stella

critter representation 22 f

[stellaltumi]

Intro (◕‿◕✿)

Name: Stella

Info: 22 yo fem, pansexual, physically disabled, cpunk, AuDHD, artist, horror fan, polytheist witch, professional rat mother, wine auntie, strong believer in FAFO, happily single.

I try to keep this account mostly sfw but I would not say it is a sfw account.

Interests: disability advocacy, mental health advocacy, psychology, age regression, paraphilias, drug research, biological sciences, art, poetry, music, resident evil, silent hill, horror movies, jujutsu kaisen, soul eater, shitposts.

If you classify yourself as: a fuckup, loser, burnout, queer, gay, artist, musician, witch, gifted child, disabled, punk, cpunk, paraphile, or enthusiast of the horror genre, you have come to the right place.

Fun facts: I have college certificates + degrees in 3 separate fields, I played soccer for 7 years, and I can sleep for 20 hours straight without waking up.

I am an artist, my online portfolio is @stellaltumi on instagram! I also post art on this acct sometimes. You can find it under # art or # myart . I plan on making more artwork and selling prints soon!

Reviews from irl friends (referring to me): "complicated saltwater tropical fish"

"very sleepy girl"

"the most hardworking person I have ever met"

"resident evil goat"

Various ailments: complex PTSD, late diagnosed AuDHD, maladaptive daydreaming, POTS, ISFN, hEDS, multiple major joint injuries including the spine, pelvis, and shoulder

Suspected: narcolepsy, gastroparesis, MCAS

Other blogs:

aesthetic/art rbs @two-hidden-wings

MaDD @madd-alicce

spirituality/religion @lunarvamps

BFRB/skincare @cynicalconst3llations

DNI: TERFs, n*zis, homophobes, ableist, MAGA, pro israel, bigots in general, antivaxxers, pro ana, pro ED, transdisabled, disabled fetishizers, z**philes + p*dos + r*pists that are pro contact or have made contact in the past.

I do not condone non consensual acts. I am not radqueer. I am pro paraphile recovery.

My blog is otherwise a safe space, feel free to send a submission or message at any time! Asks are currently open.

user boxes!! :3

[stellaltumi]

dating this guy and we're both physically disabled in different ways so we kinda just compensate for one another and it's really nice

[stellaltumi]

update FUCK THAT BIH

[stellaltumi]

dating this guy and we're both physically disabled in different ways so we kinda just compensate for one another and it's really nice

[inky-peaches]

Being in an interabled relationship is the wildest crash course in self worth and internalized ableism (as the disabled person). You want to help me do basic tasks like getting dressed? Because you love me? And you still want to do these things after ten years? Sounds fake, but okay.

[vampiresblog]

PSA if you are a wheelchair user with a partner who pushes your chair sometimes, you NEED to make out with your partner sloppy style in public so that people know ur together. If you dont do this your partner will be mistaken as your support worker for the rest of your life. Able bodied ppl actually cannot fathom wheelchair users and disabled people being in LOVE so you really need to wave it in their face

[love-me-love-my-weirdness]

Shout out to the ten year old who just got diagnosed. Shout out to the housebound fourteen year old. Shout out to the eighteen year old who can’t go to the university they wanted. Shout out to the twenty two year old who can’t get a job. Shout out to the twenty six year old with a caretaker. Shout out to the thirty year old who can’t buy their own house.

Shout out to young disabled people. We exist.

[talestobetold]

my cat sometimes gets on the counter. she knows she is not allowed on the counter. she will just stare at us no matter what we say, until someone stands up. once someone stands up she gets down.

i am now in a wheelchair. i cannot stand up. she is still doing this.

i can wheel over to right in front of her and she will just stare at me like "stand up. do it. i'm not moving until you stand up."

the cutest little ableist piece of shit

[flowercrowncrip]

Wheelchair =/= small manual chair

If a space doesn't accommodate larger neuro wheelchairs, it's not wheelchair accessible.

If a wheelchair lift has a safe working load that can't handle a heavy electric chair (and person!), it's not accessible.

If doors/ shop aisles are too narrow to fit a larger electric chair, it's not accessible.

If a bus doesn't have room to manoeuvre a large wheelchair, it's not accessible.

If there is any step (even if just a couple of inches) - it doesn't matter that some manual wheelchair users might be able to navigate it - it's not accessible

Not every wheelchair user can use a small manual chair

[stevviefox]

Damn right!

[stellaltumi]

I finally decided to order a wheelchair and I'M SO EXCITED

[stellaltumi]

pov autistic and menstruating

[stellaltumi]

"if your accountability feels like hate, then my physical disability was never the problem"

[stellaltumi]

so apparently employers don't like it when you are physically disabled

[stellaltumi]

finally made a blog intro post after 10 years of being on this hellsite

[chronicillnessresourcelibrary]

All the resources shared so far that might be helpful for new spoonies:

General:

Study Tips for Chronically Ill Students (reblogged from @the--social--anarchist)

Disabled Tips – Bed Days (reblogged from @ghost-kings-court-jester)

How to Create a Pain Diary

Sleep Tips for New Spoonies

How to Tell Someone You Have a Chronic Illness

Learning to Live Well with a Persistent Illness

A Guide for Coming into Disability (reblogged from @chronicallycouchbound)

Navigating Pain – Starter Resource

Coping Mechanisms and Mantras for Being Chronically Ill (reblogged from @stellaltumi)

Condition-Specific:

Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome Is Much More Than Being 'Bendy'

Is It Anxiety or Hyperthyroidism? Here’s How to Tell the Difference

So You’ve Got POTS – A Starter Kit... (reblogged from @spoonie-living)

Must-Haves for Living With (Type 2) Diabetes

Ankylosing Spondylitis – The Patient Journey

What Is It Like Living With Ankylosing Spondylitis?

What is Sjögren's – The Basics

[wizardarchetypes]

literally said out loud to myself 'i need to do something to calm down and regulate my nervous system' and then opened tumblr.com. like a guy in a horror movie going to check out the scary sound in the basement.

[stellaltumi]

"wah wah wah you're lazy"

wah wah wah I have a physical disability hoe

[stellaltumi]

u ever get so pissed off u wanna become a lawyer