Snipped By Mom

[lisa1237-deactivated20221205]

I think she means

"lucky

boy"

We had discussed circumcision with the

doctor and agreed to have it done. He said

he would do it after birth. Knowing what I

know now, I should have asked when after

birth! As soon as I gave birth to Conner, the

doctor took him from my vagina, wrapped him

in a cloth, and had him taken over to the

nurses counter, without letting me so much

as hold him. They spent a minute checking

vital signs and clearing the gunk away first.

At this point I thought that they would give

me Conner back, but they didn't. Conner had

not yet been alive for five minutes, when the

doc strapped him down to a board on the

table. I could only watch as the doc spread a

blanket over Conner, popped his penis

through a hole and crammed a probe in it.

Poor Conner, 5 minutes old, who had not been

held by his mommy, and who had not even

stopped crying from the delivery, began

screaming. Hubby stood there in silence, and

l asked the doc what he was doing. The doc

simply responded, "Why circumcising your

baby! This is what you wanted!" I could only

sit there as he kept scraping between the

head and the foreskin, again and again, trying

to separate the membrane. Conner

screamed and screamed, but the doctor only

stopped for a moment to tighten the Velcro

holding my son down. He then picked up

some scissors, and made a slit in the

foreskin. He then crammed in a metal bell

and pulled up the skin around it. To the

sounds of Conner's screams, he took a pin

and stuck it in the foreskin to hold it in place.

He then put a clamp around the skin and

tightened a bolt. With each twist the screams

got louder, screams that I thought were as

loud as could be, kept getting louder. With a

final twist, the doctor set the clamp down and

left him on the table. He switched gloves and

helped me deliver the placenta, with my sons

wails in the background. Five minutes later,

went back to Conner, picked up a scalpel, and

sliced off the skin. He removed the bell then

to reveal an angry red glans, completely free

of skin and pointina strainht un He then

callously wiped the super-sensitive glans with

gauze, which made Conner shriek even more.

He then picked up a pair of scissors and

made a final cut to remove, what I know now

is, the frenulum. Conner continued to wail as

the glans was wiped once again, bandaged

and diapered. A nurse then removed my

shaking boy and handed him to me, after 12

minutes on a board of his 17 minutes of life.

When l asked why it had been done so soon,

the doctor responded that he wanted my son

to get circumcision out of the way, and since

he had been done so close to birth, he was

disoriented and did not need anesthesia.

Conner was scalped completely, and

although he is only 2, the skin is still taught

and there is no slack left whatsoever. My

poor boy.

Older Story.

[circluvr]

A Message from one of my Pro-Circumcision Female Followers

I’m a girl who has a deep circumfetish. Completely against RIC as its individual’s choice. My bf is circumcised and for a while I kept my fetish to myself. One night we started talking about dark fetishes that we’ve never told anyone else. He told me his and wanted to know mine. My body got shivery and sweaty, I shook, I was terrified to tell him. He asked me again in a serious tone which made me more scared, but he knew I had something. So I looked down almost in tears and I told him about my fetish. “What?” “Yeah…” “Tell me why.“ 

 I told him about how much the scar turns me on, that his sexual organs being permanently exposed aroused me, and while I could never do harm to my own children nor do I support it, I sexualized it with him because it’s already been done. I told him how I fetishized the fact that he was strapped down with no choice and that he was vulnerable and that others got to see his glans before he got to himself. I told him how I love getting him off and watching his exposed hard cock throbbing with his sperm drilling down passed his scar. I told him how much it turns me on that he’s high and tight and that his frenulum is gutted. 

 He pulled out his cock and he told me,"Come here and lick my hard cut cock and do not go past my scar.” It made me wet instantly and felt relieved and confused as I wasn’t expecting this answer from him. He told me again, and I did so happily. We both participate in each other’s dark fantasies. We’ve fallen deeper in love because of it. He wants to do foreskin restoration but now we both think we could pretend doing the act of circumcision with it too. I’m absolutely in love and I so happy that I submitted not just to him but to my darkest desires that I was ashamed of.

[supersekritpornblog]

This is honestly really sweet. Just another testament to the fact that communication is the cornerstone of good relationships, and can lead to some fun things if you give it a try, even if it can be a bit scary sometimes. 

