It's okay to not be okay

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ "Closure is a myth." Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ --I go by Eli-- Icon by carisi-dreams — header by dykedva // I want everyone to know that my /About hasn’t been updated since like 2016 I think so some info is missing or inaccurate. thanks // all TERFs die, none go to heaven —

[prosytrinket]

I’m worth twelve of you, Malfoy.

happy birthday neville longbottom

[antoniosvivaldi]

“We were all in the D.A. together. It was all supposed to be about fighting You-Know-Who, wasn’t it? And this is the first chance we’ve had to do something real — or was that all just a game or something?”

— Happy birthday to Neville Longbottom

[morganapendragon]

Happy Birthday, Neville Longbottom (July 30, 1980) 

[skeptical-lesbian]

you know i almost went back and put my actual diagnosis on that post but it’s not worth it. bye guys

[skeptical-lesbian]

to the anons in my inbox that i’m not going to dignify with individual responses:

being a TERF isn’t feminism its bigotry, i’m afab so your argument about my identity is invalid, and no i don’t regret my post

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

if you can be attracted to transwomen (or any males for that matter), you are not a lesbian.

if you ARE male (including transwomen), you are not a lesbian.

so are you the kind of lesbian who is homosexual and pays lip service to men who identify as lesbians (they’ll call you a transphobe for not dating them), or are you bisexual?

[skeptical-lesbian]

trans women are women. i’m not bisexual. i know who i am. i hope someday you can figure it out too

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

I’m bisexual. It ain’t so bad 👌

[skeptical-lesbian]

well i hope that someday you can find peace with whatever is making you want to live your life in a way that’s harmful and rude to people who just want to live their life. your transphobia is sad, and what/whoever made you believe what you do has done an incredible disservice to someone who i truly hope would be otherwise a decent person. have a nice life, but stop insulting trans people

trans women are women, and loving them still makes me a lesbian

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

Loving males as you love females makes you bisexual. Congrats, welcome to the club.

[skeptical-lesbian]

what’s someone who’s intersex, to you, i wonder? how do you feel about xy women and girls? i’m curious

[dont-be-intersexist]

look at this asshole suggesting that women with ais are the same as perisex males. fuck you, skeptical-bisexual. intersex women aren’t validation props for normal biological males.

[skeptical-lesbian]

i’m not trying to say that they are. it’s simply a tangent in a conversation you weren’t involved in. maybe i just want to change topics. im having a normal one on one conversation and i’m sick of what we’re talking about. and, as i said in the tags: i’m not bisexual

and on top of that, i’m intersex myself. so i don’t know what you’re looking for here

[dont-be-intersexist]

are you actually intersex? what’s your diagnosis? if you have pcos, i’m legally obligated to punch you in the face.

[skeptical-lesbian]

my diagnosis is “piss off, you aren’t entitled to my exact medical history just because you want to be an asshole on the internet”. i don’t have pcos, no, but knowing that i’m intersex is enough for you

now, i just promised someone i would go and die. so have fun being my last post ❤️

[skeptical-lesbian]

homophobes dying will make all gay ppl happy. but you're not the victim here. you want lesbians correctively raped by trans women. you want lesbians to make exceptions for the opposite sex. you want being gay to be a choice. you're a terrible human being so this manipulation doesn't work on me. one less bigot denying the right for female homosexuals to exist.

i don’t want anyone raped. you want me to die? okay. you deal with it on your conscience. goodbye

[skeptical-lesbian]

woman used to mean "adult human female." lesbians are females attracted to females. can't use the new inclusive definition of woman with the old definition of lesbian. lesbians are same sex attracted biological females. homosexual females exist and you can die mad.

would that make you happy? for me to die?

[skeptical-lesbian]

to the anons in my inbox that i’m not going to dignify with individual responses:

being a TERF isn’t feminism its bigotry, i’m afab so your argument about my identity is invalid, and no i don’t regret my post

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

if you can be attracted to transwomen (or any males for that matter), you are not a lesbian.

if you ARE male (including transwomen), you are not a lesbian.

so are you the kind of lesbian who is homosexual and pays lip service to men who identify as lesbians (they’ll call you a transphobe for not dating them), or are you bisexual?

[skeptical-lesbian]

trans women are women. i’m not bisexual. i know who i am. i hope someday you can figure it out too

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

I’m bisexual. It ain’t so bad 👌

[skeptical-lesbian]

well i hope that someday you can find peace with whatever is making you want to live your life in a way that’s harmful and rude to people who just want to live their life. your transphobia is sad, and what/whoever made you believe what you do has done an incredible disservice to someone who i truly hope would be otherwise a decent person. have a nice life, but stop insulting trans people

trans women are women, and loving them still makes me a lesbian

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

Loving males as you love females makes you bisexual. Congrats, welcome to the club.

[skeptical-lesbian]

what’s someone who’s intersex, to you, i wonder? how do you feel about xy women and girls? i’m curious

[dont-be-intersexist]

look at this asshole suggesting that women with ais are the same as perisex males. fuck you, skeptical-bisexual. intersex women aren’t validation props for normal biological males.

