renovations is stressing me out.
I personally feel that the ID isn't giving enough updates/ giving very last min instructions.
It doesn't help that your partner makes you feel like a gan chiong person when all I want is updates and let me know in advance when I need to get what.
- forgetting when the aircon piping will be done, isnt this just taking down and putting a note somewhere on your calender? surveyor is coming down next week but have he made arrangements on the timing? who knows?
-always saying he will let me know tomorrow but tomorrow never comes :/
-Permit request to HDB is still wrong even after telling him :/
Why can't I just ask questions, and just be on top of things. Am I really so not chill? or are you too relaxed. Asking questions, giving reminders and just knowing things in advance will prevent issues. When you didnt ask/ confirm with another ID previously and the ID forgot and didn't turn up for our appt just cause "she should have reached out," -.- let's be honest, if you have reached out then there wouldn't be this problem in the first place.
I feel like not dealing with it honestly and just let things screw up? dont chase dont ask questions and do things only when the ID say to start even if its fucking last min. But if I do that I'm just wasting my own time and money.
wanna chill right? feel bad for asking questions right? zzzzzz ming ming say want him to be ID cause you feel you can talk to him without feeling pressured HAH what a joke.
sigh idk lah.
