styx / starry

they/he/star , radinclus / i make flags sometimes

[themfuckinanonsbro]

normalize knowing the diff between radqueer and radinclus

im not radqueer 💔

radqueer: accepting ALL identities and "sexualities", including paraphilias and transIDs.

radinclus: accepting all non harmful identities included in the lgbtqia+ community.

THERE'S A DIFFERENCE, ONE IS VALID

[styxstaric]

hi. lets not tag posts with “bpd” when its not related to bpd at all. thanks.

[gingers-emotes]

some more pride flags !! send us requests for what pride flags you want done && we can do em

here we have our lovely contradictory labels (and azurgirl and rosboy)

Turigirl

Lesboy

Gaybian

Azurgirl

Rosboy

Ply-Gay

Omni-Gay

Pan-Gay

Bi-Gay

Mspec-Gay

Ply-Lesbian

Omni-Lesbian

Pan-Lesbian

Bi-Lesbian

Mspec-Lesbian

[changeling-central]

I don't know how people have gotten things so backwards about polyminds but here's the sitch.

Polyminds can't be spreading misinformation about systems/dissociative disorders because they aren't systems and they aren't claiming to have CDDs.

Claiming polyminds are harming themselves by "purposefully dissociating their identity" is simultaneously perpetuating stigma against CDDs and ignoring the struggles the individual you're invalidating is going through that led them to this experience.

On that last note, ISF exists. And its OKAY that it is similar to how cdd systems present. Because cdd systems form. To help. You cope. Richard Schwartz noticed that verbally separating parts of someone's identity in to functional labels can not only help with emotional regulation and increase self empathy, but help identify past traumas and current struggles the individual might be overlooking due to high stress and emotional repression. The goal is the eventual collecting of these parts into one healed whole. Polyminds are using this framework to survive, cope, and heal where they have no other tools available. It's not the business of the system community to police their mental health and how they choose to verbalize their experiences.

Polyminds are not ripping off fictives by naming their parts after characters. Period. Everybody introjects. And if you can't see how someone, especially a traumatized or neurodivergent person, might feel comforted or empowered by representing a part of themselves by a character they love/relate to idk what to do with you. (This one really gets me going, y'all gotta stop being so gatekeepy puh-lease.)

If youre offended by the existence of polyminds its because youre approaching the situation in bad faith or with a chronic lack of information and a foolhardy attitude. You are the problem.

Rant over. If ur mad, get better opinions and please block me on your way out </3

Anybody is free to reblog and add to this, bad faith and disrespectful arguments will be deleted.

[styxstaric]

BUGic

Definition - A xenogender related to the song “BUG” by Kairikibear!

I’m not sure who coined this term (but im 100% sure it was coined) so consider this an alt flag!

tagging (ask to be removed): @radiomogai , @imoga-pride

[theslenderversesystem]

"as an autistic person, transautistic people will never be valid, who would want autism, it's genuinely disordering,"

I'm going to break this down into parts. Genuinely, as a cisautistic individual, I do believe that transautistic folks are valid.

1. Why won't they be valid? Is it just hidden transphobia? Your using the same arguments that individuals use against transgender folks, by the way.

2. Transautistic folks don't want autism, they are autistic unless they specify that they want it rather than are autistic.

3. Obviously it's disordering, like any other disorder is. They aren't watering that factor down at all and you have absolutely no proof that they are, anyways.

[styxstaric]

you genuinely need a minimum of 20 hours of screen time a week to come up with this shit. yall are just ableist as fuck. GROW UP.

you cant “transition” into autism. if you dont have autism, YOU DONT HAVE AUTISM. goddamn do you even have a brain?!?

also, just because something has “trans” in the name doesnt mean it’s comparable to transgender folks. i genuinely hate radshits trying to justify disgusting ableist shit with stupid ass arguments.

also. “oh a stupid ass label called “transautistic” doesnt water down a debilitating disability that some people struggle with every day” LETS BE SO FOR REAL. as an actual autistic person, you ableist shits can rot in the deepest pits of hell. youre not “transautistic” YOURE FUCKING ABLEIST.

[arcade-confetti]

Oh youre "nonbinary"? Can i put you in a box please. Can i pleaseeeee put you in a box. We have two boxes and i really wanna put you in one. But dont worry. My boxes are very Woke and Nuanced. So its fine to put you in one. Pleaseeeee. Wow... youre such a bitch... not letting me put into one of two nuanced and essential necessary boxes... you obviously go into the box all those evil bitches end up in

[hunny--hunny]

me saying i used to be a cis girl is not me misgendering myself. acknowledging my own fucking experiences isnt me misgendering myself.

