Date with Tara - What to expect
I get a lot of responses online asking about how to have a date with me. This blog has been created to explain what I am looking for and what is expected from my dates.
I am available for dates in the Ocala, Inverness, and Crystal River FL area for lunches, afternoon drinks, or dinner dates.
If we are in the chatting phase and you are directed to this page, it will give you a clear idea of what to expect on a date. If you are serious about a date with me and are prepared to offer a gift (and be specific), now is the time to tell me.
Important things to know.
I don’t sell sex, so please do not ask me for this. (We are adults and aware of what you want. No need to ask for things.)
I offer my time as company.
This is a lunch, dinner or drinks date only. Any private time you are wanting will be discussed in person over drinks.
If you are wanting any time other than dinner/drinks in public. Be aware that I do vet all gentlemen by using an online verification service. I value my safety and a true gentleman understands that.
1. Contact me to let me know you want a date. If you don’t have clear face pictures on your profile, you will need to send one.
2. You need to decide on a gift and let me know up front. Recommended Gifts - See Gift page.
3. I will need your real name and current location so I can run a verification check thru a web verification service. This is a paid service and it averages about $10 for me to do a check. To show you are serious, I ask you cover this charge by paypal before I start the verification.
4. Once I verify you, I will get with you and finalize the plans for our date.
In order to enjoy our time, you need to learn how to discuss our time together correctly. In order to discuss anything intelligently, you need knowledge about our arrangement. I do not sell sex! As a matter of fact, you can pretty much insure yourself a really bad experience if you ask how much it would cost to have sex with you. I don’t mind talking about sexual things, but do not ask for sex in exchange for money.
Leave your gift discreetly on the table at the beginning of the date. Don’t expect me to ask for the gift. Do not mention the gift. Guys that forget this will see the date cut short very quickly. I don’t like for guys to play games. Take care of this first, then we can enjoy the evening.
Be the guy that has confidence. This means if you want to ask me for a date, have a specific date and place in mind. I like guys that can plan a date without asking me where I want to go. If you want a date, ask me for a specific date and place. If I am available and am interested, I will let you know.
Dress to impress. Don’t show up in sweats or old jeans. First impressions are important. I do plan on having a good time with you and I like my men to impress me as much as I intend to impress you.
I don’t do same day dates. - I don’t date every day, so when I do, I like to prepare for my dates, and it takes time to do this. Part of this experience for me is the anticipation of the date, the buildup, the planning. All of this really turns me on. Being rushed is a mood killer.
Safety - For my safety, we will meet in public. If we move the date to a private location, I will verify who you are first.
I expect for you to contact me the day of the date to confirm the time and place. Why? There are so many flakes in the lifestyle and I hate to be stood up. If I do not hear from you the day of our date around lunch, I WILL cancel our date and make other plans..
Meeting locations. Initial meetings will always be at a public place. I recommend a restaurant bar or a place that lets me really turn on my flirt . I love to dress in sexy short dresses, high heels, bare legs. Ocala to Homosassa FL, I consider my local area.
If you follow the above tips, I will be so much more comfortable with you and we both will have a memorable experience.
Are you a “Pro” - Well, the short answer is no. “Pros” date for a living, sex really is guaranteed, and usually they have many dates per week. For me, I limit my dates to once or twice a month. Although there is a gift involved, I also love the lifestyle and enjoy meeting and spending time with a gentleman.
Am I going to get sex on this date. A true gentleman speaks to me with the highest regard and never says anything that could be misconstrued that could get us in trouble and really should not ask this question. ;)
Why do you charge for a date?
1. Many men are naturally generous, but lets be honest, most are not. Those that are not expect me to spend money getting my hair done, nails done, waxing, etc. Then spend 3 hours getting dressed for a date, driving 1 or 2 hours to meet them on my dime. Then they feel generous when they buy a dinner and a few drinks. So, guys have to be reminded what it is to be generous for a date that they will have a good time on.
2. It prevents being stood up on a date. More than once, I have chatted with really nice guys and they say all the right things. Make a date with them, spend hours getting ready and going to the date, and they are a no show or a total flake. Asking for a date gift, weeds these guys out. And lets be honest, if we click and we want to see each other more, I am a high maintenance gal, so I expect my men to be generous. I have no time for cheap-o’s.
How much does a date cost? That is up to you. A just dinner or lunch date usually I get about $200-$250. But you may offer any amount you wish. I may accept or decline the offer. (See recommended gifts } If we move the date to a private location, then the gift is usually doubled. Of course the time I spend with you will also be increased so we will have plenty of time to have fun.
How long will the date be? I don’t put a limit on the time I am with a gentleman. It really depends on how well we hit it off. I would say a dinner date runs about 2 hours. If you choose to extend the date to a private location, then of course the time is also extended.
Why do you ask for a deposit? - Unfortunately guys on different sites will contact me making wonderful offers, but in reality, they have no intention of showing up for the date. To them the thrill of making the date is enough. But for me, I spend a minimum of 2 hours getting ready, not to mention the prep that goes into making myself mentally prepared to enjoy the date. I may drive one way up to one hour. So getting stood up is not something I will put up with. Asking for a deposit assures me the gentleman is serious and intends to go thru with the date. If they don’t show, I keep the deposit and go buy a pair of shoes, so I am happy.
Why did you make this page? There is a website called Whatsyourprice com which has this concept. But I speak with a lot of gentlemen who find me on facebook, twitter, tumblr, or other sites who are not members of whatsyourprice. So, I created this for them. It works the same way, but allows for direct contact with me without having to communicate thru a website.
This blog looks so formal. Why? - I get asked this a lot. The best answer to this question is that I am very OCD. I like order and understanding in my life You should see my closet, refrigerator and cabinets. The other reason is because many guys (and women) can be clueless, and if I spell everything out it prevents misunderstanding and allows for a more relaxed date.
After we have agreed on a location, time and date. To make your deposit for the date Click Here
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