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odd days: I don’t need anybody. The trees and the sea are enough for me

even days: I need someone to give me a surprise hug from the side or I will pass away

i would talk about how the reason so many trans men use “ftm” even though trans women rarely use “mtf” is the unique hypervisibility and hence hypervulnerability of trans women which also has the bad side effect of trans men having to have their birth gender in their identity or people assume they’re transitioning the other way

but y’all ain’t ready for that conversation

#there is zilch nuance when y'all discuss the differing experiences of trans men and trans women

dkhfadsjghsd my crush is trying to set me up with somebody else this is wack

oh the places you'll go when you get top surgery

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thinking bout all the trans guys who discovered themselves in feminist/queer circles and trying so hard to ignore the “men are trash” everywhere

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Look women who’ve undergone trauma have every right to say this

I’m just saying the constant onslaught miiight be hurting the wrong people

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Me, throwing rocks at God’s window: Hey! Hey! Where’s my dick!?

thinking bout all the trans guys who discovered themselves in feminist/queer circles and trying so hard to ignore the “men are trash” everywhere

#i'm so over it #it doesn't harm actual predators yk #only hurts these guys who are trying to convince themselves their masculinity is not toxic

happy transgender day of visibility to all my trans siblings!! i love you all and wish you all the happiness in the world

#tdov #tdov2019 #transgender day of visibility

my friend is turning into a full-on stoner and i’m too afraid to intervene cause i know what she’ll say - what she always says, weed is not that kind of a drug, i’m not addicted, you don’t understand blah blah and like... i’m not moralising. why are you so defensive. not everyone who doesn’t smoke weed thinks weed is Morally Wrong. i just don’t want you to ruin your lungs as a concerned friend why is this so weird

#she already thinks of me as a prude so #ugh #i shouldn't care so much but i do #she's my friend!!#the problem is she gets angry and defensive if someone brings this up #and like #weed people will never bring it up because they don't think it's a problem #and non weed people are not allowed to have an opinion #this is how lives are ruined #i don't wanna be that guy who saw the descent and didn't do anything #:///#weed tw #drugs tw

periods :////////

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Things I’m gonna do when (if?? Tryna be hopeful tho) I get top surgery one day:

•go to the beach shirtless and just lay there in the sun bc yes.

•wear stylish ass clothes without having to worry about boobs. Like bitch there’s so much shit that’d be so cute on me if these hell orbs weren’t in the way.

•just sit around shirtless in my house and just hang out and watch shitty television and laugh at it and get chip crumbs all over me so I can complain about it later

•snuggle right up against someone without having to be anxious about my tits bitch. I can fully accept my role as the cuddliest man alive..

•just. stare at myself in the mirror. No titties. Wow. Amazing.

•swim shirtless in the pool with my friends

•listen I come from a place where it’s not uncommon to see ur weirdo neighbors walk outside shirtless like that’s just how it be. And that’s gonna be ME. I will take every opportunity to show that shit off.

•as soon as I get done with the surgery and recover and shit I’m texting everyone, “well, I sure am glad to get THAT off my chest!” simultaneously

•go to the big ass high end water parks and actually have fun instead of crippling away of dysphoria in a bathing suit like I currently do now…

•I’m honestly down to just climb a mountain shirtless, T-pose and yell “IM A FUCKIN MAN!!!!” at this point.

#:)