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@skeleton-citizen
block don't report block don't report block don't report
hey so my sideblog vanished so i'm making a new one
if you don't feel comfortable just leave. i'll either heal or die, it's none of your business, reporting me will just lead to another sideblog. or multiple sideblogs. please respect the fact that some people need to vent about their problems without necessarily being ready to heal.
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* the Skeleton City is back
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Guys we're moving
//the skeleton city is collapsing
//we're going to a safer place for now
//look for the #skeletoncity
If you were following me, Vic, or Cobalt, you'll find us there with pretty much the same names and aesthetic
So sad to see cobalt disappear again 😔
JUST HIT MY FIRST GW I DIDNT EVEN REALIZE THAT UNTIL LATER THIS AFTERNOON WTF
Okay this was easy 😌 let's see if I can get to 50 by the end of the month 🤞🏾
having the shower on the hottest setting and still being freezing cold has got to be one of the worst parts
I hate not feeling hungry its like I’m doing something wrong
I cant wait until clothes look good on me
🌸 ~ pink 5p0! °.• ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ *.°
hey soooo...
I usually don't do this kind of thing(?) I'm also a supporter of the "block don't report" thing but honestly some things HAVE to be reported because they actively harm OTHERS.
We may be harming ourselves here but we never promote these behaviours or order people to hurt themselves and threaten and blackmail them. We do our best and support each other.
You may search for this profile and see the links and notice the MADNESS in them starting from the very first lines. Do not stop at the seemingly neutral tone in the post. Literally open any of the two links on it or DM the person directly and you'll already notice the mask crack and eventually fall off.
Now some storytime:
A fellow "skeleton" of mine was offered to join this group so she tried to go through with it and told me the vibe was off immediately. This person here is EXTREMELY toxic, bossy, and entitled.
And the way the group works is basically a herd of flying monkeys jumping around a delusional narcissist. They are all held together by fear of being REPORTED EN MASSE by every member of the group.
And if they refuse to report the banned member and show proof then of course they get reported as well.
Part of this sort of "initiation" also consists in reporting an apparently random person and in being considered "sus" if one dares to even just ask why.
One is also considered "sus" if they don't join workout sessions at literally any hour of the day or night.
So my fellow skeleton(s) are pretty much all brats at least as much as I am, and don't handle humiliation very well. Like hell she was gonna get out of bed for a random yoga session at 1am, so of course what she did after politely declining resulted in being insulted was reply literally "I'm not your doll to play with" as soon as she was ordered to do things she didn't want to do.
She was answered that "timezones are not an excuse not to commit".
She was called a "f4t f*ck" for not complying (ironically by someone with a waaay higher BMI than her who clearly lacks self awareness).
And in reply to the "doll" comparison, she was told "in my gc you are :)"
Guys.
GUYS.
I wish I had screenshots to show you but she was blocked and banned immediately after this message and will probably soon be reported on here too and will lose her blog (again).
So the only sane thing we can do other than steer away from people like this is report them ourselves. Cause they create an environment in which being honest and respectful is impossible, based on fear and threats and stupid rules.
The "block don't report" policy can only work when there is respect for other people. Not this level of entitlement and harmful behavior towards others. People who are more afraid of losing their blog than her would BEG this evil person to stay in the group and accept any form of humiliation and comply.
This person is creating a network of hate based on toxic behaviour, putting themselves on a makeshift throne and literally, by their own admission, playing with people like they were dolls.
Except we're not dolls. We're skeletons. We move OURSELVES towards our goals at our own pace. We support each other and give each other grace and patience when we need it. We are all trying not to die here. And we call out bs and toxic delusional narcissists when we see them.
Please share this post and report this person.
s0ps3s
twenty4 | MDNF | block me dnt rprt
(I won't tag them for obvious reasons)
But honestly even if they get to me, I don't care if my blog gets reported too. This blog is just a part of the skeleton. I have another 205 bones if they break this one.
Yea my friend's blog was shut down due to this group's reporting and this one person's entitlement. :') she'll be back but this is insane
UPDATE
So apparently they opened a new blog oc-ew
Only things I can think of doing are either reporting again or dm them "I'm not your doll to play with".
You know, just to show what side we're on.
they should invent a day where nothing has calories
Empt¡n£ss is pure, st4rv@t¡0n is the cure.
