at your service

nonbinary tummy appreciator, 25

[softservefeeder]

Hi! I’m softserve! (any pronouns)

First things first:

THIS IS AN 18+ BLOG. NO ONE UNDER 18 IS ALLOWED TO FOLLOW OR INTERACT.

I am 26 and primarily a feeder (with a few feedee tendencies). I really like softer feedism, and anything involving a sub feeder/dom feedee dynamic.

Very much open to connecting with new people in the community! Feel free to send me an ask or a message!

[fatartappreciation]

The Oracle of the Hypogeum (Malta, 3000 BC), by Tim O’Neill, depicting the majestic Maltese Oracle of prehistoric times (see the real thing below) who was no doubt used to being served!

[sapphicfeedist]

omg i just read the essay this drawing comes from but i can’t find where i found it lol

[lardpunk]

i want to become so fat and overcome with greed that i deprive others around me.

i want to take up space. multiple seats--an entire booth--you name it. forcing others to move--to consider my size. and then continue to expand, unashamedly threatening the limits of my environment.

i want to be so hungry that i need to take from others. asking for seconds, thirds, even fourths. eating for a family of four at large gatherings with supposedly enough to go around. becoming visibly bloated, but too gluttonous to stop.

i want my growing nature to be impossible to avoid confronting. my habits revealing. but unable to be stopped even then.

most of all, i want a cute feeder under my thumb to deprive. i fantasize about lazing around, growing shockingly fatter because i force someone to constantly bring me food. feeding me out of fear, even--like its the only thing thatll placate me and keep me from depriving them more. but unable to stop themselves from obsessing over what theyre helping me do to my body.

[lovelybelly444]

the thought of a girl having an upset, gassy belly at work and spending the entire day being a squirmy, horny mess at her desk and when she finally gets home she’s so turned on that every gurgle has her biting her lip and whining.. constantly clenching her legs together and moaning. every time she rubs her bloated gut her hand wanders down to touch herself…

[softservefeeder]

DREAMS DO COME TRUE🩷

[softservefeeder]

forever and a day ago I saw a post on a confession blog that was to the effect of "when I'm at work I fantasize about being a princess in a big palace with a bunch of gorgeous feeders stuffing and pleasuring me" and that post is a strong contender for the position of "my Roman empire" and I also thought you'd appreciate it

oh my god yes i would love to be that person’s feeder that’s so hot

[softservefeeder]

Dom feedee/sub feeder is such an untapped market. No one ever talks about how feeders can be dominated besides just pinning us down with your weight, so here’s some more ideas that I am a fan of:

Making your weight gain 100% your feeders responsibility. If you want to gain, it’s not your job to put in effort. It’s their job to cater to you well enough. They need to be cooking ALL of your favorites, keeping snack options in arms reach for you to snack on 24/7, doing tiring things for you, and fetching your things so you don’t have to expend energy. If you don’t gain as much as you wanted to, a punishment could be in order for your feeder 👀

Making a smaller feeder your personal sex toy when you get too big to reach your buried bits

Teasing feeders for being so eager to please and incorporating orgasm-denial into it: “you can’t come until I finish eating my 3rd dessert.” Meanwhile, the feedee has come twice already between courses

Fatness as a symbol of divinity! Have a God-like presence as your feeder worships you.

Literally just teasing your feeder for not gaining weight. Just make your own pocket universe where being fat and gaining weight is the beauty standard, and make fun of your feeder for being pathetic lol

[softservefeeder]

feeling really fragile today like if I could so much as touch a belly I would literally melt into a puddle

[tummysmoocher]

I think more people should get turned on by eating too much and being full and noticing their clothes don’t fit the same anymore and

[tummysmoocher]

I think more people should whimper and moan after they stuff themselves too full, so turned on you can see it thru their panties or boxers. I think more people should feel their brains go fuzzy when they walk and feel their fat wobbling and bouncing. I think popping buttons or seams on clothes should get them close to cumming I think that

[skipperafterdark]

bodycon dresses on soft chubby bodies

[futchling]

I hope I am not just a parasocial creature to you but also a fetish object or perhaps masturbatory subject

[debaucheryandexcess]

having a belly outline while wearing a dress is a very beautiful and sexy accessory. anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is getting put in the shredder

[tummyautism]

been thinking about how feedism revolves around the feedee's wants and needs. feedees - as a general category - don't technically need a feeder. they can do the "feeding" part of feedism by themselves if they want to. feeders, however, rely on feedees in order to engage with their sexuality. feeders can't do feedism without someone to feed. because of this - because feedism revolves around the body of the feedee - it is ultimately the feedee who makes all the decisions. sure, they can go along with what their feeder tells them to do because it's hot, but they still have to make an active decision to do so. in a (not-abusive) feedist dynamic, the feedee decides what happens regardless of their status as a sub/dom. as a feeder, i'm just lucky to be allowed in. and as a subby feeder that's hot

[would-you-like-some-soup]

if I'm the one cooking I'm serving you first And I'm giving you the bigger plate. it is non negotiable sorry

[excessdoctrine]

living in an age where food is a luxury again means to me that a uncomfortably bloated tummy is sexy. that excess and gluttony are simply symbolic of luxe.

[maddifferent123]

Desperate to violently make out with a massively overfed fatty while they’re moaning and belching and struggling to keep it to together as their poor belly is fit to burst. They’re pressing my hands into their gut, looking for any kind of relief. Then they pull away with a shudder and whisper in my ear “can you grab me something sweet?”

[mousegirlheart]