Dark Academia Feedist

25 | she/her | trans lesbian | the feedist/fat liberation librarian of your dreams |

[sapphicfeedist]

FAQ

Who are you?

Hi I’m Olive! I’m a 24 year old trans lesbian who thinks chubby girls are incredibly cute!

What is this place?

A blog that lets me reblog cute fat girls, post fun feedist ideas, and just lets me express my kinks in a fun, public way!

What’s sapphic mean?

Sapphic 

adjective

adjective: sapphic; adjective: Sapphic

relating to lesbians or lesbianism."sapphic lovers"

relating to Sappho, her poetry, or verse in a meter associated with her

It’s a fancy synonym of lesbian. I’m just a huge homo.

I know I’m a guy but-

No. Stop. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200

Can I still be your friend if I’m a guy?

If you start by trying to flirt: no. Otherwise, maybe

Are you a feedee or feeder? 

Mainly feeder. I like being soft and want to gain weight but equal to/less than I want to feed someone else. It’s like 70/30. And I only feed girls/nonbinary folx

Will you be my feeder? 

I’ll try my best! However, I’m very poor. So while I’d love to buy you food, I gotta pay rent. 

What’s with the stats?

I hate math yet I’m, for some reason, impossibly horny for numbers and measurements. Probably too much time staring at the BMI chart when I was young.

Any tips for gaining weight?

Basically, eat more than you burn! Whether that means more junk food and empty calories, being lazy and not moving from your couch, or (preferably) both: just focus on food and lethargy. The pounds will pile on in no time.

How do I tell my SO I’m into this?

Just do it! If they love you, they’ll be okay and understanding. If not, then continue talking about it. Relationships, ESPECIALLY KINKY ONES, rely on communication. If you don’t have that, you don’t have anything.

That’s all the questions I could come up with! If you have a question that didn’t fall in one of these categories, a need to be teased, or some delicious stats; my ask box and DMs are always open! Happy eating!

[onehandkilling]

i love being fat. i fought tooth and nail for this love for my body and it will not be taken from me

[chubbypigaf]

Can Angels be fat??

😇

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

[perception-filter]

staring at the dessert menu and twirling my hair and going "should I be baaaaddd" until the autistic girl I'm eating with says "there is nothing bad about eating dessert. it is a morally neutral action"

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

Posts that are funnier as a feedist

[fatchubbylovelies]

You know what word I think we as a community should use more?

💕Tubby💕

There’s just something so endearing about calling someone tubby- it’s a playful tease, like a reminder of how much they’ve grown, and it shows how attracted you are to every extra inch of their softness.

[plushcow]

imagine if you got me really stoned and slightly tipsy with wine and then fed me pizza until i couldn’t sit up or form a full sentence without burping and then you.. fed me more

🫦🫦🫦

[makemewobble]

Gotta be honest, think the only weight limit for me is as long as I can still get waddled around to cute date spots.

Immobility is hot and all, but I’ll be dammed if it could ever top the concept of being forced to use my body in such public spaces. Obscenely fat, wobbling all over, but I’m still trying my damndest to keep up with you while you strut ahead to tell shop owners about my impending arrival and that they’ll need to open up the entrance so I don’t go breaking their frames

[futurepileofblubber]

Brilliant way of describing exactly my feelings on mobility

[housecow]

cute fat aggression, you can’t take how big i am so you just keep shoving food in my mouth and squeezing my belly and arms and thighs and

[urwitchypiggy]

Hot women should fatten me then take advantage of me sexually!! If I protest at all just make me bigger I won’t be able to stop you (or want to)

[sillysoftie]

IMO, holding abusers in the community accountable is more important than worrying about the community’s public image; like, normies were never gonna approve or understand this kink community.

I understand if the recent doc might have you feeling bad about having this kink. I’m still gonna encourage you to keep your “not all feeders“ & “not all men” to yourself.

A lot of people in the community are survivors of things you don’t know shit about. We need to protect each other and keep folks accountable.

[tianastummy]

dripping in fat

[housecow]

Did you know, Applebees supposedly has an all you can eat for 15.99. (Mainly focus on the wings though, boneless wings.)

dude i got an ad for that and was lowkey rethinking my plan for this weekend lmaooo

[sapphicfeedist]

changing my plans immediately. thank you so much for bringing this to my attention

[thatfatgoth]

I don’t know a single decent person in this community that isn’t regularly discussing the abuse that occurs. Discussions on how to protect yourself, warnings about certain people, debates about how to make the community safer overall it’s always being discussed.

Every community has abusers hiding in it, and I think we would be naive to say that kink communities (not just feedism) make excellent hunting grounds because people are often already playing with power dynamics/imbalances, and it's easy to manipulate that into abuse. We also cannot ignore the fatphobia aspect, and you have abusers telling their victims, no one but me will love you cause you are fat and disgusting and then society is like, “lol true”.

People outside the community constantly accuse us of not addressing that, and it’s like, hey so we talk about that constantly actually and are also the ones most likely to be the victims of those abusers. So when you send death threats to a queer, fat, RACK compliant feedist over a jokey post you didn’t like, I’m not actually sure you are the good guy you think you are.

People just completely ignore anything that we have to say, ignore any fat lib/activism work we do, and make documentary after documentary being like: “Look how icky and gross this thing I don’t understand is!” Without ever addressing the actual issues they are supposedly so concerned about.

I’m fucking tired man like they wanna have their cake and eat it too and frankly that’s meant to be our thing.

[bellybabe]

okay but realistic, domestic feedism and fat appreciation? that's where it's at.

sitting in your feeder's lap and getting your belly stroked, squeezed, and played with while you eat. weekly morning weigh-ins before breakfast (which is served in bed, of course). letting your belly hang and your love handles poke out of your shirts and pants around the house. your feeder gently feeding you with one hand and pleasuring you with the other. letting them bury their face in your gut--belly rubs and kisses galore!

doesn't that sound nice?

[sapphicfeedist]

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[sillysoftie]

Is the doc worth a watch? I added it to my list but feel like HBO docs are 50/50 these days (at best).

Massive trigger warning, but you gotta decide for yourself. People are gonna be talking about it. I wanted to watch it even though it was hard to do so. I decided it was important to listen to these stories and hear it from the horse’s mouth rather than only listen to the buzz posts about it.

So, you do you.

[moomoomaruu]

It really is such a weird mix of emotions. I’m watching it now. But that particular guy has always weirded me out big time for some reason. They literally could’ve picked any other feeder to represent feedism lol (but then there wouldn’t be much to this particular focal story so w/e)

[sapphicfeedist]

sounds like something to put in the watchlist. but if they specifically mention feedism, that means it’s gonna be in the zeitgeist and cultural conversation and oof 😓