BigCityDreams.

single black female addicted to retail. future speech pathologist. 23.

[2dxvxne-deactivated20240429]

[remanence-of-love]

[lovewanttimetopause]

[rainekeiko]

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[mayessta]

[mayessta]

[igobymamas]

[louisvuitttonn]

Naomi Campbell for Playboy, 1999

[corpish]

in recognition of World Down Syndrome Day on March 21

[pigeoniridescence]

Transcription:

"Hey bartender... you assume that I cannot drink a Margarita. So you don't serve me a Margarita. So i don't drink a Margarita. Your assumption becomes reality. And parents... you assume that I cannot live on my own. So you don't encourage me to live on my own. So I don't live on my own. Coach.. you assume that I cannot hit harder. So you don't train me to hit harder. So I don't hit harder. And teacher.. you assume that I cannot learn Shakespeare. So you don't teach me Shakespeare (Teacher: Old Macdonald had a farm...) So I don't learn Shakespeare (actor: Ee i ee i o).

But hey! If all your assumptions become reality... then assume that I can drink a Margarita. So you serve me a Margarita. So I drink a Margarita. Assume that I can live on my own. So I live on my own. Assume that I can hit harder. So I hit harder. Assume that I can learn Shakespeare. So (actor: What fools these mortals be!) I learn fucking Shakespeare. You assumed I couldn't swear, right?

Assume that I can do that job. That I can go to parties. That I can have sex. That I can be on stage. Assume that I can. So maybe I will."

Coordown for World Down Syndrome Day, tiktok handle @coordown, organisation https://www.coordown.it/en/home/.

[mrsmeadows]

“Lemonade” poetry bits

Intuition

I tried to make a home outta you. But doors lead to trapdoors. A stairway leads to nothing. Unknown women wander the hallways at night. Where do you go when you go quiet? You remind me of my father, a magician. Able to exist in two places at once. In the tradition of men in my blood you come home at 3AM and lie to me. What are you hiding? The past, and the future merge to meet us here. What luck. What a fucking curse.

Denial

I tried to change. Closed my mouth more. Tried to be soft, prettier. Less…awake.

Fasted for 60 days. Wore white. Abstained from mirrors. Abstained from sex. Slowly did not speak another word.

In that time my hair grew past my ankles. I slept on a mat on the floor. I swallowed a sword. I levitated… into the basement, I confessed my sins and was baptized in a river. Got on my knees and said, “Amen.” And said I mean. I whipped my own back and asked for dominion at your feet. I threw myself into a volcano. I drank the blood and drank the wine. I sat alone and begged and bent at the waist for God. I crossed myself and thought… I saw the devil. I grew thickened skin on my feet. I bathed…in bleach and plugged my menses with pages from the Holy Book. But still inside me coiled deep was the need to know. Are you cheating? Are you cheating on me?

Anger

If this what you truly want. I can wear her skin…over mine. Her hair, over mine. Her hands as gloves. Her teeth as confetti. Her scalp, a cap. Her sternum, my bedazzled cane. We can pose for a photograph. All three of us, immortalized. You and your perfect girl.

I don’t know when love became elusive. What I know is no one I know has it. My father’s arms around my mother’s neck. Fruit too ripe to eat.

I think of lovers as trees… …growing to and from one another. Searching for the same light. Why can’t you see me? Why can’t you see me? (Why can’t you) Why can’t you see me? Everyone else can.

Apathy

So what are you gonna say at my funeral now that you’ve killed me? Here lies the body of the love of my life, whose heart I broke without a gun to my head. Here lies the mother of my children both living and dead. Rest in peace, my true love, who I took for granted, most bomb pussy, who because of me, sleep evaded. Her shroud is loneliness. Her God was listening. Her heaven would be a love without betrayal. Ashes to ashes…dust to side chicks.

Emptiness

She sleeps all day…dreams of you in both worlds.

Tills the blood in and out of uterus. Wakes up smelling of zinc. Grief, sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief. God was in the room when the man said to the woman, “I love you so much. Wrap your legs around me and pull me in, pull me in, pull me in.” Sometimes when he’d have her nipple in his mouth, she’d whisper, “Oh my God.” That, too, is a form of worship. Her hips grind pestle and mortar, cinnamon and cloves, whenever he pulls out.

