We’ve got enough struggle fics, can we produce love please?
hai, you definitely don’t know me, but this is my secondary account. On my primary account, I’ve been partaking in a social experiment where I over exaggerate the stereotypes I’ve seen in all of the black!reader fics. It has been very interesting to see people get mad when I always sort of debrief at the bottom of my page and always say something sarcastic like ‘this is EXACTLY what black reader wants…’ I would love to see the anger they give me and my friend who also partakes in this experiment reciprocated on the post that glorify the stereotypes, but everyone seems to go silent until it’s blatantly obvious it’s not right.
For example, a lot of the posts I do involve making black!reader a baby momma BECAUSE it seems like every black!reader fic I’ve seen (and it’s not even limited to fiction, in real life too) black women are always painted as some sort of baby momma who is ghetto. There’s almost always never any black!reader who’s awkward coded like myself in real life, no black!reader who’s maybe a queer black man, no black!reader who has the same regular interests as any other normal y/n character because it’s always about breeding and leaving. I also notice how in the smut (or pornography), it’s always about beating the pussy up. It’s SO rare to find a tender smut fic or a tender xxx because the ones that are tender have some sort of bogus caption that makes it ungoonable such as captions like “daddy had to take care of his baby’s psy” “she wanted this big black cock” “I had to breed her real quick” it’s bullshit and it’s so disgusting!
I can’t tell if the writer is white or not because most fics, black!reader is limited to having box braids, silk presses, or buss down wigs. That’s great if that represents you, but I fail to see fics that glorify the crown that is your Afro…or to just be neutral and say ‘natural hair’. Again, I’m definitely not bashing the use of describing black!reader to have braids because I lovee getting braids, but I’m saying we’ve got to extend beyond that stereotype. While on the topic of stereotypes, I also over exaggerate black!reader being thick in my fics because again, that’s the stereotype I always see. The fics always describe our butts as ‘voluptuous’ our thighs as ‘huge’ or our tummies as ‘squishy’. Why can’t we just be excellent? Also, not all black!readers..are THICK! I myself am not thick…I have a NORMAL size ass and a skinty bod. But that’s almost never represented.
Black reader deserves the same hobbies that regular, white y/n has. “Y/N is the real Barbie” but where’s the black Barbie’s that actually do something other than clubbing, partying, drinking, smoking, etc. If you do these things, perfect…you’ve got your representation. But where’s the black!readers who play instruments, sing, draw, dance, work out, do SOMETHING than just being sedentary to become some Asian man’s baby mother.
You know, I actually just wish black!reader wouldn’t be so stereotypical. I wish black!reader would A. Correctly use AAVE just so we can have THAT as something relatable B. The words to describe her wouldn’t be leaning towards one stereotype that’s been passed down generations after generations C. RECEIVE TENDER LOVE AND NOT JUST ROUGH SEX and oh my gosh how can I forget D. Having an Asian man call her ma. Where did this come from? Why is an Asian man calling me ma/mama just because I’m black? Why can’t I be called baby, darling, sweetheart, literally all the other things that yt readers are called. It just seems like we’re limited to ma which also ties into the neeeddddd for more tender love. So, nonetheless I will still be continuing my social experiment. My friend and I have recently had threats to ban us from the platform because of the over exaggeration we do…and don’t get me wrong, we tend to go pretty extreme. but through this, we hope to make everyone more aware of the bullshit so we can look out for other fics that are just so fucking stereotypical and through our fics, yes, I definitely agree you should see the bullshit, get angry, and start to curate more loving fics. Some may not agree with this method, but honestly we just do it to make each other giggle with our stupidity.
Point me to the GOOD black!reader blogs and I’ll love you forever.