[eternalii-famishiis]

Just finished having great sex with my wife. She spent the entire time teasing me about how she had me circumcised.

“Remember when you got all your skin cut off for me?”

“Mmm, I just love this scar where your foreskin used to attach.”

“Can you even feel anything when you fuck me without your foreskin?”

“You’re so much better this way, with just a bare head. It’s so much better for me. I don’t regret sending you to the doctor for a second.”

I came so fucking hard from that. It’s a good thing I’m cut or I wouldn’t have lasted the 20 minutes I did…

[circluvr]

I would come so fucking hard too…

[supersekritpornblog]

This is lovey. Consensual, kinky, and incredibly hot. 

[eternalii-famishiis]

Interesting to read your post about the planned vasectomy by your wife. Good luck for it ! Can you tell how she drove you towards circumcision in the beginning ? Did she nag you, made subtle attempts once in a while, made it kind of mandatory for you ? And how was it for you the very moment you realized you‘d depend on her or a sexual buddy to have an orgasm? Did it arouse or satisfy her when your cock was cut? Low & tight sounds so devilish!.... thank you, best regards

I’ve talked about some of this in my post The Beginning but I’m happy to add more detail.

She definitely didn’t nag; she was straight forward and matter of fact about her position on the subject. And she never actually said it was a requirement but I’m not sure what would have happened if I’d refused. It’s possible she would have simply declined my marriage proposal which, in retrospect, would have been reasonable.

Her first hint about circumcision came when we were having sex in the back of my SUV and she asked me to hold back my foreskin so it wouldn’t move while I was inside her. I did like she asked and she loved it, giggling it was just like I was circumcised.

A while later she mentioned a guy she knew from years ago had just gotten circumcised. She went on about how great she thought it was and how proud of him she was for doing it on his own. I remember it bothered me but I didn’t start an argument; I just let it go.

Finally, about a month later, she confronted me while we were hanging out in the kitchen. Said something to effect of, “so, what do you know about circumcision?”

I told her it was the procedure of cutting off the foreskin, it made a man less sensitive, it was harder to masturbate, the skin on your glans got thicker, there could be complications, and it was completely unnecessary.

She agreed with me on all but the last point and asked me what I knew about how it changes things for women.

I told her I had no idea.

She explained that making a man less sensitive increases his stamina so he can make love to a woman longer, that permanently exposing the flared edge of the glans and tightening the skin of the shaft tight makes sex feel better for women, that it keeps men focused on women instead of ourselves, that it keeps us cleaner and more appealing for women, and that it looks more masculine and attractive to women.

She went on to explain how she’d always been taught that men should be circumcised and before me she’d never actually seen an uncut penis. She said while I’d obviously been taught something different, it was important to her that I get circumcised if we were going to be married.

I was shocked and completely rejected her request. I told her she had no right to tell me what to do to my penis and it was completely unacceptable to ask me to give up so much and to accept the risks of the procedure.

She acknowledged that she was asking me to give something up but maintained that the benefits for her and for us as a couple made it more than worthwhile. She was particularly firm that while I had a right to control my own body, she also had a right to make sure she got the husband she deserved. She insisted this was a simple way for me to demonstrate that I would respect her needs as a woman once she became my wife. She ended that first conversation by telling me to spend some time thinking about it; that if I talked to some people I’d see she was right and we could talk more later when I wasn’t so emotional about it.

It was a few days later when she brought it up again and asked if I’d given it more thought.

I said I had but I still didn’t think I should have to give up my foreskin for her.

She reiterated all of her previous points about how circumcision is better for both women and men and then took my hands, looked me gently in the eyes, and asked me whether the way that little bit of extra skin made me feel was more important than being the man she needed me to be. Again she finished by telling me to spend more time thinking about it and talking to people.

I did as she suggested and talked to some female friends about it and was surprised by how uniformly they all seemed to prefer men to be cut rather than uncut, even though they weren’t as articulate about it as my wife. This bothered me at first but eventually I started to realize I might be on the wrong side of the argument.

It was maybe a week later that I approached her about it again and told her about the conversations I’d had and how they seemed to agree with her about circumcision.

She simply smiled and nodded as I talked, as if she already knew everything I was going to say before I said it. When I finished she asked me how I felt about it. I admitted I was feeling very uncertain and I didn’t know what to think. She simply kissed me, told me she loved me, and left it at that.

