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One of the things we have to stay away in Ramadan is Gossip! Gossip is a form of pride. By gossiping you try to devalue others to increase your own value. Please remember, tearing people down will never build you up.

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Fasting is the discipline of learning to say “No” to anything other than Allah that makes demands of us. So basically fasting is primarily a spiritual discipline designed to tame the body so that we can concentrate on higher things.

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“I stopped explaining myself when I realized people only understand from their level of perception.”

— Unknown

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Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said:

“If the people knew that missing the prayer is like missing the month of Ramadhan, they would strive to pray at its appointed time...”

{Minhaaj As-Sunnah An-Nabawi 5/230}

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Human nature desires a society based on morals and manners which provides a stable and secure life leading to liberty and happiness for all people.

Muslims believe Prophet Muhammad had a character as a model for all humanity to follow. The Quran describes the Prophet as:

By an act of mercy from God, you O' Prophet were gentle in your dealings with them - had you been harsh, or hard-hearted, they would have dispersed and left you - so pardon them and ask forgiveness for them. Consult with them about matters, then, when you have decided on a course of action, put your trust in God: God loves those who put their trust in Him? Quran 3:159

Following is list of 75 good manners that we can learn from the Glorious Quran:

Don't lie (22:30)

Don't spy (49:12)

Don't exult (28:76)

Don't insult (49:11)

Don't waste (17:26)

Feed the poor (22:36)

Don't backbite (49:12)

Keep your oaths (5:89)

Don't take bribes (27:36)

Honour your treaties (9:4)

Restrain your anger (3:134)

Don't spread gossip (24:15)

Think good of others (24:12)

Be good to guests (51:24-27)

Don't harm believers (33:58)

Don't be rude to parents (17:23)

Turn away from ill speech (23:3)

Don't make fun of others (49:11)

Walk in a humble manner (25:63)

Respond to evil with good (41:34)

Don't say what you don't do (62:2)

Keep your trusts & promises (23:8)

Don't insult others' false gods (6:108)

Don't deceive people in trade (6:152)

Don't take items without right (3:162)

Don't ask unnecessary questions (5:101)

Don't be miserly nor extravagant (25:67)

Don't call others with bad names (49:11)

Don't claim yourselves to be pure (53:32)

Speak nicely, even to the ignorant (25:63)

Don't ask for repayment for favours (76:9)

Make room for others at gatherings (58:11)

If enemy wants peace, then accept it (8:61)

Return a greeting in a better manner (4:86)

Don't remind others of your favours (2:264)

Make peace between fighting groups (49:9)

Lower your voice and talk moderately (31:19)

Don't let hatred cause you to be unjust (6:108)

Don't ask too many favours from people (2:273)

Greet people when entering their home (24:27)

Be just, even against yourself & relatives (4:135)

Speak gently, even to leaders of disbelief (20:44)

Don't criticize small contributions of others (9:79)

Don't call the Prophet how you call others' (24:63)

Try to make peace between husband & wife (4:128)

Don't call the Prophet from outside his rooms (49:4)

Opprression/corruption is worse than killing (2:217)

Preach to others in a good and wise manner (16:125)

Don't accuse others of immorality without proof (24:4)

Consider wives of the Prophet like your mothers (33:6)

Don't raise your voice above that of the Prophet's (49:2)

Don't call someone a disbeliever without knowing (4:94)

Seek permission before entering someone's room (24:59)

Know your enemies can become your close friends (41:34)

Don't wrongly consume the wealth of the vulnerable (4:29)

Don't turn your cheek away from people in arrogance (31:18)

Forgive others, as you would like Allah to forgive you (24:22)

Seek Prophet's permission when leaving his gathering (24:62)

Don't hold secret meetings for sin, rather do so for piety (58:9)

Don't order others to do good while forgetting it yourself (2:44)

Be patient with your teacher & follow his instructions (18:67-69)

Don't frown, turn away or neglect those who come to you (80:10)

If unable to help a needy person, at least speak nice words (17:28)

Be lenient to those under you, and consult them in matters (3:159)

