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Sex positivity is flat & overwrought. Casual sex can & will re-traumatize you; teaching young girls to have sex before they are ready will create the first red & heavy chasm of sexual trauma, which they will spend the rest of their lives carrying.

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honestly. I wish I had listened to adults telling me I didn’t need to be having sex as a teenager. I hope I learn how to convey this to our younger sisters in a way that won’t sound like a puritanical old fogey so it isn’t as easy for them to ignore as it was for me

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I was in very deep with libfem tumblr when hypersexuality reared its ugly head as a result of sexual trauma and I went out and got myself into increasingly dangerous, traumatising sexual interactions and situations. And everywhere I looked the only message I saw was: be a slut! It’s okay! Real feminists have casual sex! Fuck whoever you want whenever!

It honestly really damaged me.

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I see the whole “suck as many dicks as you want” “go be a hoe girl” type mentality so much on here and girls believe that it’s empowering them and freeing them from some confines of society but it can be so damaging especially to youth who just don’t know any better. Especially to trauma survivors. Especially to young girls who have experienced sexual harrassement and trauma but aren’t aware of it. Sure sex can be great and no you aren’t wrong or a tainted person for having sex with multiple partners but at the same time the message sent to girls shouldn’t be “be a slut it’s cool!” It should be about recognizing sexual pressures, healthy sexual behaviours and desires, recognizing when you are ready, recognizing consequences, recognizing the effect sex can have on the body and the soul, recognizing the importance of consent, etc. Instead girls, many of whom have been through some sort of sexual trauma, are talking about being sluts and hoes and proud of it and it just isn’t right.