PLEASE don’t have children
-If you are not financially independent.
-If you are mentally ill without consistent means of treatment
-If you cannot afford doctor’s bills
-If the thought of having a gay, trans, or nonbinary child makes you upset.
-If the cant accept having to care for a child with a disability or special needs.
-If the thought of having a fat child makes you upset.
-If you have a bad/short temper
-If you’re in an abusive relationship
-If you’re not ready to put someone else’s needs first, EVERY SINGLE DAY, for 18 years.
-If you have an ideal of what this person is going to be like and anything other than that image makes you upset.
-If you need to have a quiet and tidy home at all times.
-If you need to control all aspects of their life even into adulthood.
-if you believe they owe you unconditional, unquestionable respect regardless of your own behavior.
-If you don’t believe they have the right to privacy in their own home.
-If you’re unwilling to change your lifestyle to accommodate the demands of parenthood.
-If you do not believe ALL humans of every race, gender, sexuality, religion, and career deserve the same rights and respect.
Look. Your baby could be fat. Your “son” could actually be your daughter; or both or neither. They could be a lawyer or a porn star. You could have a boy who loves makeup and grows up to be an athiest that brings home an alaskan lumberjack named Boris and the two make a living doing gay camshows . You could have a daughter with blue hair, pierced tits, who is a YouTube rapping sensation called Krispee Kareem and marries a black man and wants 8 kids with him
But what I DO know is that parenthood isnt Build-a-Baby; you get what you fuckin’ get and if you’re not prepared to love and support the shit outta that baby; WHOEVER they grow up to be–
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