So, for those of you who were not aware, I had court yesterday. I’d be lying if I said it was an interesting experience. Lucky I didn’t fall asleep. Yet in the end my lawyer and I accomplished what we set out to do.
The wife showed up running her mouth and demanding money (not at all surprised) then tried to tell my lawyer that my kids didn’t want to live with me because they were terrified of me. I just want to make it perfectly clear that my boys love me, and the only time they’re at all scared is if they have done something wrong and know they’re about to get a spanking. I’d also like to point out that Texas has no alimony (ha ha) and that I didn’t even consider asking her for a dime; even though I filed for primary.
Anyways, after we got through the initial onslaught, we showed her the agreement we had worked up. She immediately refused it, saying she didn’t want me taking the boys away from her; even though I’ve explained to her countless times that my goal was never to take them completely away from her. It really does seem like anything other than exactly what she wants is a personal attack against her, in her mind anyways.
After that, I can’t really tell you what happened, because I wasn’t in the same room as her. My lawyer and I sat in the court room while the wife and her friend she brought with her sat in the lobby and discussed the agreement. In the end, she came into the court room and said she would agree with everything except moving the boys out of Joshua ISD. I was fine with that given I’m still working out of Joshua, so it’s no big deal.
Then, a few minutes later out of nowhere while the wife is looking over the edited agreement, she jumps up and says that she doesn’t want the boys living with my brother (which is who I’m living with) because he’d be a danger to them. I have to compliment my lawyer at this point, because she stayed very calm and explained to her that if she really feels that way, then she needs to find proof, otherwise there’s nothing that can be done about it. What I found funny about that is that I don’t think the wife realized who my lawyer is.
Back a few months ago, my brother had some issues with his fiancé that became legal. Therefore he hired my lawyer. Is actually because of him that I have who I have. So when my wife sits there and tells my lawyer that my brother (who is also get client) is a danger to our kids, it’s just ironic to me.
Anyhow, so she finally agreed to the whole agreement, and it was entered by the judge. So, unless something dramatic changes in the next 60 days, we’ll move on to the divorce proceedings. I’m not happy about that; getting divorced is something I never thought would happen to me, but you can’t control everything life throws at you, and sometimes she throws cheating women at you. So you just gotta deal.
Point is, for what it’s worth: I win.
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