[styxstaric]

”yeah so i identify as a lesbian trans man because of personal reasons i dont want to share.”

me: cool

random transandrophobe on tumblr: EW EW EW LESBIAN FETISHIST!!!! JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A VAGINA DOESNT MEAN YOU GET TO FORCE YOURSELF INTO LESBIAN SPACES!!!! EW EW A MAN PRETENDING TO BE A LESBIAN SO HE CAN HARM LESBIANS. EW I MUST SPEW TRANSPHOBIC TERF TUMBLR RHETORIC 𝓝𝓞𝓦. pt: now /end pt.

[wormipieee]

radqueers when you tell them that "transrace" or shit like that is incredibly racist and transphobic:

[styxstaric]

ANTI RADQUEER VENT UNDER THE CUT

if you genuinely support “transautistics” you arent “uplifting” youre just. fucking. ableist.

guess what!! transautistic isnt real, youre just neurotypical. NO, you arent experiencing “transautistic dysphoria” youre just chronically online. genuinely, what is wrong with you sick fucks?? when will you seriously start taking actual autistic people seriously? all of you are ableist. genuinely fuck off if you support “transautism” youre FUCKING DISGUSTING. do you know how many autistic people, much like myself, pretty much suffer every. single. day. because of a disability WE CANNOT CONTROL?? BUT YOU MAKE IT SEEM LIKE AUTISM IS JUST A SILLY LABEL TO PLAY AROUND WITH?? HELLO?. YOU people are the reason there is so much stigma around autism and youre making the queer and trans community look like a joke. “TRANSautistic” can we genuinely log off for a moment?? like seriously?? you cannot TRANSITION into a fucking DISABILITY you dont HAVE. thats just called ableism. fuck ALL of you. fuck radqueers, fuck ableists, fuck transautistics, fuck harmful transIDs. i hate ALL of you. “wah wah someone on tumblr told me to fuck myself” yeah maybe get a fucking grip with reality you sick shit, then maybe ill take you seriously.

[styxstaric]

cupifluxaegosexual

pt: cupifluxaegosexual. /end pt.

pronounced cupi - flux - aego - sexual

definition: literally having no idea what your ace identity is but knowing its somehow cupiosexual, aceflux, and maybe even possibly aegosexual. but who knows

coined by me, ace version request from anon. off site archival is allowed, just credit me and dont reword or change the definition

[styxstaric]

cupifluxaegoromantic

pt: cupifluxaegoromantic. /end pt

pronounced cupi - flux - aego - romantic

coined by me

definition: literally having no idea what your aro identity is but knowing its somehow cupiromantic, aroflux, and maybe even possibly aegoromantic. but who knows

i know i know. hyperspecific but its for personal use. anyone can use. off site archival is allowed, just credit me and dont change or reword the definition

[my-epiphany]

if you're queer YOU HAVE to support contradictory labels i am no longer asking.

they do not do anything to harm you. the trans man that lives in Yemen doesn't care you don't think lesbian trans men cannot be possible.

lesbian man, mspec lesbian, gaybian, gay girl, and all of that doesn't need YOU to see them as possible to be able to exist. you cannot try to make yourself look good while policing people's identities

[styxstaric]

i love lesbian trans men. i love sapphic trans men. i love lesbian + sapphic boys. i love lesboys, he/him lesbians, and transmasc lesbians. i love butch lesbians and boy dykes. I LOVE LESBIANS

[reebroswaifu]

cis turigirl & cis lesboy

Cis turigirl: when one is a turigirl (girl/fem with a queer attraction to men) and also a cis girl/AFAB, this can also be used when one is AFAB and multigender

Cis lesboy: when one is a lesboy (guy/masc who identifies as a lesbian) and also a cis guy/AMAB, this can also be used when one is AMAB and multigender

I do not gaf about ur opinons, this post is muted so hate will be ignored ✌️😂

Flags without the gender symbols under cut

[styxstaric]

MysticFlourCookieCharic

[PT: mystic flour cookie charic. /end PT]

definition: a -charic xenogender related to mystic flour cookie’s illustrations from crk :)

flags made by me.

top left is just the base, top right is 2 star, bottom left is 4 star, and bottom right is 6 star.

i am 97% sure this was already coined so consider these alt flags!