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elena thing im not gonna finish
got a character from Bro so i instantly decided she needs a rough reff
refined mspaint sketch
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Russian Roulette Is Not The Same Without A Gun And Baby, When It's Love, If It's Not Rough, It Isn't Fun!
hi its me im here to be a hater on the side of dishbug again. genuinely ridiculous that rae is STILL a mod/social media manager. literal textual evidence of rae ignoring a problem AND overtly lying about the other mods' knowledge on the situation. AND the statement that there "wasnt evidence" despite not. asking for any. AND literal evidence that this has hurt you, continuously, and nothing. no demotion, no timing out, nothing. no no the mods ban Your Name for "your privacy" (which you explicitly didnt ask for and in fact clearly stated you wanted this to be talked about and noticed. and which they didnt ask you about before doing this.) WHILE MISGENDERING YOU. like holy shit.
also having a rule against blocking a mod is so?? weird??? i KIND of get it for a big server, hard to keep track of whos blocked who and who can ping who, you dont want people intentionally evading the rules, whatever. EXCEPT that the user who did that got banned bc they literally Can keep track, apparently, somehow. why do they have that. hello. and again if a mod has received enough backlash that server users are blocking them over their behavior, why the FUCK are they still a mod. last time that happened with one of our mods we banned them.
the level of willful incompetence that has been plainly on display in this is staggering. this isnt "moderation is a learning process" this is "i am bad at my fucking job and i didnt care about getting better until it might Actually have any consequences. which it didnt." jesus christ.
thank the fucking lord someone else sees this too and im not just being delusional bc i actually cannot believe that the first replies i get to this after talking about it again was from ppl telling me im crazy and making an issue out of nothing. also yknow im starting to feel a little different about a few people who i know for a fact check the tags frequently yet decided to entirely ignore this whole situation btw if anyone is annoyed that i took @beastieball just to reblog my own posts how about we get mad at rae instead for even starting this bullshit also how the hell was the @ for that account even untaken for a second. you'd think if it was your job to manage the social media you wouldn't just forget that the og blog associated w that deactivated/changed handles one random day
rae handled your situation with the expected level of human error of someone whose not trained to deal with stalking allegations/mental health crises. barely paid mods will make lapses in judgement.
you hinging so much of yourself on the decision making of a discord moderator with absolutely no mental health certification was a poor decision. these are literally just people who hang out in the community often??
however poorly you think the issue was handled, rae shouldn’t have been responsible for sleuthing out ongoing interpersonal stalking accusations between you and another member. it’s a public server Anyone can join. it will never be perfectly curated. only to the best of the ability of like 5 regular ass guys.
ok so, 1. this was quite literally their job. it is their job to deal with situations "like this". it is reiterated again and again, if you have any issues with anyone in the server, you shouldn't be afraid to contact a mod about it. i talked with rae specifically because they reached out to me first when i impulsively left the server for the first time. their message asking if i was okay being sent "not as a moderator" despite them knowing of the issue before i even left. (peep them acting completely clueless in their first messages wow how transparent of them)
(boo fucking hoo also. how fucking dare i have screenshots from someone's private account (which he btw talked about wanting to be leaked but whatever). which btw rae never appeared to have an issue with me having screenshots while we were talking in dms about it and i also explained i never had direct access to his private account and only had these screenshots from mutual friends i had with that user. i only even got access to these screenshots months after the posts started to be made because people around me felt guilty over staying quiet about it) 2. it was not a mental health crisis until months into this due to their innaction. yes i felt pretty awful about it from the start, yet rae literally reassured it was fine for me to talk about it. they KNEW how badly it was affecting me, yet chose to do nothing 3. how do you even know what they're paid. even if they were underpaid it wouldn't be my fault for believe they'd do what they literally describe as their job. there was also a whole team of moderators, at any point they could've passed me off to a different mod to handle it but they didn't. 4. they are also the social media manager. but even if they were just a moderator, their position as a discord mod should be plenty enough for me to have trust in them to deal with a member in the discord server they moderate 5. you don't need "mental health certifications" to take a victim of a stalker seriously 6. "these are literally just people who hang out in the community often??" literally factually wrong. moderators are hired to keep the community safe, and they have the tools specifically to keep it safe. this is their job and their position as a discord moderator is inherently different and comes with way more responsability from random members. 7. you cannot keep calling something that has definite proof "accussations". there literally is proof of this user stalking and harassing me as well as shit talking other members of the server. all which rae refused to do anything about until the user moved onto a different victim who i urged to make it public because rae wouldn't've done anything if i didn't.
8. anyone can join a public server. and it is the team of moderators responsability to keep it safe. crazy ik 9. i wasn't asking any mod to be a fucking superhero lmfao idk about you but the theoretical 5 regular ass guys should also be perfectly capable of believing and taking a victim seriously and dealing with the perpetrator the disconnect you have to force yourself into to even defend them not only from this situation but just from how the world works should be damning evidence that this literally cannot be excused
The new post: https://bsky.app/profile/anon7777777.bsky.social/post/3mkgkfriuzk2o
Anything to ensure Greg learns about/acknowledges the situation.
Dishbug appreciates it
I've been trying to get Greg's attention on the discord situation:
https://x.com/NotTell04650631/status/2048419062229717421
https://x.com/NotTell04650631/status/2048311598700253271
Wanna help?
i don't think he's active on twitter (you'd have better chances reaching him on his bsky) but it's good to see someone else trying to take action regarding all this
hey so what was this about
and the i go ask someone else on the wishes unlimited server's mod team and
a small snippet of the "casual complaint that didn't warrant action"-s btw
hey, Wishes Mod Team, genuine question. how can you really expect me to NOT have them blocked after everything that happened with @dishbug .
you can just move on from this like it was petty "drama" or a misunderstanding but he's still paranoid because of their ignorance and inaction
(not even mentioning how the entire situation drove him to self harm and worse)
its all about "curating your space" until the person that hurt your friend is a mod so you can't just. do that
i don't want them interacting with me in any way possible but i still liked being on wishes
so this sucks lol
Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Wandersong (Video Game) Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Bard/Miriam (Wandersong) Characters: Bard (Wandersong), Miriam (Wandersong) Additional Tags: Bard’s Name is Kiwi (Wandersong), Friendship/Love, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Awkwardness, Marriage Proposal, Anxiety, Overthinking, Dorks in Love, Fluff, Established Relationship, Heavily Inspired by To the Moon Series (Video Games), One of My Favorites, but since i technically only kinda very loosely borrowed one element from it, and other than that this fic is post-canon compliant to the Wandersong universe, and doesn’t require knowledge of To The Moon Series to read, i don’t really feel like it falls into the crossover category just yet xd, psst psst mirikiwi is literally rosawatts but healthy :’), i guess this fic can also be read as a 5+1 thing? except it’s 4+1 lolol
Summary:
Miriam was their bestest friend, their partner, their soulmate. They loved her in so many different ways they still couldn’t express it properly. And, lately, this love had suddenly begun to manifest as a peculiar, insistent, unexpected yearning:
Kiwi wanted to propose.
…And if they could attempt to do it without the risk of ruining everything they and Miriam had so meticulously nurtured between them, then why not?