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What is the order of your four quadrants?
What will it be faith or fear?
Recently, I’d been thinking about faith and what is it exactly in my life. Well, in order to actually identify faith in my daily life I had to look a bit farther and think about what is the essence of faith. I understand faith to be derived from my beliefs. How faith works for me is first I entertain a thought about something, then I decide to believe it, I understand how it is my truth, and then I apply my will and actions to make it a physical reality. When I have conjured the process or processes to make it a reality; I then go to w-o-r-k. The major component in creating the physical reality of my faith is the focus. Inside of my realm of focus I must be committed, discipline, persistent, and determined. When I am in faith about something I am working to accomplish I tend to find that fear, the nemesis of faith, finds a way to enter the picture. The very appearance of fear will be very sleek and subtle and very convincing. Afterall, many of the tools that fear uses begin in our mind. Fear dances between the words of loved ones who we know mean well. Fear finagles its way into the vocal scripting of a commercial that we’re watching, it is conveniently nestled between our daily doses of the morning madness that we call the news. It is always at those points that we find it to be a treacherous battle not to subscribe to many of the words spewing from mouths of these nameless characters who seem to have some discernment about what we are coping with at that particular moment in time. And just like that our faith takes a blow. Or does it? I submit that it is not that our faith takes a blow. It is not that faith and fear are sharing the weight of the same pendulum. Nor are they regarded as a balancing act of sorts. It is not that they share a meter, and if one is high the other is low. I believe that we can have faith in something, but we can allow unbelief and doubt to enter in. That is where our focus begins to shifts. We begin to pay less attention to what we regarded as the truth, and we begin to give more of our mental energy to the fear because it entertains stagnation, a comfort zone, and zero risk. Now faith is quite different. Faith requires us to become uncomfortable. Faith requires us to believe in what we have decided to be our truth. It also doesn’t allow us to see that far down the path while on the very journey. Yes, we can see the end result we desire, but we still have to walk through the process. We still have to take the steps. It is in those moments, when we are not able to see what clearly lies ahead, that fear seeks to derail our plans. Sometimes this fear takes the form of a sensible excuse. Sometimes the pressure of what we have faith in become so great that we look over on the other side, and notice that the grass is so much greener. What we fail to see is that we are looking through a mosaic lens and not the naked truth. The naked truth is what we have conceived in our minds, believed in our hearts, and have placed faith in. Faith is the catalyst for things becoming a physical reality, and our action(s) are the conduits that bridge the spaces in between. What will it be for me? I choose Faith. Fear is, by far, less exciting.
PRETTY...
Whatever you do don't ever give up. It is a bit long...
SAY YES TO YOUR PURPOSE!
If we were able to rid ourselves of every self sabatoging behavior, and decide to live our best life ever, we would find that the corridor to our freedom, one that we have been avoiding for far too long, is where it has always been...waiting for us. Waiting there in the midst of our indecisive, contradictory, and convoluted behaviors, like a child who waits patiently for his mate to engage him in a game of catch. The ball has been supplied, and the field is waiting, all he wants is for you to show up and get involved. The he that I am referring to is your purpose, the thing that gives you meaning, the one thing that you can do so well that it seems as though a symphony is in session when you are operating in your passion. However, many of us allow negative self talk to hender us from having some of our best life experiences. Just because no one has left a path for us to travel, we sometimes become intimidated by the thought of becoming that faithful pioneer. Regardless of the reasons we give for denying ourselves that inner most desire, the bottom line is that we fear the possibility of failure, and the risk of not being able to return to that place of comfort, the cove of mediocrity...
In contrast to our self sabotaging behaviors we are most often very courageous creatures. We dare to look fear in the face and leap over the edge anyway. After all we believe that nothing beats a failure, but a try. However cliche` of sayings, there is truly an air of sentimental valued nestled in the syllables of each word of that saying that springs to life, and prompts you to action. Many of us have decided to stop dating fear and self doubt, and have chosen to be incredible beings that know what they are passionate about, and never the more will we return to the cove of mediocrity. Because we know what gives us meaning, never again will we live a life that is ambiguous in nature. We have decided to say yes to our future all because we know our purpose. Knowing your purpose...this is the truly the master key to living a life of fulfillment. Which are you, a pioneer or the intimidated? You have the ultimate say.
#Overcoming Fallacies through the Power of Decision. 24-7 Transform
One of my favorite people posted this today on FB. I love it!
"Don't ask for the journey to become easier...YOU just become better during the journey".
CEO of 24/7 Transform Sonia Wysingle Gaddy
Don’t make a habit out of choosing what feels good over what’s actually good for you.
Eric Thomas
To Single Mothers...
I have a message to all of our single mothers. Single mothers you are wonderful in all that you do for your sons and your daughters. If there is one request I want to make to you on behalf of your children it would be to not rob them. Don't steal from them or deceive them. Rob them of what you ask? Don't rob them of the relationship that they could have with their father. Don't rob them of the support that they need from him. Don't rob them of the validation that the father provides. [if the father is not upstanding, and could possibly cause harm to the child that is clearly understandable why the relationship should be severed]. However, even in those circumstances it would be improper, single or remarried mother, to degrade or verbally bash the father at the child's expense. Just because he (the child's/children's father) is no longer the one for you does not mean he should not have a relationship with his child/children. Mother there is a perspective on life that you can offer a child as a female, and there is a perspective that the father can offer. I'm not saying that the perspectives that can be shared will be the considered the best and judged as right. I'm simply requesting that you not cheat them out of their experiences, their growth and development, one of their pillars of support. When a child has been robbed of a relationship through deceit and selfishness it is a deep and gaping wound. The wound runs deep because of the time lost, and it is gaping because it seems to be unrepairable, and mother if you rob your child of the experiences from this relationship it will forever haunt them, and you will be the bearer of a great betrayal. Often single mothers use the cliche 'You gotta do what you gotta do'. This is a survivalist's phrase, and can be used when decisions are made to hinder the relationship between a child and parent (the father in this case). There is a negative future impact that this decision will make in the child's life. Because time is irreplaceable he/she will wonder what effect their father would have had on their life. We need our fathers to be an active part of our children's lives. In some communities we praise men for activating their roles as fathers. It is sad that we look at these men's involvement as a rarity..., but it is just that...a rarity. Whether by choice or by force the father role is often a vacant space and a faded distant memory in the life of many children. So again mother, my request to you is to not rob your children. If at all possible, mother, help discontinue the perpetual cycle of fatherless children.
Validation
I wanted to know your thought ladies and gentlemen about validation. What does that term mean to you? When you hear the word, in what direction does your travel? How are your thoughts linked together, and why does your mind automatically begin to apply the term in that area? Do you feel happy or energized, defensive or humbled, or do you have no clue of how it applies to you? This is a topic that I would like to discuss with others that are open to give me their weighted thoughts and feelings, and share how it is applicable in their lives or why they are completely devoid of it's application.
Book review: The Wealth Choice by Dr. Dennis Kimbro (by Sonia Wysingle Gaddy)