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dreamgirlvibes

remanence-of-love

dreamgirlvibes

Bro these last two weeks have been sooooo shittty … I’ve cried literally every day. I just don’t understand the shift in my relationship it’s actually making me sad idk

thoughtkick

“I want a bond so tight that even on bad terms u still run to me 1st.”

— Unknown

allycat75

theambitiouswoman

Guys, the other day I was reading articles about this, and psychology makes a clear distinction between being kind and being too nice. Being the bigger person doesn’t mean swallowing disrespect or avoiding conflict. The niceness comes from fear of upsetting people or being rejected, it’s conflict avoidance. Many people were conditioned early to believe keeping the peace matters more than honesty, and that shows up as over giving, under charging, avoiding hard conversations, and tolerating disrespect

Psychology also links chronic over accommodation to fragile self worth. People with healthy self esteem don’t need to be liked to feel secure. They can tolerate tension, set boundaries without over explaining, and let others experience consequences. This matters emotionally and practically. In work, money, and relationships, avoiding discomfort often means giving away value and opportunities. Real maturity is kindness with boundaries, compassion without self betrayal, and knowing that sometimes protecting your peace means stepping back and letting people sit in what they caused

pussymargiela

faustique

someone told me that when they feel nervous about doing something & their heart starts beating really fast, that they call it their "inner applause" because their body is cheering them on, and i think that's the sweetest narrative adjustment ever.