A few days later I told her I wanted to get circumcised for her. I told her I hadn’t been able to stop thinking about everything she’d said and everything I’d heard from other girls and I’d realized they were right.I told her every time I looked at my penis now I was dissatisfied with what I saw and I couldn’t even bring myself to masturbate because I realized it amounted to nothing more than selfishly playing with my foreskin. I told her I was ready to grow up and become the man she wanted me to be.

She simply hugged me and told me she was so happy I’d made the right decision for us. She asked me if I wanted her to find a doctor and make the appointment for me but I told her I’d take care of it myself.

My impression of her reaction after I returned from the doctor’s was that she was mostly satisfied but also a little bit aroused by the fact my foreskin had been cut off for her. She of course wanted to inspect it right away so she took me into the bedroom and had me pull down my pants for her.

My penis was bandaged with just the tip of the glans showing out the end. She lifted it up to have a better look and asked if it hurt, to which I replied, “a little but less than I’d expected.” In retrospect she might have been a bit disappointed by that answer but I’m not totally sure.

She asked me if I’d been able to see the doctor working on me and I told her I hadn’t but I’d seen my foreskin on the surgical tray after he cut it off and he’d shown me my penis before he put the bandages on. She seemed very interested by this and asked what it looked like and how much there was. I told her it was all laid out in a strip and there’d been a lot more removed than I’d expected, to which she smiled and replied, “Good.”

She finished by kissing my cheek, giving my balls a little tug and squeeze, and whispering now I was ready to be a husband and she’d take a look at it again when the bandages came off. With that she turned and left me to pull up my pants on my own.

A couple of weeks later I took off the bandages in the tub while she sat on the edge, watching intently. Some how, being supervised by her like that as I unwrapped my irreparably altered penis really drove home that this was something she’d done to me. The whole time she was completely focused on my penis, ignoring the rest of me and as I finished taking off the bandage she took hold of it and started examining the doctors work without a word. She stretched it, tugged it, and tried to move the skin on the shaft up and down to make sure it couldn’t roll over the glans while I was soft. I couldn’t help but get hard in her hand as she dispassionately manipulated me but she didn’t skip a beat, taking the opportunity to test the tightness and movement of the shaft skin. 

When she was done examining the area where my frenulum used to be she looked at me, smiled, and said, “The doctor did a good job. You’re much better this way.” Then she leaned back and watched as I finished washing up and got out of the tub.

It’s hard to say when the exact moment was I realized I’d need a partner to get the same kind of pleasure I experienced on my own when I still had a foreskin.

Deep down I knew that would be the case as soon as I made the decision to go through with it.

It became much more real to me when I laid down in the procedure chair without my pants on and eventually found myself looking at my foreskin laying on the surgical tray.

Having her tell me I was ready to be a husband now that I’d been circumcised drove the point home even more.

So by the time I actually tried masturbation, a little more than a month after the procedure, it wasn’t really a surprise that I had so much difficulty. Without that extra skin to roll up and down over the glans I was left to slide my rough hand loosely over the whole thing. It took me much longer to reach orgasm this way and although actually cumming still felt pretty good, the build up wasn’t nearly the same. I remember smiling to myself afterward and thinking she’d gotten exactly what she wanted.

Although I do still masturbate it’s definitely less than before my circumcision and it’s no substitute for actual intercourse now.

And I know this is for the best. She was right: I should be focused on her. 

[supersekritpornblog]

An amazing story.

[eternalii-famishiis]

Does your wife still tease you about your circumcision? What were your first few times together like after you'd healed?

Definitely. I’m mentioned this many times before. My circumcision, my lack of a foreskin, my loss of sensitivity, my scar, my permanent exposure to her gaze, my dependence on her for real satisfaction – they’ve all become permanent fixtures in our sexual dialogue.

Just the other night we were in bed leading up to sex and I whispered in her ear to “grab onto what’s left of my foreskin.” She giggled, wrapped her little hand around my tight shaft, and pulled the immovably tight skin so hard I thought it was going to tear away from the glans. Seeing me writhe with the painful pleasure she whispered back in my ear, “see, much better without all that loose skin, isn’t it?”

