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[sloth-gender]

Hiiii!

This is my neopronoun/xenogender sideblog :D

My name is Eli, Sloth, or Calvin

I idenitfy with a lot of genders but I am mainly a Genderqueer, Aesthetifluid, Genderconfusum, girl! I am also straight (ish), Nebularomantic and mostly feel Pale attraction

I hoard agere-related genders, so if anyone knows any feel free to tag me in em!!

I have a lot of pronouns, but my favorite sets are:

It/Its/Itself

She/Her/Herself

Pup/Pups/Pupself

Hy/Hym/Hymself

I'm gunna reblog stuff! but I'll also coin genders, make themed lists of genders, moodboards, or name ideas :3

Genders I coin will be tagged "sloth coins a gender"

DNI: Anti-Mogai/LGBT/Neopronouns, NSFW/18+ blogs, Anti-SFW Agere/Petre, Sexist/Racist/Abelist/etc

I cant stop you from using my terms, and i wouldnt want to, but please dont like/reblog/follow if you fit the above dni! Thanks

[eldritchbauble]

Hot take, but cis people have gender identities. They aren't the gender they identify as because of their genitalia or what their birth certificate says. They're only cis because they identify with a gender and it happens to match their government documentation. Cis men aren't men because they're "obviously" men for having a penis. They're men because they identify as men. It's the self-identification that dictates this, not any other factor, even for cis folks. And we should be framing it this way. A cis man identifies as a man and a cis woman identifies as a woman. There is no automatic or inherent gender.

[forgotn1]

In the same vein, the rockabilly & pin up gals are performing gender. Just like the lumberjack and jock dudes are performing gender. They happen to align with their AGAB, but it is all absolutely a performance of their gender. Often to an exaggerated degree.

[hapalopus]

People will be like "you can be every gender at once, your gender can be a metaphor, gender binaries are fake, you can do whatever you want forever, and also you have to pick one (1) of the four acceptable sexualities approved of by the council"

[werethropy]

"The nonbinary afab who goes by she/her, dresses femininely, and uses a push-up bra when I—" when you what? What's wrong with her?

Is she not nonbinary enough for you? Is the way she experiences her queerness and how she presents not perfect enough for you? Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny, right? So why is she the exception? Why does she have to hate herself to appeal to your standards? Why is she any less trans—any less worthy of respect—cause it's "not visible"? Queer solidarity my ass. Don't spout this bullshit on Pride, man.

[transfemgabriellamontez]

This, but also for enby amabs going by he/him and with hairy chests and beards

[frustratedasatruar]

[runthepockets]

Saw a post on Twitter that was like "I think it's entirely possible to be trans without dysphoria, but a lot of you are severely underestimating how much dysphoria you actually feel and how much you’ve let fade into background noise" and honestly? Yeah lol.

[velvetys]

Stop trying to be influencers we need good tumblr gifers now more than ever

[screenshotsofdespair]

[bimboid]

this image can only be shared on Thursday, Sept. 12

[sunnyrabbit05-deactivated202508]

please

[sunnyrabbit05-deactivated202508]

please

[lightwithsharpenededge]

two trans boys in love can be lesbians if they want to. hope that helps

[cloudboundcritters]

"we need more weird queers!!"

you start parroting TERF talking points the milisecond someone says they are a lesboy or gaygirl

you cry when mspec lesbians/gays exist

you refuse to use neopronouns or it/its, even when those are a persons only set of pronouns

you expect a-specs to experience attraction in some way (yes, that includes platonic attraction)

you exclude intersex people

you can't even accept furries.

[foone]

Four things that are 100% true and you should think about if you haven't already:

You don't have to be a boy if you don't want to

You don't have to be a girl if you don't want to

You can be a boy if you want to

You can be a girl if you want to

This isn't a joke. This is reality. Have you considered these facts? If not, maybe take a moment to think about it. How's your gender doing? If you don't like it, it can be changed. Hell, even if you do like it, maybe you'd like something else more?

[moved-to-strudel-fatpaws]

WHAT if instead of bear pride for hairy fat men we ALSO had cow pride. for fat women with huge milkers. ok now give me 10000 reblogs a kiss on the cheek and a nobel prize

[moved-to-strudel-fatpaws]

repost because i made a clerical error in the original post but here's the flag i propose. yes its cow print. yes im amazing as well

[moved-to-strudel-fatpaws]

also clarifying the reason the animal i picked was cow is because its a partially satirical reclaiming of the insult "fat cow" or calling fat women cows etc. as like an affirmation thing because cows can be pretty too yknow

[moved-to-strudel-fatpaws]

reblogging this for pride month. happy pride month to all u fat cows....

[moved-to-strudel-fatpaws]

updated version with prettier colors and an easier-to-represent cow hoof print rather than the pretty random spots! the hoof itself is just an eraser-tooled heart but i still think it came out pretty... (edited again because im indecisive as hell)

[sloth-gender]

In honor of Pride Month I’m having an identity crisis /hj! I thought I was over caring about my labels, but nooooo

[thexspiral-deactivated20240810]

"We need more weird queer people!"

Yall can't accept lesboys and turigirls

Yall can't accept mspec gays and lesbians

Yall can't accept cistrans people

Yall can't accept FtMtF trans women and MtFtM trans men

Yall can't accept intersex people who aren't cis or trans

Yall can't accept transfemmascs

Yall can't accept gaybians

Yall can't accept neurogender people

Yall can't accept loveless aros

Yall can't accept aplatonics

Yall can't accept xenogenders

Yall can't accept cis non-binary people

Yall can't even accept straight trans folks.

[strawby-jelli-deactivated202407]

I wanna see more love for people who aren’t what you’d consider cisgender but still identify as cisgender. Intersex ppl with mostly male attributes who identify as a cis woman and vice versa. Nonbinaries, multigenders, and agenders who don’t think of themselves as trans. Genderfluid people who are most often their traditionally sex-corresponding gender so they identify as cis. Cis genderqueer ppl. People like f1nnstr who look completely the opposite gender but are still cis. Shoutout to us. We’re still valid and awesome and part of the community.