Finding My Way

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[sadmates]

[feelingsoftheday]

to the person that didn’t see your worth .. fuck them too

[perfectfeelings]

“If you’re struggling and your people are just sitting there watching you struggle, they’re not your people.”

— Unknown

[startingoverin2025]

Maybe they are still, but you pushing them out of your life constantly is why.

[perfectfeelings]

“Just because your past has been damaged doesn’t mean your future has to be worthless.”

— Unknown

[emptytexts-deactivated20250915]

if we don’t talk again remember i loved you

[stay-close]

“Always, always trust your first gut instincts. If you feel something’s wrong, it usually is.”

— Unknown

[a-mind-in-ruins]

never asked for much, just wanted someone to be there for me how i am for them.

[wordx]

[startingoverin2025]

Better Times

[highonoverthinking]

I have thousand things to say to you and a thousand reasons not to.

[wordx]

[paper-wounds]

[wordx]

[dumblr]

I hope one day you look back and realize someone loved you so quietly, so fiercely, they forgot how to love themselves in the process. That someone was me.

[littlegothsuccubus-deactivated2]

Here is a little piece of advice to the ladies of Tumblr from a girl who has seen it all:

If you find yourself stalking a guy's Tumblr, enthralled with the images he paints in your head of what he would do to you, ask yourself this before you ever hit the DM button or respond.

Would I be okay if I wasn't the only one with his attention?

Am I willing to accept that he might only be in this to get my nudes and never hear from him again?

Is this person safe and genuine?

Why am I honestly at this point? Do I seek attention, mutual attraction, or something else?

Am I taking proper precautions to ensure that I'm not only safe online but that I'll be safe with them?

What am I hoping to get from this interaction?

What are my boundaries and limits for what I am willing to do with this person? Write them down to remember what you set limits on when you're caught up in the moment.

There are a lot of really crappy guys and a lot of creeps out there, ladies. Do yourself a favor and think before you hit respond or get in his inbox.

Someone's Tumblr is the picture they paint and may not accurately reflect the kind of person they are. People have gotten really good at hiding their true identity here, where they can hide behind a username and anonymous photo.

While there are some really amazing people I have been so fortunate to meet here and people who will be in my life, ideally forever, don't get so distracted by the idea of someone that you forget about what you want and deserve.

[mistersplaything]

I love this please be safe y’all and practice safe kink. I can’t say it enough consent means everything

[a-mind-in-ruins]

And if love finds me again I pray it’s someone who values me & protects my heart.

[a-mind-in-ruins]

When you're with the wrong person even being in the same room feels like you're on your own.

You swallow your words until silence is all you know.

And you wonder if love was ever real, or if it was just a way to convince yourself to stay.