Another recent occasion where it came up was when I was in the shower and she was in the bathroom talking. She randomly paused, finally breaking her silence with, “you know, I really do like you better this way…”

Without looking over at her, “what way is that?”

“Circumcised.”

I smiled, still not looking over at her.

“It’s just… better this way. I like the way the water runs over the head. I like that I can see all of it all the time. It’s just… mine.”

“It sure is babe, it sure is…”

We waited quite a while after my foreskin was removed before having sex again; a few months at least. It was important to both of us that I be completely healed and our first time be a demonstration of just how great sex with a circumcised penis truly is. That was the whole point of having me circumcised, after all.

The first few times were great. There was huge build up and excitement on both of our parts. She was like a kid playing with a new toy on Christmas, I felt desirable like never before. We fucked intensely, she ground herself up against me relentlessly, and I came buckets into her every time. The biggest surprise for me was that I was actually more sensitive immediately after having my foreskin removed than before and had to work very hard to control myself. This settled down over the next year or two but when your glans has been sheltered your whole life it takes time for it to toughen up into the masculine organ it ought to be. Of course, it didn’t help that she was merciless with her talk and teasing during those first few times, telling me what a good boy I was for getting it cut off for her, how much better she likes me now that I’m not intact, asking me if I wished I could have it back and then taunting me that I never would, asking me if I could even feel her anymore, and so on….

[supersekritpornblog]

Amazing to read.

[thewonderofwillows-deactivated2]

What do you think of circumcision as a cure for masturbation/ incentive to find a girlfriend?

I like it! It definitely does render masturbation harder if it is very tight and maybe more so if it is very low.

[eternalii-famishiis]

Having been circumcised at my wife’s request as a young adult, I can attest to this first hand. She had a number of reasons for insisting I give up my foreskin before marriage and this was one of them. She’d always been taught that boys and men were too preoccupied with pleasuring themselves and being circumcised helped to minimize this and make them better husbands.

While having my foreskin cut off hasn’t made masturbation impossible, it’s changed the way I have to go about it, making it more difficult and less pleasurable. Whereas I used to be able to roll my foreskin up and down over the glans, now I have to slide my hand loosely up and down the shaft. The loss of inner skin and gradual drying of the head has also made masturbation a less intense experience overall. This has had exactly the effect my wife wanted and has left me more inclined to turn to intercourse with her for pleasure.

While circumcision can’t “cure” masturbation, it can definitely make it a less appealing option. A snug cut that removes as much of the inner foreskin as possible is what’s best for us, even if we don’t realize it. Now it’s up to you girls to make sure it happens.

[supersekritpornblog]

Just realised I hadn’t reblogged this before.

[eternalii-famishiis]

What would you consider the best and worst thing about going from having a foreskin to being cut low and tight?

Worst thing about going from having a foreskin to being cut low and tight: 

Not being able to fully satisfy myself by rolling my foreskin up and down over the glans of my penis. 

I miss that. I could spend so much time lost in the amazing sensations I created for myself, either while watching porn or just using my imagination. But since my wife took my foreskin away from me there’s no movement left in the shaft skin and no hope of rolling it even just over the edge of the glans. There’s only a thin strip of sensitive inner skin left and because there’s so little movement I have to stimulate that with my thumb. And even the glans itself is becoming less sensitive to rubbing  because of the constant exposure to the elements.

Best thing about going from having a foreskin to being cut low and tight:

Not being able to fully satisfy myself by rolling my foreskin up and down over the glans of my penis.

Masturbation is nothing but a distraction from being a good husband to my wife. She was right to do what she could to make it more difficult and less satisfying for me and, as much as I miss the way it used to feel, I’m glad she did. It’s made me less focused on myself and more focused on her which has improved our sexual relationship, benefiting both of us. This is a perfect example of the value of feminine wisdom in matters of male sexuality and a reminder that we all need to be more willing to yield to women’s direction on this subject. 

When a woman tells you it’s time to give up your foreskin, you need to respect her wishes and have yourself circumcised. She knows what’s best for you.

[supersekritpornblog]

Great post.

[circyboy-deactivated20171205]

I bet you’re dying for someone like me to circumcise you. I’d leave a nice scar, too. That way you’ll think of me and the pleasure I took from you every time you masturbate with difficulty to an unsatisfying, weak and shallow orgasm.

