A little light bdsm never hurt anyone

NSFW Aesthetic and educational. I wan't to show how their are so many ways to explore kink wether you perfer to push your own limits or just add a little spice. I encourage you to do your own research on safety on top of whats posted in my blog and I will try to post safety tips as much as I can, feel free to politely dm me if you think I posted misinformation so I can correct myself. I recommend you use the information I post to give you an idea of how to start your own research and you should fact check anything I say before trying it, like you should anything you see on the internet.

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My favorite youtube channels for kink and sex education

Seplanations - https://youtube.com/c/sexplanations

a registered sexologist with sexual education from A-Z, helpful if your vanilla, a superfreak or anywhere in between

Stevie bobby - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGYmgoVLxyvw77q33LGkAOmojZ8UZgoEM

her channel is not all sex related but has a great series on lesbian sex education and lots of lgbtq+ stuff

Whats the safe word - https://youtube.com/c/WattsTheSafeword

Kink education and some LGBTQ+ sex education as well

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William-Adolphe Bouguereau,L’Aurore (detail) 1881.

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absolutely adore this style of art

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i don't play hard to get, i am hard to get. worship me or leave

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iLoveBad Organics makes cute underwear made from a hemp and organic cotton blend as well as other products, hemp is carbon negative as well as being softer, more breathable than cotton and even has anti microbial properties making it ideal for keeping you healthy.

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Sustainability

Something I mention briefly in some of my posts is how the material of certain toys are more eco friendly, protecting the environment is something that is very important to me so I want to go more in depth in this post.

Hemp: Hemp can be used for making so many things but when it comes to kink a big one is rope, hemp is carbon negative meaning in the process of taking it from seed to plant to product it removes more carbon from the air than what is added unlike cotton which can have a heavy carbon footprint. Hemp also comes with its perks, its softer than cotton but far more durable meaning depending on the make of the rope it can be used for suspension. Hemp can also be used in making fabric, its breathability (more than cotton) making it a great material for lingerie.

Wood: Wood can be used in making paddles without plastic as most paddles you buy in a sex shop are made of faux leather aka plastic. Wood can also be used for making dildos and butt plugs (don't worry their heavily sanded and have a coating). When buying wood toys its important to buy from a trustworthy seller who doesn't cut corners in the process, this is when you wanna spend the money to get a quality toy.

Bamboo: Sort of a sub category of wood it can be used for making paddles bamboo is fast growing making it more sustainable than wood as it can be quickly replaced. It can also be used to make rope, bamboo rope like hemp is soft and breathable, it still has some carbon footprint but is better than cotton, its not as strong as hemp and can't be used for suspension, bamboo rope is cheaper so its an option for beginners.

Rechargeable/plug in: While not technically being a specific material it still deserves a category of its own. Recharging your toy instead of throwing away batteries eliminates so much waste and will likely safe you money in the long run. Some toys plug directly into the wall which some people perfer as it removes the risk of running out of charge when your getting close.

Some other ways to reduce the carbon footprint your pleasure has, is to buy from company's that support sustainability. Pay attention to how your item is shipped and purchase things with less packaging. Everyones ability to practice sustainability is different but if everyone does what they can we can protect our planet.

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RebornRopes on etsy is a great shop to stock up on shibari rope, using materials like bamboo and hemp they are not only soft but environmentally friendly as well. Many of her rope sets come with safety scissors in case you need a quick escape and some are suspension compatible.

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Collars

collars are symbolic of ownership they can be used in petplay or in any dom/sub dynamic some can only be unlocked with a key some have a safety so it can be removed without the key in case its lost or an emergency and some just go on like z regular necklace

their are three categories of sub collars but all often can be defined by the infamous O-ring but its not a requirement

Scene collar

the first is a scene collar this collar is worn during a scene its usually bulky and obvious in its nature its usually made of leather or fake leather

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Day collar

A day collar is the most subtle of collars it is meant to be worn out on daily activities and will only be spotted by people "in the know". A day collar is a neclace that sometimes has a subtle lock only the dom can open or a small O-ring. A day collar is a way that the sub can feel owned in day to day life without involving non-consenting parties.

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House collar

A house collar is more noticeable than a day collar but less than a scene collar it is meant to be worn around the house, like the scene collar its often made of leather.