Remember that.
guide to edblr - WIP
hello and welcome! this is a work in progress guide to edblr (please share suggestions)
what this is - a list of slang, unwritten rules
what this is not - tips for a4a/m1a, promoting EDs
disclaimer - EDs are not some fun little diet, so if you’re considering engaging in disordered habits, run while you still can
Section 1 - Slang/terms
slang you will often encounter when roaming the streets of edblr
ana/a4a/4n4 - anorex1a
mia- bul1mia
wannarex1c - someone who wishes they had anorex1a, but does not engage in anorex1c behaviours/someone who purposefully starts engaging in disordered behaviours to try and develop anorex1a
OSFED - other specified feeding or eating disorder
BED - binge eating disorder
ARFID - avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder
ortho/orthorexia - a (currently) unofficial disorder, characterised by an obsession with eating healthy food
NES - night eating syndrome
OCD - obsessive compulsive disorder
pro-4na - promotion of an0rexia
pro-mia - promotjon of bul1mia
SH - self harm
TW - trigger warning
purge - inducing vomit to compensate for eating
amenorrhea - loss of period due to malnutrition
PCOS - polycystic ovarian syndrome
osteoporosis - condition where bones become thin, weak, and fragile due to mineral loss
bc - body check, an image of your body to check your progress or current appearance
ed- e@ting d1sorder
hw - highest weight
lw - lowest weight
gw- goal weight
gw1, gw2, etc - numbered gws for those who have multiple
ugw - ultimate goal weight
restriction - restricting food intake
high/medium/low res - different types of restriction, how much one restricts (this is subjective)
thinsp0 - th1nspiration, images of thin people as motivation
b0nesp0 - images of bony people as motivation
deathsp0 - images of emaciated people as motivation
fatsp0 - images of larger people as motivation to not become like them (for the record, i DO NOT condone this)
comparisonsp0 - images of smaller people alongside others, as motivation
reverse th1nspo - pretty much just fatsp0
meansp0 - mean written inspiration, usually insults/humiliation
sweetsp0 - sweet written inspiration, usually praise
-spo - a suffix for types of inspo
fasting - not consuming food for an extended period of time, either for health benefits, or, more commonly, weight loss
water fasting - the default type of fasting, no food, only water
liquid fasting - allowing liquids such as smoothies/shakes/juice/coffee/soup during fasting
dirty fasting - allowing a small amount of food to be consumed during the fasting period
OMAD - one meal a day
cal/c4l/kiki/kc/kcal - kilocal0ries
kj - kilojoules (another measure of energy, used in Australia/china/New Zealand/parts of Europe)
wl - weight loss
termed/t-worded - terminated, essentially banned from tumblr
tags - hashtags under a post, usually obscure to try and prevent termination
shblr - self h4rm tumblr
edblr - e4ting dis0rder tumblr
jiraiblr - Jirai tumblr, a tumblr community of those who identify with the Japanese jirai culture, often involving mental health struggles
sh*tpost - random sh*t, low effort posts
a4a coaches - people (usually older men) who like to coach disordered individuals, often in a creepy and/or sexual manner
a4a buddies - two disordered individuals who choose to mutually motivate and help each other
moots - mutuals
anon - anonymous askers
DNI - do not interact
MDNI - minors do not interact
AN - an0rexia nerv0sa
BDD - body dysmorphic disorder
BMI - body mass index
BMR - basal metabolic rate (the minimum energy (calor1es) your body needs to perform essential functions
BN - bulim1a nerv0sa
BPD - borderline personality disorder
c/s - chew and spit, a practice where one chews their food and spits it out
b/p - a practice where on binges and purges to compensate
binge - uncontrollable consumption of an unusually large amount of food, not to be confused with overeating
overeating - eating more than intended
EDNOS - eating disorder not otherwise specified
IP - inpatient, treatment in a hospital
girlblogging- a girl or young woman using their blog as an online, personal diary to share cutesy and personal content
PTSD - post traumatic stress disorder
harm reduction - strategies to potentially help reduce harm from EDs
Section 2 - unwritten rules
1. fight club - the first rule of fight club is not to talk about fight club (i.e, don’t mention edblr publicly)
2. meansp0 - do NOT give unsolicited meansp0
3. private - when you make an account, hide your likes and following to help prevent mass termination
4. 4n4 coaches - be wary of coaches
5. rep0rt - please do not report people who are not actively harming others
6. reblog - please do not reblog posts and add non-edblr tags
7. read more - when sharing sensitive content or images, such as cvtsp0 or a bc, please add a cut so it is not visible without tapping read more
8. tw - please include a trigger warning when sharing sensitive content, preferably including what potential triggers might be
9. please do not encourage others to develop EDs
10. diagnosis - plenty of us on edblr are not diagnosed. this can be due to many reasons, such as lack of financial resources, being a POC, being male or non-binary, or fear of judgement. this does not make anyone any less valid, however if you do wish to use a specific ED term (anorex1a, bulim1a, BED, etc), please read the DSM-5 beforehand, to see which condition might make sense for you. imo, EDs are easier to self-diagnose than other conditions like ADHD or BPD, but do not claim to be diagnosed if you are not.
This guide is a WIP, and any suggestions or amendments would be much appreciated. Reblogging would also help greatly xx