[thewonderofwillows-deactivated2]

Isn’t it rather selfish of men to fight against circumcision? Think of a man resisting his girlfriend’s plea that he get cut, he’s really just fighting to keep as much pleasure as he can while denying her her own

This is the correct way of looking at it in a sense. I think some men are honestly in denial about the benefits circumcision provides for their partners in terms of health and sexual pleasure. Similarly it seems some men who are circumcised are in denial about their loss. It seems that in both cases a man needs to accept the loss of sensation and learn to see it as a positive.

[eternalii-famishiis]

I think @thewonderofwillows is right on track. I see so much complaining online by circumcised men and it just doesn’t make any sense to me.

Yes, you have had a huge part of your penis surgically removed.

Yes, it was the most sensitive part of your penis.

Yes, you receive less pleasure from sex than you would with a foreskin.

Yes, masturbation is more difficult and less satisfying without a bunch of loose skin to roll up and down.

Yes, your glans has become thickened and tough from constant exposure to the environment.

That’s the whole point of circumcision!

The consequences of circumcision aren’t horrible side effects that make the procedure unacceptable. They’re the whole point of the procedure!

Circumcising a penis transforms it from a soft organ of self-indulgence into a hardened tool of pleasure. Men who have been circumcised have been given the ability to satisfy their partners as they never could with a foreskin.

We need to shun this culture of selfcentered complaining and embrace the sacrifices women demand of us. There’s nothing a foreskin gives us that justifies denying women the sexual experience they deserve.

[mookapooklove]

“I always wonder! What would it feel like to have foreskin?”

—

(via ken1197)

I wonder too. I suspect all us men who as infants were strapped to the circumstraint and felt the sweet kiss of the Gomco /  Mogen / Plastibell / Shelden / Tara – even the Izmel – have to wonder. But we can never know.  Women understand the angst this causes us, and there is no doubt that they feel for us.

(via gfan48)

I hope you enjoyed them while you had them guys lol

[mookapooklove]

What is your favorite style and why? And do you think a boy should be cut before or after he loses his virginity?

I like high and tight because I love the colors but low and tight is good too. Hmm, I kind of like the idea of a guy getting cut before losing his virginity because it sounds like a mean thing to do to him lol

[mookapooklove]

When your boyfriend tells you he hates having been circumcised

[proudlyexposed]

This nurse loved her job!

I had found this online a few years ago and fortunately had saved it. An interesting read, especially for fans of infant circumcision. Are you pro RIC? 

I believe that the penis should look as it does when it has been circumcised. The glans should be fully exposed at all times and there should be no foreskin on the penis. Unfortunately males are born with foreskin which covers and protects the glans, or head of the penis. At birth and in childhood, the foreskin is fused to the glans by adhesions, which prevents the foreskin from being pulled away to expose the glans. By puberty these adhesions normally break down and the foreskin becomes retractable. Still, the “natural” state is for the foreskin to cover the glans when not engaged in sexual activity.  

The only way for the glans to be permanently exposed is for the penis to be circumcised: the foreskin must be cut off. That’s the cold, hard truth. Circumcision removes the foreskin tissue, which looks like regular skin on the outside but is more like the mouth or vagina on the inside – warm and moist mucosa. The frenulum – a small band of skin on the underside of the penis that attaches the foreskin to the glans – is typically also removed in circumcision as it is no longer needed. Circumcised penises are left with a scar that encircles the shaft of the penis and a glans that is permanently denuded. The scar is the point where the skin was excised.

As a nurse in a large inner city hospital, I have assisted with approximately 1,500 circumcisions. (I am now retired from nursing.) Most procedures were performed on healthy male neonates the day after their birth. Each baby’s arms and legs were strapped to a Circumstraint, a specially designed board for restraining the child during the procedure. Most doctors used the Gomco clamp, some used a Plastibell device and others liked to use the Mogen clamp for the actual circumcision. No anesthesia was used, and most boys tolerated the pain surprisingly well.  As you would expect, most boys did plenty of crying, but medical personnel are trained to put their emotional responses in context for the good of the patient.

My main duties were to strap the child to the restraining board, assist the doctor with the surgical instruments, apply Vaseline to the newly circumcised penis, and then to diaper the baby. He would then be turned over to his mother.    

