all my examples. Because I’d have to go back and rewatch their interactions. So I might do a follow up post. But anyway if my post did end up in the Aleheather tag I’m sorry I don’t know how that happened. But I didn’t mean for it to happen I never meant to upset people with my post. It’s honestly just my opinion on the ship. And if you have a problem with what I say you should direct it towards me so we can have a discussion about it and why you disagree with me.

[frogtism]

it’s completely fine that you dislike a ship! however, you can dislike a ship without calling it borderline abuse when it isn’t. 

i’ve also grown up in an abusive household- several actually. i’ve also been in an abusive relationship. however, aleheather isn’t abusive. i could understand your point about heather hitting him but that wasn’t the first thing she did at all when they first met. here’s the alejandro and heather scenes from tdas if you want proof. yes, she did kick him in his privates in the tdwt finale but he literally stuck his tongue down her throat. it was sort of justified! what would you do if a guy you weren’t dating made out with you on the spot on international television?

plus, they resolved the robot suit issue and alejandro got her back for the robot suit by getting her eliminated. they settled their disagreement and only then were they in a relationship so there were no ill feelings toward each other on the matter.

you mention that he only helps her when he gets something out of it. and, yes, in some cases that is true. however, that isn’t even necessarily true all of the time! what did he have to gain from saving her in “Aww, Drumheller!”? plus isn’t playing for themselves what everyone in the game did, though? literally everyone played for themselves. it’s a competition!

they don’t bring out the worst in each other because before they were even in a relationship, they behaved the same way. in fact, after they WERE together they sort of calmed down, didn’t they? remember the line “we don’t even want the money”? (i’m paraphrasing of course but the point still remains)

let’s compare alejandro to duncney after s1, a ship that actually is abusive. courtney constantly wanted to change duncan and she was physically abusive towards him for no reason. alejandro loves the way heather is and vice versa- neither one wants to change the other! also, after the finale which, again, was justified, when did either ever physically harm the other?

i’d like to discuss the examples you have because i don’t think i can recall a single instance of abuse in their relationship.

[shy-bobo-potato]

Im sorry to hear that you grew up in several absuive households and were in an absuive relationship. But I'm not calling it abusive because I don't like it. I legit believe it's boarderline abusive. I'm sorry I can't recall exact moments. But yes it's disgusting that he shoved his tongue down her throat. That's technically absuive because he did it without consent. But I also don't think it's fair to humiliate someone on TV. Which they both did. When he dug her up from the rock and correct me if I'm wrong but didn't he just want help getting barrels of oil? Like i said I'm sorry I have problems wit memory. But the problem I have with their relationship is how awful they are to each other. But you did bring up an interesting point. You said that they didn't change each other. They were already like that. Because I also believe their personalities are too alike and that's not healthy to be with someone 100% like you. There's no balance. I mean for example, they are both power hungry people. They both want to be on top, they both want to win , and they drag each other down in the process.

[shy-bobo-potato]

do you have any real/canon proof that aleheather is abusive?

I explained in my post that I don't remember all the reasons so I'll have to go back and watch the seasons again But basically they manipulate each other. Heather has actually hit Alejandro a couple times out of anger/her personal gain. He only helps her out if he gets something out of it And how easily they broke it off at the end of all stars all because money became involved in their relationship again

[shy-bobo-potato]

I'd also like to add, if you're that mad at me for saying its an abusive relationship don't attack my character. Because I didn't attack you. I just stated my opinion. I didn't say that people who supported Aleheather are monsters All I said was I personally think it's borderline abusive (because it is) But seriously just block me and move on That's what I do with Aleheather blogs because personally the ship triggers my PTSD. I know it sounds ridiculous to you But you'll never understand and that's okay. But like I said, if it ended up in the Aleheather tag that wasn't me. Because I would never do that. Like instead of making posts attacking my character and who I am as a person why don't you talk to me about directly? Like y'all are crazy lol

[shy-bobo-potato]

Aleheather is NOT an abusive Relationship! *kiks your face*

Well I disagree and if you would like to have an actual discussion about the topic I would love to. But I just made a post about why I think it is so if you would like to read it go ahead.

[shy-bobo-potato]

Okay so let my explain my side.

Yes I said that Aleheather was BORDERLINE abusive I knew it was going to cause problems But hey I mean people can't have opinions right ? Now this is coming from someone who grew up in an abusive house hold. So this is going of of MY experiences And if you disagree that's great. I personally don't care. But this is just how I see I mean the first thing heather did to Alejandro was slap him in the face during all stars. She kicked him in his uh..privates. After he confessed his feelings. I mean I understand wanting money. But really? I mean she kinda caused him to go in the robot suit but whatever. In all stars she threw a fit all because he couldn't text her because he was in the robot suit. They are so controlling. He only helps her out if he gets something out of it. I mean this ties to my head cannon that he's a psychopath. But it still stands. But I just hate the way they act towards each other it's honestly disgusting. Money can easily split them up. They are both manipulative, they bring out the worst in each other. And its just not a healthy relationship. I'm sorry if I can't give you all my examples. Because I'd have to go back and rewatch their interactions. So I might do a follow up post. But anyway if my post did end up in the Aleheather tag I'm sorry I don't know how that happened. But I didn't mean for it to happen I never meant to upset people with my post. It's honestly just my opinion on the ship. And if you have a problem with what I say you should direct it towards me so we can have a discussion about it and why you disagree with me.

[shy-bobo-potato]

9. Least favourite episode?

The last episode of all stars One , the finale was predictable. Two, all stars was shit in itself Three , again milking the Aleheather love/hate relationship And I dunno it was overall bad and disappointing

[ciircuitsdead-deactivated202307]

United be like

[frogtism]

chase (@agenderchaseyoung) came to a very interesting conclusion: his name is spud.. like a potato… a BAKED POTATO ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[crimsunflower-blog]

[shy-bobo-potato]

Post pictures of 3 total drama characters that are most like your personality

[soumnl-deactivated20200516]

guys make this a thing

put pics of the three total drama characters your personality irl is a mix of

[shy-bobo-potato]

8. Least favourite season?

I think it's safe to say this is almost everyone's least favourite season, but it's all stars. Surprise ,Surprise I hates this Season because they milked the love/hate relationships. To the point where it was actually frustrating to watch. The writers really needed to decide what they were doing. Do you want court and Gwen to be friends or not. Like make up your mind. Now I pray that this doesn't make me loose followers. But another reason why I hated it was because of all the Aleheather. I feel like I'm in the minority when I say I absolutely hate this ship with all of my heart. It's so unhealthy and the relationship is borderline abusive, from both parties. And clearly the relationship can't be that strong if money can separate you that fast. Now I love Alejandro and heather when they are alone , but together they bring the worst out of each other. So I found it very hard to actually sit through this season

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