Verify information from a dubious source before acting upon it (49:6)

Don't remain in the Prophet's home unnecessarily after a meal (33:53)

Those who can should continue to spend on those less fortunate (24:22)

Don't enter homes without permission & return if refused entry (24:27-28)

Don't sit with those who mock religion until they change the subject (4:140)

Say it's not appropriate to talk of slander when it's mentioned to you (24:16)

If required to ask the Prophet's wives, then do so from behind a screen (33:53)

Divorce in an amicable manner instead of keeping & harming your wife (2:231)

Punish in an equivalent manner to how you were harmed or be patient (16:126)

Differences in color & language are signs of Allah, not means of superiority (49:13)

Don't take women by force, nor take back bridal gift without a valid reason & live with them in kindness (4:19)

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Cherish your parents. Don’t let it be that it’s when you bury them that you realise how much of a blessing they are.

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“I am so afraid of disappointing the people I love, I often forget that I am someone I love too. And I need kindness just as much as I believe the people I love do.”

— Nikita Gill

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Respect your mothers 🤍

“Your mother, your mother, your mother”

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‎سَيَفْتَحُ اللهُ بَابًا كُنْتَ تَحْسَبُهُ *** مِنْ شِدَّةِ الْيَأْسِ لَمْ يُخْلَقْ بِمِفْتَاحٍ

Allaah will open a door which, in the midst of your despair, you thought was created without a key.

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“Be a better you, for you.”

— Sonya Teclai

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Can you give me tips on how to be a better person and Muslim

Control your anger.

Control your tongue.

Stop talking about other people, unless you are speaking good of them.

Give excuses to people.

Forgive people.

Remember your own short-comings before you think of another person’s.

Pray during the good times.

Do what your mother says, help her out immediately when she asks you to do something.

Don’t argue with people when you’re right. Shut your mouth when you’re wrong.

Help those in need.

When people ask you to do things, do them, don’t procrastinate, they’re relying on you.

Pray.

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A bittersweet conclusion to the blessed month of Ramadhan, what with everything that’s going on in the world right now. But Alhamdulillah still.

Ya Allah, forgive us of our shortcomings before and during this Ramadhan. Grant us full pardon for each minor and major sin that we’ve committed knowingly and unknowingly before and during Ramadhan.

Ya Allah, reward us for our deeds in accordance with the best of our intentions. Let us enter Jannah without any form of punishment and questioning.

Ya Allah, forgive our parents for any shortcomings before, during, and after this ramadhan. Please, elevate them in status and grant them good health.

Ya Allah, make us people of qur’an and make it a means by which we are relieved of our distress. Forgive us for our errors in recitation and increase us in knowledge about it.

Ya Allah, let us be amongst those who apply the qur’an and become elevated by it on judgment day.

Ya Allah, have mercy on our parents, forefathers, brothers, and sisters who have passed away. Let their graves be gardens of paradise, Ya Allah.

Ya Allah, grant Jannah to our loved ones and brothers and sisters who succumbed to Covid, and lift this whole pandemic from us.

Ya Allah, we call upon you for our brothers and sisters in Palestine. Aid them and hold back their oppressors.

Ya Allah, protect and liberate Masjid Al-Aqsa and its people.

Ya Allah, grant victory and relief to the oppressed believers in Yemen, India, China, Iraq, France, US and in other places across the world.

Ya Allah, let us experience Ramadhan once again next year and in the coming years, and let us experience it together with our loved ones.

Ya Allah, increase us in Taqwa and Sabr and make each of us become a source of goodness and dawah for every soul that we get to meet in this dunyah.

Ya Allah, grant us success in this world and in the hereafter. Let us be amongst the company of the prophets when they enter the gates of jannah.

Ya Allah, may paradise be written for all of us by You. Protect us from the torment of the fire and from the punishment of the grave.

Ya Allah, grant us a beautiful ending.

Taqaballahu minna wa minkum. May Allah accept (good deeds) from us and from you. May He shower His blessings upon us and our homes on this blessed day.

Eid mubarak! 🤍