Circumcision of infants is difficult to watch and hear. Parents were sometimes frightened by it, and in those cases we recommended that the procedure be carried out privately – only the physician, the nurse (me), and the baby in the room.   That was certainly my preference as parents sometimes interfered during the procedure.  

We reassured parents that their newborn son was in the hands of skilled medical professionals. Complications were rare, and outcomes were almost always excellent.

I accept and support the circumcision of newborn males as an effective and essential corrective surgery. Infancy is unquestionably the best time to circumcise, as the male will neither remember having a foreskin nor the pain of having it removed. Routine infant circumcision is the best way of ensuring that all males are circumcised.  

I believe circumcision is a basic and important human desire. That desire is to cut the foreskin, to permanently remove the part that conceals the sensitive, erogenous glans of the male’s penis. A penis deprived of its foreskin is more attractive and manly. For this woman, the circumcised penis looks vulnerable and helpless – it looks cut and I like knowing it was cut, soon after the man’s birth. Only a real vagina (or mouth) can ever provide the kind of protection of an uncircumcised foreskin, and this basic fact is a big turn-on.  Lastly, the circumcision scar is a powerful symbol of maleness and of the male’s sacrifice, one that all males should be made to make.

[stacysstillcherry-deactivated20]

I have less of an issue for you desiring to convince adult men to modify their bodies, they afterall are capable of consent. If they're stupid enough to let some idiot to convince them to mutilate their penis, then hey, they have to live with that. But suggesting that it's ok to inflict on an infant or child "to get out of the way" that's fucking pedophilic and sadistic, Infants feel pain just like adults, and they have no fucking clue what's going on. Leave children's genitals alone.

Pass one of your antisemitic laws or stop bothering me.

My blog, my choice.

My body, my choice.

My child, my choice.

[choppedwheatfields]

Here is a girl who clearly sees above all the bullshit of a circ society, yet still uses it to her advantage. She obviously sees how irrational and conflicting a  statement like “my body, my choice” is against thinking boys should be cut against their will, as soon as possible. Certainly understands their is nothing “anti-semitic” about genital integrity laws. Yet she throws them at this poster in an almost mocking way. Why? Because she can. Because she knows its absurd. But also to some degree she also believes it, or wants to. Just like the doctor who cut away most of my most sensitive penis tissue could get away with it. A circ society can get away with a lot of irrational thinking in an attempt to keep itself running. Hell America has a federal law banning female circumcision, yet also funds male circumcisions. This girl knows as being the non  modified gender in society makes her the one with all the power. A cut guy can sexually dominate her in all ways, yet in the end of the day she is the one who can feel more of the experience then he can. So whats her motivation then? Simple- the feeling of power and control with a touch of cultural normalization to the circ society she grew up in. I could get mad at her, but hell if we grew up in some society where female circumcision was the norm, I would probably want her labia cut off- maybe even her clitoris!  Cultural normalization is a real bitch.

[stacysstillcherry-deactivated20]

Its kinda hot you still would have me circumcised even though I don't want to be. Considering how much more sensitive- natural it is for me to have a foreskin, & frenulum, can you blame me? I would love to be as sexually sensitive as you get to be. But seeing as I was a boy growing up in America I have learned its not my body to control, my body was redesigned as a young boy to pleasure girls- not myself. I guess your sexual preference for my body won out over my own ;p o, well... too late now

No use thinking too much about it. You just had to pay a price for the pleasure of pussy and now its over ;)

[choppedwheatfields]

I love how you play coy, but really you are into all this because you know you are the one with all the power. Even when you start having sex, any guy that sexual “dominates” you- is always ultimately had themselves sexually controlled to a level they are not even aware of. 

Its weird to think my body was literally modified and penile sensitivity stripped & simplified to match the preferences of women like you. Its hot, but also kinda weird to think about because I realize as a cut guy my whole body is permanently been sexually controlled and there never was or is anything I could do about it.  

Being a good boy in a pro-circ society requires only four things of you:

1. Don’t squirm too much while the doctors are holding you down. (I was cut as a little boy, so I bet I did a lot of squirming.)

