gay on the loose

Sheoth or Halcyon • 24 • they/it • nonbinary ● icon by Exlimixia ● side blog @dreadknightofyiithorn

[sirsheoth]

Get normal about pda, with no romantic intentions, done between friends NOW

[sycamorality]

polyamory and aromanticism would solve so many stupid relationship issues

[wolfisblank]

Tip: You can be polyamorous and aromantic to unlock weird relationships with friends

[fragile-things-archive]

did you sleep well tonight? (I love you) we should do this one day (I love you) did you eat? (I love you) I brought you this because it's your favorite (I love you) have you taken your vitamins? (I love you) I made this for you (I love you) did you get home safe? (I love you) I made you some tea (I love you) how's the project that you're working on? (I love you) don't forget your umbrella (I love you) take my scarf (I love you) I'll wait with you (I love you) I'll wait for you (I love you) (I love you) (I love you)

[saturnisfilledwithbees]

“Put him on his knees give him something to believe in” has the exact same energy and depth of meaning as anything Hozier puts out on the regular but since it’s sung by Megan Thee Stallion no one takes it seriously. In this essay I will-

[saturnisfilledwithbees]

To flesh this out a little bit more: both Megan Thee Stallion and Hozier write and sing really sexual songs, but they’re different in that Hozier’s music is typically “let me worship you” while Megan’s is usually “I’m worshipping myself,” which makes all the difference because it’s an acceptance of power rather than the giving of it. He’s the sinner, she’s the saint. However, taking their difference in genres out of it, people don’t usually seem to take Megan Thee Stallion’s music seriously in comparison to Hozier because a) her lyrics are more overtly and blatantly sexual and b)she’s claiming her sexuality for herself, and that scares a lot of people. The secret, no-one-wants-to-talk-about reason is that she’s a confident black woman, which terrifies people way than sex does. In conclusion, Hozier and Megan Thee Stallion are two sides of the same poetic, sexual coin, but people just don’t want to admit it. Which is WHY a collaboration between Hozier and Megan would be so powerful that it would change the timeline as we know it yes I will elaborate 

[deadandwalking]

hey kitten. daddy needs to talk to you. your kink blog is great, but you are not highlighting the words correctly. kitten. stop highlighting. this is shit. did you seriously highlight that period. kitten.

[simply-a-dream]

“don’t take it personally” how would you like me to take it then? professionally? romantically? academically?

[creative-anchorage]

[smiledog62]

if she's your girl then why is she playing my station

[drslouch]

if she's your girl then why is she gaming my cube

[flareonfloof]

if she's your x that explains why she's 360ing my box

[wolfslambs]

not to gross u out but i daydream abt u resting ur head on my chest and ur completely at ease and ur safe and warm

[uss0]

i highly recommend finding yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who's always super excited about you. life is too short to spend it with someone who acts like showing love is a chore.

[um-jammer-tranny]

the bpd girl would like to stop being discarded and proven right

[toki504]

[petulantpony]

it’s like endlessly infuriating when other systems try to do this “my headmate is a different race than me and also i have headmates with different genitals than me” shit. it displays a fundamental misunderstanding of plurality and what an alter even is. they are fractured, compartmentalized pieces of the psyche. plurality is compartmentalization! it is not spiritual! the people in your head are *part of you and each other* they are not ghosts or separate entities that we take on in our heads. they are pieces of us. everyone get more materialist about plurality, what it is, how it works, and why it exists ASAP please

[calamity-corner]

some headmates in our system have bodies in headspace that aren't like. what the body actually is. one of us has a dick n balls in headspace where the body doesn't and IDs as a cis man to himself but like. he can't be talking as a cis guy cuz he's *not.* is that what you're getting at?

even disregarding the obvious fact that you can have whatever body you want in headspace and that doesn't affect your material physical reality, there are trans men with penises, anon. i'm a trans woman with a vagina. you people really need to learn what trans and cis mean because they have a very specific meaning and it doesn't have to do with "gender vibes" and it doesn't have to do with genitalia either

[calamity-corner]

here's the thing, right. if you want to actually respect your headmates and treat them like real people, then you have to recognize the reality that they share the same body as you. and many of you are conflating the trans and cis adjectives as part of the gender identity and they're not.

to use this anon's example, i understand that this headmate may want to be cis, but what he is is a man, and the body he occupies was afab. that means he is a trans man. many trans people want to be cis! but the words cis and trans describe a very specific thing, and it helps no one to treat them like aesthetics or vibes.

similarly, someone maybe feel like a "transfem headmate" but if she is a woman in a body that was afab, she's cis because that's what that word means. and she needs to unpack her associations and assumptions about trans women and why she feels the need to "identify as one" despite being a woman who was assigned female at birth. you gotta use your brains with this stuff y'all

[crabussy]

conservation is worship to me. in a sense.

[crabussy]

I'm not religious but I'm a very emotional scientist and I've been thinking about this a LOT lately. I love the earth enough to be its steward. and I have the necessary tools for the task. a complex brain. dexterous hands. legs made to walk long and far. millions and millions of years of Chance and Opportunity shaped me into something that can give back to the planet that has been a life-sustaining home for every person who ever lived. it's enough to make me teary eyed sometimes

[crabussy]

"humans are pests that should be exterminated" I don't think that's true. the ecological niche of humans has shifted from persistence predation to stewardship of entire ecosystems. we've done a lot of wrong. but we have incredible potential to do so, so, so much good.

[crabussy]

this post speaks very broadly! I know a lot of us have brains that find some tasks very difficult and hands that struggle and legs that hurt. you're a wonderful person if that's you. I'm more than happy to do enough for us both. we're stewards, but we're also a cooperative species with an incredible capacity for kindness. rest well for me. [:

[once-a-polecat]

My mom texts me: “Put your heart sunglasses on the cat!” I dunno mom, they’re big and I don’t think he’s gonna go for it. “Just try it, I saw it on Instagram, it’ll be cute.”

Nope.

Nope.

Bowie, please do not eat that.

OH SHIT!!!!

[mens-rights-activia]

[mens-rights-activia]

He WHAT??? Oh 15 stabs were not enough