One year ago today I was in a free fall after walking away from my failed marriage. I did not have custody of my daughter, I was staying in a hotel I couldn’t afford, I had been fired from my job as a result of the separation, and I had almost no support from my family. All of my savings went to pay for my attorney retainer. My life had seemingly evaporated before my eyes.
Fast forward to today. I wake up every morning next to my best friend, and we are still so in love at any given moment. I am the interim executive director of a radical feminist political organization in my state. My staff and board just hosted one of our most successful events ever. All of my friends were at the event cheering me on, I spoke publicly and didn’t die, and we raised a lot of money for women’s rights. I received an email from a foundation informing me that the grant application we submitted has been approved and we are getting that money. After my work day is done, I will go pick up my 4 year old daughter and take her to ballet class.
I don’t look perfect in this picture, addressing the room at our gala. But this photo captures me in a moment where I feel happy, confident, and secure in my being. A year ago, I could not have predicted all of this.
Life is worth living, always.















