Look For The Girl With A Broken Smile

♡ 28|Female|Pansexual|Equity|Equality between all Species+Races+Genders+Sex Preference|Nature is my Goddess|Hippie+Goth+Punk+Cunt •tired beyond belief• ♡ My new blog is starin-down-a-better-path

[starin-down-a-better-path]

It’s okay to not hate yourself

[colachampagnedad]

My gf and I had sex for the first time the other day and I noticed that she has stretch marks on her belly and thighs? I didn't say anything but I find them kind of weird to look out. My other gfs didn't have them so I guess I'm not used to it? Do I tell her I'm not feeling them and suggest how she can get rid of them or not?

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[the-joyous-work-continues]

Reblogging because I don’t see people talking about Dom drop nearly enough!

[babiexmilk]

more people need to know about this and talk about it because, yes subs need care, but so do our Doms - they deserve just as much care and attention as us subs

[captain-price-returns]

The difference between "There used to be hot summers too,” and a climate crisis.

[nothingspecialjustasoul]

I’m not sad, just empty in a way that doesn’t go away.

[nothingspecialjustasoul]

My biggest mistake was thinking that people care for me as much as I care for them.

[serendipityscrible-deactivated2]

"If someone would rather lose you than resolve the issue, they never truly cared about you."

[life-spire]

[mournfulroses]

Franz Kafka, from a letter to Felice Bauer written in 1913, featured in Letters To Felice

[nothingspecialjustasoul]

[vexheart]

[st-alajlan-deactivated20210402]

I want to be your favorite place to go when you’ve had a bad day or good day.

[st-alajlan-deactivated20210402]

I want to be your favorite place to go when you’ve had a bad day or good day.

[thatonedeadboy]

rip me apart

[vexheart]

[starin-down-a-loaded-gun]

It's my 14 year and 45 days anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

[abigail]

unfortunately i do think i am in fact doomed forever but at least there’s movies and music and idk probably some other things too