Loss. Dear moon, we blame you for floods…for the flush of blood…for men who are also wolves. We blame you for the night, for the dark, for the ghosts.

Every fear… Every nightmare…anyone has ever had.

Accountability

You find the black tube inside her beauty case. Where she keeps your father’s old prison letters. You desperately want to look like her. You look nothing like your mother. You look everything like your mother. Film star, beauty. How to wear your mother’s lipstick. You go to the bathroom to apply the lipstick. Somewhere no one can find you. You must wear it like she wears disappointment on her face. Your mother is a woman. And women like her can not be contained.

Mother dearest, let me inherit the Earth. Teach me how to make him beg. Let me make up for the years he made you wait. Did he bend your reflection? Did he make you forget your own name? Did he convince you he was a God? Did you get on your knees daily? Do his eyes close like doors? Are you a slave to the back of his head? Am I talking about your husband or your father?

Reformation

He bathes me… …until I forget their names…and faces. I ask him to look me in the eye when I come…home. Why do you deny yourself heaven? Why do you consider yourself undeserving? Why are you afraid of love? You think it’s not possible for someone like you. But you are the love of my life…love of my life…the love of my life…the love of my life.

Forgiveness

Baptize me… …now that reconciliation is possible. If we’re gonna heal, let it be glorious. One thousand girls raise their arms.

Do you remember being born?

Are you thankful? Are the hips that cracked… …the deep velvet of your mother… …and her mother… …and her mother? There is a curse that will be broken.

Resurrection

You are terrifying… …and strange… …and beautiful.

Hope

The nail technician pushes my cuticles back… …turns my hand over, stretches the skin on my palm and says: “I see your daughters, and their daughters.” That night in a dream the first girl emerges from a slit in my stomach. The scar heals into a smile. The man I love pulls the stitches out with his fingernails. We leave black sutures curling on the side of the bath. I wake as the second girl crawls headfirst up my throat. A flower blossoming out of the hole in my face.

Redemption

Take one pint of water, add a half pound of sugar, the juice of eight lemons… …the zest of half lemon. Pour the water from one jug, then into the other, several times. Strain through a clean napkin.

Grandmother, the alchemist. You spun gold out of this hard life. Conjured beauty from the things left behind. Found healing where it did not live. Discovered the antidote in your own kitchen. Broke the curse with your own two hands. You passed these instructions down to your daughter. Who then passed it down to her daughter.

My grandma said, nothing real can be threatened. True love brought salvation back into me. With every tear came redemption. And my torturer became my remedy.

So we’re gonna heal, we’re gonna start again. You’ve brought the orchestra. Synchronized swimmers, you are the magician. Pull me back together again the way you cut me in half. Make the woman in doubt disappear. Pull the sorrow from between my legs like silk, knot after knot after knot. The audience applauds… …but we can’t hear them.

Warsan Shire

[slimxkardashian]

“One year ago I would have died for certain people. One year later, half of them are dead to me.”

— flxorite (via wnq-writers)

[kushandwizdom]

You've survived so many hardships. What makes you think you won't survive now? Don't let your mind play tricks on you. You can make it again

- Unknown

[slimxkardashian]

Goodbyes aren’t easy, and I never wanted to be the first one to say it. But in order to move on and allow both of us the opportunity to grow, I think it’s crucial. Reflecting on all things positive, I want to thank you. Our “relationship’ broke me, but without it I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I was the “pick-me” girl. In my mind, I was everything a man desired in a woman. I swore to be his peace, even if it came at the expense of my own, and in the end it backfired on me.

Depression is a motherfucker.

And while I won’t go into details, I will say that it consumed me. And while I was left to pick up the pieces alone, you lived your best life. But that’s a story I promised not to revisit, so i’ll move on.

I wanted to maintain a friendship with you. My first “love”. Because I felt as though despite everything that happened between us, that’s was the foundation to our bond. No one else would ever be able to relate to the things we had gone through. I yearned for you to change. You promised you would, but you didn’t.

And as we approach year three, I want to be the first to say goodbye. I cannot grow and prosper in this life while clinging on to false hope. We are merely pretending to progress while the world stands still. Strangers weakened by lust.

I won’t harden my heart towards you. I don’t hate you, but today the cycles stops.

I want to be the first to say goodbye.

[lovelustquotes]

[getaways]

[snow-cone]