2. Make sure to pleasure your partner way more then you can be.

3. If you have any sons, have their foreskins removed as soon as possible. 

4. And as you put it- “don’t think too much about the whole thing”. Because once you do, the whole logic/benefits kinda falls apart. (For guys at least) 

Unfortunately for you, I can only promise to do one of these things. :p

[eternalii-famishiis]

Does your wife still tease you about your circumcision? What were your first few times together like after you'd healed?

Definitely. I’ve mentioned this many times before. My circumcision, my lack of a foreskin, my loss of sensitivity, my scar, my permanent exposure to her gaze, my dependence on her for real satisfaction – they’ve all become permanent fixtures in our sexual dialogue.

Just the other night we were in bed leading up to sex and I whispered in her ear to “grab onto what’s left of my foreskin.” She giggled, wrapped her little hand around my tight shaft, and pulled the immovably tight skin so hard I thought it was going to tear away from the glans. Seeing me writhe with the painful pleasure she whispered back in my ear, “see, much better without all that loose skin, isn’t it?”

Another recent occasion where it came up was when I was in the shower and she was in the bathroom talking. She randomly paused, finally breaking her silence with, “you know, I really do like you better this way…”

Without looking over at her, “what way is that?”

“Circumcised.”

I smiled, still not looking over at her.

“It’s just… better this way. I like the way the water runs over the head. I like that I can see all of it all the time. It’s just… mine.”

“It sure is babe, it sure is…”

We waited quite a while after my foreskin was removed before having sex again; a few months at least. It was important to both of us that I be completely healed and our first time be a demonstration of just how great sex with a circumcised penis truly is. That was the whole point of having me circumcised, after all.

The first few times were great. There was huge build up and excitement on both of our parts. She was like a kid playing with a new toy on Christmas, I felt desirable like never before. We fucked intensely, she ground herself up against me relentlessly, and I came buckets into her every time. The biggest surprise for me was that I was actually more sensitive immediately after having my foreskin removed than before and had to work very hard to control myself. This settled down over the next year or two but when your glans has been sheltered your whole life it takes time for it to toughen up into the masculine organ it ought to be. Of course, it didn’t help that she was merciless with her talk and teasing during those first few times, telling me what a good boy I was for getting it cut off for her, how much better she likes me now that I’m not intact, asking me if I wished I could have it back and then taunting me that I never would, asking me if I could even feel her anymore, and so on….

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Having my boyfriend circumcised

I am planning to have my boyfriend circumcised soon but I’m still quite confused about the different options (low, high, tight, loose) even though I did read a lot about it on the web. What I want to achieve is him being less sensitive resulting in longer and better intercourse for me and stopping him from masturbating as much as possible. Can that be achieved by a circumcision? And if so what style would you advise me to make him choose? I’d really be grateful for any advice about this.

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As @menshouldbecut said, some variant of low and tight is your best bet. Low and tight is the exact style that Victorian and Edwardian moralists and physicians advised for preventing masturbation. A number of studies (not to mention anecdotal evidence) have shown increased ejaculatory latency times after circumcision. Circumcision can definitely go a long way towards the results you want. 

The lowness because it removes more sensitive inner foreskin, thereby desensitising his cock. This results in longer, more forceful intercourse for you, as a lot of his remaining diminished sensitivity is based on pressure and he will need to thrust longer, harder and deeper inside you to cum. It also makes masturbation take significantly more time and effort for him. Some guys with adult or teen cuts report having to take twenty minutes or longer to cum, from their own hand, when they could cum in a minute or so before if they wanted to.

The tightness because it means there’s little to no skin mobility. He won’t be able to “glide” his remaining foreskin to masturbate- he’ll need a lubricant of some sort. This doesn’t prevent masturbation entirely, but as with the reduced sensitivity from a low cut, it certainly makes it a great deal more difficult. You could come up with some fun rules about his access to lubricants, as well. 

Precisely how low you want to go is kind of a trade-off. If you want to maximise endurance and make masturbation difficult as much as possible, then go with the lowest cut possible. However if you want nearly the same results, but with perhaps just a tiny reminder of the kind of sensations he used to have for teasing, as well as a visually appealing scar to always remind you of what he had taken away, you could consider leaving him maybe a centimetre or so of inner foreskin. 

EDIT: Oh, and as others have reminded me, make sure to remove the frenulum. It’s one of the most sensitive areas on a guy’s cock, and it also looks a bit out of place on a lot of cut guys anyway.