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heavily transformers-pilled right now.
i am anti-censorship. also they/them [horror sting]
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don’t forget to queue so Birthday Sprinkles can visit you on your birthday, as is his god given task
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Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
Hi I've moved!! My new blog is @archivist-the-knight if you stillwanna follow me. I'll be posting all my art over there from now on and I'll keep this up as an archive :-]
you seem like the right person to tell this to. I thought jhariah was white for a full year until a friend got mad at me when I called him a white man I would see in a dream
I AM NOT EVEN ACTIVE ON THIS BLOG ANYMORE WHY ARE YOU TELLING ME THIS. I AM THE RIGHT PERSON TO TELL BECAUSE THATS RACIST AS SHIT DUDE. I AGREE WITH YOUR FRIEND. THATS RACIST.
Here is a skill that many of us are going to need for survival: how to tell if someone is offering to let you lie.
The tip-off phrase is "If [circumstance] was true, then we/I could do [helpful thing.]" This is not a guarantee that the person is offering, but it should tell you "I am being informed of a way to improve things."
Your confirmation phrase is "What documentation would that require?" This is essentially asking them "if people come asking me to prove this, will I be able to? Or will they not come at all?"
The answer you are hoping for with the confirmation phrase is "Just tell me if it's true, and I'll put it on the form." Note that this is not a direct instruction to lie, because they can't tell you that.
If they didn't mean to extend an offer to lie or this is a situation where they can't, then they'll list off something like your paystubs or your birth certificate. Your response back in that case is "Thanks, I'll tell my friends who qualify." This clears you of any concerns that you may have been considering lying.
The more complex answer is when they answer by giving you a form on the spot. Your job, in this case, is to scan the form and see if what they are asking you can be meaningfully verified by an official source.
Things that can be verified by an official source include, but are not limited to, your age, legal sex, income, veteran status, and place of residence. It's not generally a good idea to lie about these on official documents.
Be smart, and be practical. Do what you need to in order to stay alive, and keep an ear out for the people offering to help you do so.
im having trouble understanding this in the abstract, could someone give an example of a hypothetical situation this would apply to?
"This medication is covered for FREE if you are quitting smoking. Are you working on quitting?"
*me, thinking about how I quit smoking in 2018 and it is now the year of our lord 2024* "Oh yeah, still working very hard. You know how those cravings can hit."
*please note, how I omitted the truth in the example. I didn't ANNOUNCE it been 6 years SINCE I ALREADY QUIT. I said that I was working hard because cravings are still a thing (6 years later not said out loud). The fact I haven't have a SINGLE one in 4 years [I was Weak during lockdown but could not finish a cig anymore] is irrelevant. The doctor asking me was *nudge nudge wink wink* pointing out that labeling my cig use as "not quite quit yet" would cut some costs on medications.
Sometimes the 'lies' you are being an opportunity to nod along for are just ommissions of truth. Like- still being an active smoker for easier access to other treatments or random pains being worse than YOU personally find them. "If X is true, Y could be an option for you" is a way to allow you to snip off details to make X TECHNICALLY true. They are asking you to be a VAGUE fuck- not a pedantic one. For BOTH of y'all's plausible deniability.
"So these symptoms prevent you from doing [X, Y, Z] activities?"
Even if YOU think you are mildly inconvenienced at best, 'OH YEAH- the generalized fatigue/nagging pain/light headed feeling just makes it so hard to [whatever activity you just find more choresome in those circumstances]!'
I have also had it happen at random coffee shops. Or vape shops.
"How much cash do you have on you? Conveniently this is on sale RIGHT NOW for you for 5 dollars less than that IF it happens to be your birthday. It's your birthday... RIGHT??????"
Is the exact same concept. "You have a coupon right?" "And you saw the BOGO deal and remembered to mention it, RIGHT? Cuz mentioning it before I complete the transaction will make these BOGO..."
You may ask, “why would someone ask me to lie?”
You all ever seen that scene in the Incredibles where Mr. incredible basically tells this little old lady to get her stuff approved? It’s a cartoonish example of what happens all the time in real life.
You ever seen a cashier conveniently forget to ring up baby formula for a single mother, and then wish her a lovely day?
Sometimes, people look out for each other. Pay attention and let them. The world is spooky out there; we’re all in it together.
This is a good read and worth paying attention to. The human urge to help out other beings is strong, and people are prone to trying to indicate things like this to you.
This post gives some good steer on tasting if that's what is happening, a good read.
My partner needed my signature on a thing for the insurance company. I was out of the country. The nice lady looked at him and said "you should go check in the parking lot" and he explained that I was Out of the Country and she shook her head and said again (more patiently, and enunciating clearly) "you should CHECK in the PARKING LOT" and nodded at him, handing him the form and a pen.
He finally understood.
this is the number one reason i miss being a cashier. helping people and sticking it to the man at the same time, in tiny little ways every day. 😌
Important addendum:
If somebody does this for you, and you are at any point in a position to give Feedback On Your Experience — no they didn't. Don't tell Yelp, don't tell the customer satisfaction survey, for the love of fuck don't tell their boss, even if you mean it as praise. "Employee was friendly, knowledgeable, and professional" end of review.
Don't accidentally narc on someone doing you a solid.
