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I need advice... I came out about five years ago, it was a hard time but everything has been great since. I have been in quite a few relationships, the last being great but ending bad. The last few weeks I have started talking to an old coworker again and I think I'm starting to develop feelings... The only issue, this old coworker is a girl. It took me a long time to come to terms with who I am and I know I am attracted to guys, I have never been attracted to girls until now, Idk what to think.

Here’s my take, and remember I’m just a guy that blogs on here and tries to give my opinion if asked. It’s gotta be hard coming to terms with being gay, living that and then all of a sudden liking someone of the opposite sex after thinking that you’re gay. I think if you have feelings for her, be totally honest and let her know about who you are, if she doesn’t already know. We never know who we’re going to fall in love with so maybe it’s just that you are not quite 100% gay. If you guys talk and agree to take that chance on each other, then good for you, we all want to find the love of our life, maybe for you its this girl. Be very careful though, you wouldn’t want to hurt her if you realize that you are in fact gay and can’t live in a straight relationship. The key is to be completely honest of your feelings. It’s ok if you’re in fact bi instead of gay. The only way you’re going to find out is to give it a chance. I hope you figure it all out without anyone getting hurt. Best of luck to you.

straightqueerfrance

That’s a very sensible answer Mike!

elishaalexzander

Hollysiz - The light [Clip Official]

When I say this music video is important, THAT, is simply all I can say. This song & the video, had me in full blown tears. DO NOT, let this video slip past your eyes.

-Elliott Alexzander

gaynchristian

Wow. This is powerful.

waistbandboy

Wow!

straightqueerfrance

I look at this and of course I want to share it with everybody. But most of all, I am grateful. I am grateful to see that there are a lot of gays that shared this and a lot of similar stories. In these times when the gays are finally about to win equal rights and are seen more and more as normal people (at least in the western world), what sharing this means is that we haven't forgotten the trans* community. The LGB have not forgotten the T, and that is so important!

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colinon

i read on you're other blog that you're atheist?! how come you dont believe in god?! i think god looks after me and you

You are matter come aware. You’re carbon, iron, hydrogen that thinks of itself. You are water that breathe, dirt that looks up at the stars at night, and know what they are.

You are the last link in a chain that goes uninterrupted billions and billions of years back. From the first glimmers of life in the primordial ooze to this point in time, you are part of a chain.

You are a walking archipelago of 37 trillion individual cells, Blood cells. Brain cells. White T cells. Every single one work together to make you you.You’re an animal, an ape that has clawed itself from the cycle of eat or be eaten by your intelligence and the knowledge of your troop. You are a human. You’ve won the life game, as far as it can be won.

You are a miracle. It’s a miracle that you’re here, now, unique among all the other humans that have lived, and unique among all the other humans that will ever be.

But you want to believe that a cheap magic trick done by the god of Iron Age goat herders snapping his fingers together made you? Hell no, you’re not that plain and cheap, and neither am I.

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dasenergi

Why not ask whether heterosexuality exists? Are there truly people out there who are so disgusted by the same sex that they’ve never had a dream, a thought, a moment of desire for another person of the same sex? If so, why do these people have such a revulsion? Is it cultural? Is it biological? Both? We take heterosexuality for granted, but we still don’t know if it truly exists. All primates (with the exception of humans) are bisexual. Bonobos and chimpanzees especially. In human societies that are not corrupted by homophobia or biphobia (see Greeks, Canaanites, and various modern tribes), the people are bisexual. I think heterosexuality should be assumed to be a cultural invention until proven otherwise.

Kevin Johnston (via dasenergi)

#thought

Awww

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By the way, this image was removed on Tumblr for violating their community guidelines regarding pornography. I kid you not. Welcome to America in the Brave New World…

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