tbh if anyone honestly fucking thinks this bullshit is just ‘ drama ‘ i hope to god you never fucking experience dysphoria where you look in the fucking mirror and you can’t even recognize yourself bc you’re in the wrong damn body. i hope no one questions your gender or sex or ask about your genitals, as if that’s even proof as to who you actually are. if you can’t honestly grasp what people are upset about, i’m glad this is a ok for you. you come to a roleplay to escape life and be someone else for a day and have fun. you organize threads and relationships and it’s fun. it’s fun. and we get it. it’s not that easy to grasp at times. it’s confusing if you don’t experience it. but i shouldn’t have to come the fuck online and sit here and experience transphobia online. and watch you get defensive about it, saying you’re trying to ‘stick to canon’. anyone calling this petty drama and shit don’t realize this is the shit people face today and you’re trivializing every damn thing me and many ex - members go through on a daily fucking basis.
this shit isn’t drama. it’s people’s actual lives. it’s things people go through daily and you sitting there telling people they can’t be this or that bc it’s not canon is just as harmful as telling me i’m a fucking girl bc i can’t prove i have a dick.
how are you honestly gonna tell me that you “ don’t have a concrete answer “ when honestly all you had to do was let people in. if you can accept a giant yellow tentacle man or accept an alien turning human or w/e the heck, but you can’t accept us - you can’t be surprised when there’s a giant uproar.












