a bit of a longer thought.. however..
if you were to ask me how i felt about fearplay. I'd tell you it's really cool and It's one of my favorite tropes to play around with!
but if you were to ask me on a deeper level...
I love fearplay, especially hurt/comfort. I thank all of the g/t tumblr for posting about fearplay.
accidental fearplay.. guhhh .. ALSO IF THEY HAVE AN ESTABLISHED RELATIONSHIP AND ALL TRUST IS SHATTERED... PEAK!!!!!
Someone having the capacity to hurt you with ease, but you've always known that they would never— could never hurt you. It puts you at ease, having one thing always assured; your safety.
But imagine one day, there's a moment where they have complete disregard for your safety. Typically, they were so careful and considerate.. Now? Their gaze doesn't hold much worry for your well-being anymore, and they become reckless. Whether it be with their strength, how they hold you, or how their actions may affect you.
They forget that one small movement is increased tenfold for you, and maybe they slam their hands on the desk you're sitting on. Maybe they shout too loud for your ears to take. Either way, it's dangerous..
And it must be excruciating for the giant.. i mean.. If this tiny little person is your friend, possibly partner, you would never intentionally harm them. Forgetting how much impact you have on them in the heat of the moment.
Now, you have to start all over again. Especially if the tiny struggled with trust issues in the beginning of the relationship. sighs...
now it's really up to the severity of the situation to see if they'll really reconcile. Maybe the tiny flees after such an encounter, without a chance for the giant to apologize...
Or, they talk it out. Maybe it can end well and all is forgiven.
How it goes is really up to you.. all i know is i have a deep appreciation for fearplay.