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being back posting art in pride month means this bad boy is also back

Hey if you See This can you reblog this or comment on this with a character you headcanon as aromantic, asexual, or both. It can be canon it can be founded on absolutely nothing I just need more aroace stuff on here #yay

#fushi from to your eternity

jealousyblood

Exploring with markers

#tf2

kateammann

Happy Pride Month to all of my fellow aces!! 🖤🩶🤍💜

it's always sad when I see people with psychological disabilities (most often PDs) say things like "i don't feel attraction but i'm trying to" or "i can't love, how do i fix this?"

genuinely, if you don't feel attraction (of any sort! not just sexual), consider that you're A-spec!! being traumatized does not mean you cannot be A-spec, just like it doesn't mean you can't be gay or trans!

the idea that you need to "fix" your attraction to be "mentally healthy" is an anti-LGBT myth, although one that's unfortunately still common in regards to A-spec folks.

and even if you are actually allosexual/-romantic/-platonic and you'll (re)develop attraction as you recover, there is literally no good in forcing yourself to feel it; forcing intimacy is unhealthy, encourages self-loathing when you inevitably don't enjoy it, and leaves you incredibly vulnerable to abuse.

if you're going to feel attraction one day, it'll happen without pressure. if you're not going to experience attraction, no amount of pressure will make it happen. A-spec or not, you've gotta let yourself be in this regard.

#diverse asexuality

i started to play a mobile game that has pvp in it out of boredom

just rambling

1e3no

copperbadge

#2, Brute?

l-heure-du-the

I made the ugliest noise.

periegesisvoid-deactivated

It’s not even March. It’s literally more than 6 months till the ides of March. Why.

onemerryjester

TODAY

apolladay

Without searching do you know of a celebrity* that you share a birthday with?

yes

no

Voting ended onMar 15

*Define celebrity however you'd like.

Also Hey Mick Fleetwood birthday twin 👋🏼

#yes #raven symone

homunculus-argument

I'm not an asexual but I have to admit the thought of wanting sex badly enough to be willing to do with no protection is utterly alien to me. Like I know that contraceptives have not been accessible for most people for most of human history, but that really doesn't tip the scales here. People were still fucking all across those millenia, all the way between point A when someone connected the dots that fucking causes babies, and point B when someone figured out how to make it stop doing that. You don't have to go back that many generations to get to a point where everyone knew someone who had died in childbirth. And yet, these people fucked.

I cannot, for the life of me, comprehend the level of horny that would make someone think "I would rather suffer and die a horrifying painful death nine months from now, that will break all of my loved ones' hearts with grief they will never recover from, than endure one more second of not getting dicked down RIGHT NOW."