[skeptical-lesbian]

i’m not trying to say that they are. it’s simply a tangent in a conversation you weren’t involved in. maybe i just want to change topics. im having a normal one on one conversation and i’m sick of what we’re talking about. and, as i said in the tags: i’m not bisexual

and on top of that, i’m intersex myself. so i don’t know what you’re looking for here

[skeptical-lesbian]

i’m willing to bet that the people in my inbox are the same 3 people that have been replying to every post i make

[skeptical-lesbian]

to the anons in my inbox that i’m not going to dignify with individual responses:

being a TERF isn’t feminism its bigotry, i’m afab so your argument about my identity is invalid, and no i don’t regret my post

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

if you can be attracted to transwomen (or any males for that matter), you are not a lesbian.

if you ARE male (including transwomen), you are not a lesbian.

so are you the kind of lesbian who is homosexual and pays lip service to men who identify as lesbians (they’ll call you a transphobe for not dating them), or are you bisexual?

[skeptical-lesbian]

trans women are women. i’m not bisexual. i know who i am. i hope someday you can figure it out too

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

I’m bisexual. It ain’t so bad 👌

[skeptical-lesbian]

well i hope that someday you can find peace with whatever is making you want to live your life in a way that’s harmful and rude to people who just want to live their life. your transphobia is sad, and what/whoever made you believe what you do has done an incredible disservice to someone who i truly hope would be otherwise a decent person. have a nice life, but stop insulting trans people

trans women are women, and loving them still makes me a lesbian

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

Loving males as you love females makes you bisexual. Congrats, welcome to the club.

[skeptical-lesbian]

what’s someone who’s intersex, to you, i wonder? how do you feel about xy women and girls? i’m curious

[skeptical-lesbian]

who said trans women aren't women? sexual orientation has nothing to do with gender identities. so you're a bi wlw. unlike lesbians, you're attracted to the opposite sex and male genitalia. you can be a wlw or sapphic as a bisexual. but liking trans women out of genuine affection or bc you're a chaser who wants to explore dick means you aren't a lesbians. lesbians like the same sex. other biological females. we can't relate to your attraction to both sexes but bisexuals can.

for the last time

lesbian = woman loving woman/wlw. trans women are women. i am a lesbian. i’m not a “chaser”. i’m not bi. am i into dick? not particularly. but am i going to reject someone just because she’s trans? no. there are so many more reasons to love someone than their genitals. also something you all seem to forget is that trans women have fingers and tongues—if they still have one, you can ask them not to put a dick in you just like you can literally anyone else.

i’m not attracted to dick. i’m attracted to women. hope this clears things up for you

[skeptical-lesbian]

why do ppl like you attracted to both sexes have such a problem understanding your gender preferences don't make you gay? homosexuals like the same sex, you don't. lesbian refers to a female homosexual, you aren't. nobody has a problem with your conditional attraction to biological males and male genitals, just the fact you want to appropriate lesbianism bc bisexual attraction to both sexes repulses you. there have always been political lesbians, but it's 2019, grow up.

bisexuality doesn’t repulse me and i find it curious that you included that considering i didn’t put it anywhere. bisexuals aren’t bad or repulsive it’s just that i’m not one because

surprise of surprises

trans women

are women

goodbye! :)

[skeptical-lesbian]

my favourite response to come from this discourse has been the person to tell me that heaven isn’t real like that was just a cheap line in a joke it’s not the point of my post you’re just being edgy you weirdo

[skeptical-lesbian]

trans women are beautiful and every one of you deserves a hug from me, personally. i have an intense amount of adoration for all of you and your individual journeys

❌terfs don’t interact there are other posts on my blog that are specifically for you if you wanna fight me on this so bad ❌

[skeptical-lesbian]

to the anons in my inbox that i’m not going to dignify with individual responses:

being a TERF isn’t feminism its bigotry, i’m afab so your argument about my identity is invalid, and no i don’t regret my post

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

if you can be attracted to transwomen (or any males for that matter), you are not a lesbian.

if you ARE male (including transwomen), you are not a lesbian.

so are you the kind of lesbian who is homosexual and pays lip service to men who identify as lesbians (they’ll call you a transphobe for not dating them), or are you bisexual?

[skeptical-lesbian]

trans women are women. i’m not bisexual. i know who i am. i hope someday you can figure it out too

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

I’m bisexual. It ain’t so bad 👌

[skeptical-lesbian]

well i hope that someday you can find peace with whatever is making you want to live your life in a way that’s harmful and rude to people who just want to live their life. your transphobia is sad, and what/whoever made you believe what you do has done an incredible disservice to someone who i truly hope would be otherwise a decent person. have a nice life, but stop insulting trans people

trans women are women, and loving them still makes me a lesbian

[skeptical-lesbian]

imagine being so mad about someone being more kind and accepting than you that you literally try to tell them they aren’t a lesbian

[skeptical-lesbian]

to the anons in my inbox that i’m not going to dignify with individual responses:

being a TERF isn’t feminism its bigotry, i’m afab so your argument about my identity is invalid, and no i don’t regret my post

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

if you can be attracted to transwomen (or any males for that matter), you are not a lesbian.

if you ARE male (including transwomen), you are not a lesbian.

so are you the kind of lesbian who is homosexual and pays lip service to men who identify as lesbians (they’ll call you a transphobe for not dating them), or are you bisexual?

[skeptical-lesbian]

trans women are women. i’m not bisexual. i know who i am. i hope someday you can figure it out too